idk

United States

#1 Jun 17, 2012
Can a relationship work when trust is such a major issue?
wow

Forrest City, AR

#2 Jun 17, 2012
not really.
Matthew Overturf

United States

#4 Jun 17, 2012
who told my wife i sucked off our son
guest

Wylie, TX

#6 Jun 17, 2012
idk wrote:
Can a relationship work when trust is such a major issue?
Sounds like your married and whoring around with the boss or coworkers or past coworkers. Do you stay on Facebook chat or do you text your lovers or potential lovers. Well if your doing all this then yes trust is an issue. Are you lying to cover up a lie or lies? You may have created a problem you can't fix because that person or persons may come to dislike or hate. Just don't lie. How many times you been married?
erin overturf

United States

#7 Jun 17, 2012
guest wrote:
<quoted text> Sounds like your married and whoring around with the boss or coworkers or past coworkers. Do you stay on Facebook chat or do you text your lovers or potential lovers. Well if your doing all this then yes trust is an issue. Are you lying to cover up a lie or lies? You may have created a problem you can't fix because that person or persons may come to dislike or hate. Just don't lie. How many times you been married?
first marriage- its a starter marriage under a year
idk

United States

#8 Jun 17, 2012
guest wrote:
<quoted text>Sounds like your married and whoring around with the boss or coworkers or past coworkers. Do you stay on Facebook chat or do you text your lovers or potential lovers. Well if your doing all this then yes trust is an issue. Are you lying to cover up a lie or lies? You may have created a problem you can't fix because that person or persons may come to dislike or hate. Just don't lie. How many times you been married?
it's not me that cheated. I'm trying to get over being cheated on.
CHANCE

Macať, Brazil

#9 Oct 16, 2012
Trust is the most important aspect of any relationship, especially one involving sex. I am not going to tell you that a relationship cant be fixed after the trust is broken, but it is extremely hard. Once the trust is broken on either side it leads to more problems. You will begin to investigate his/her every move. You will find yourself wondering if he/she is where they say there are and if they are doing what they say they are doing. Trust is more powerful than love. Lies are bad enough in a relationship but the worst part about a lie is that you cant trust anything said from that point forward. To be trusted is a grater compliment than to be loved. I have recently had to deal with majior trust issues from my spouse for three years about her lying to me about her ex, erased phone calls or txt msgs, and even smaller stuff. Take it from my experience. If you are being lied to or cheated on this early in the relationship, it will continue and you will be in a world of hurt and anger. A relationship is built on trust and once that is broken, it will never be the same again. I am currently in divorce process due to this very reason and my advice to you is the same. There is someone out there that will honor you and live up to their vows. I cant say it enough, without trust you have no relationship. It is extremely hard to let go, but think of it this way. You have been together a year and you already find yourself wondering and doubting your self worth. Do you want to continue with things getting worse (and they will) or do you want to find someone that will honor and cherish their commitment to you and you only. I hope this helps.
guest

United States

#10 Oct 25, 2012
CHANCE wrote:
Trust is the most important aspect of any relationship, especially one involving sex. I am not going to tell you that a relationship cant be fixed after the trust is broken, but it is extremely hard. Once the trust is broken on either side it leads to more problems. You will begin to investigate his/her every move. You will find yourself wondering if he/she is where they say there are and if they are doing what they say they are doing. Trust is more powerful than love. Lies are bad enough in a relationship but the worst part about a lie is that you cant trust anything said from that point forward. To be trusted is a grater compliment than to be loved. I have recently had to deal with majior trust issues from my spouse for three years about her lying to me about her ex, erased phone calls or txt msgs, and even smaller stuff. Take it from my experience. If you are being lied to or cheated on this early in the relationship, it will continue and you will be in a world of hurt and anger. A relationship is built on trust and once that is broken, it will never be the same again. I am currently in divorce process due to this very reason and my advice to you is the same. There is someone out there that will honor you and live up to their vows. I cant say it enough, without trust you have no relationship. It is extremely hard to let go, but think of it this way. You have been together a year and you already find yourself wondering and doubting your self worth. Do you want to continue with things getting worse (and they will) or do you want to find someone that will honor and cherish their commitment to you and you only. I hope this helps.
I have to agree. I lived with a man for months, believed all his words.then i found out he was lying and cheating the whole time. It is hard to handle. My heart still cares but i cannot trust him ever again! When they lie and cheat it make the whole relationship a lie. I have closed the door and moved on, he now spends his spare time in little village getting drunk alone. It is a sad life for him.

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#11 Oct 25, 2012
erin overturf wrote:
<quoted text>first marriage- its a starter marriage under a year
What does "starter marriage" mean? Sounds like training wheels or something?? "Just getting my feet wet, getting the hang of it, then I'll move on to my REAL marriage." What?!

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