Frustration

United States

#1 Feb 9, 2013
I have a step daughter that is mid 20, married with a small child. Neither has a job and are living with my wife and i .and have been for several months!
I work every day to support my family but i don't feel it is my place to support these two, the grand child can't help that thing are the way they are and i would never put her out, but as for the grown kids it's time for them to GO!!!!!what should i do?
Good luck

Jacksonville, AR

#2 Feb 9, 2013
You should first talk to your wife, if you have not already, and tell her your concerns. Tell her that you believe you are doing the daughter and her husband no favors by not teaching them a valuable lesson on paying their own way and providing for the child they brough in the world. You two then need to come to an agreement of how to go forward and set a timeline on doing it. You should NOT say to the step-daughter that it is time for her and her family to get out! Make it a joint effort between you and your wife.
guest

United States

#3 Feb 9, 2013
Frustration wrote:
I have a step daughter that is mid 20, married with a small child. Neither has a job and are living with my wife and i .and have been for several months!
I work every day to support my family but i don't feel it is my place to support these two, the grand child can't help that thing are the way they are and i would never put her out, but as for the grown kids it's time for them to GO!!!!!what should i do?
wow your in trouble when your wife reads this .lololyou should never go to a public forum like this for advise hahaha.
Frustration

United States

#4 Feb 9, 2013
Thank you (good luck)
NAPPYsays Dare 2B Urself

United States

#5 Feb 9, 2013
Put them OUT! You are an enabler. They are adults and probably in good health. She has a husband who is not working and Mueller is trying to hire? Both should be working and they don't have the option of being choosy. Furthermore, you probably already know that. You are the man of your house. If they won't get a job and pay you rent, put them OUT. You are enabling grown folks to be deadbeats right in front of their daughter. That will be her normal. You are teaching her exactly how to be a bum. You raise your children at home with you till they are 18. Then it's time for them to move on, either to continue their education with your help if possible or to get a job and become self-sufficient. Then it's time for you to have a little relaxation because befor long your parents will need your assistance and you owe them. Once a man and twice a child. Those young adults are in the summer season of their life. The time when they should be out working, buying a home, raising their children, making a life for themselves and storing away for the time when they will be unable to work or like Bishop T.D. Jakes said the time when hardly anyone these days will want to hire you-the fall season of life-you know, 40 and older.

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NAPPYsays Dare 2B Urself

United States

#6 Feb 9, 2013
Hmmm, I don't know where that word 'Comments' came from on the above post.
Frustration

United States

#7 Feb 9, 2013
Thank you ( nappy says)

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#8 Feb 11, 2013
NAPPYsays Dare 2B Urself wrote:
Hmmm, I don't know where that word 'Comments' came from on the above post.
I do,)
guest

United States

#9 Feb 11, 2013
Dont play in traffic
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3rd time around

United States

#11 Jun 25, 2013
I know exactly what u mean i had to kick my wifes kids out and i dont want the ill mannerd at our house csuse they are disrespectful just a few days ago i told her 23 year old son had to go kill himself somewhere else not gonna happen at our house needless to say he's still walking around saying it and 5 days later she told me she loved me and while i was at work she packed all her shit up left me so u have to stand ur ground and dont breast feed cause they won't never leave the tittie
guest

Jonesboro, AR

#12 Jun 25, 2013
NAPPYsays Dare 2B Urself wrote:
She has a husband who is not working and Mueller is trying to hire?
Mueller is trying to hire? Did not know that? Through what avenue are they trying to hire through?
I know nothing of this situation that this topic is about but would love to get back to wynne so i could be closer to my aging parents. Getting older and my parents getting older is something that i did not think of when i was young and stupid and looking to get out of wynne just because i thought that there were better things outside of wynne.
I have many years of factory experience and forklift experience.
Nappys Friend

Ballwin, MO

#13 Jun 25, 2013
Nappy would know that Mueller is hiring because her husband Lenden Wynn works in Maintenance.
guest

United States

#14 Jun 26, 2013
Nappys Friend wrote:
Nappy would know that Mueller is hiring because her husband Lenden Wynn works in Maintenance.
they are not hiring.nap dont knew everthing
Amused

Sherwood, AR

#15 Jun 26, 2013
It's been in the paper for a while now. An experienced machine maintenance man, I think, is what they were looking for when I saw it last. They do their own hiring, I believe. Just call and get in touch with Brenda Kelley. Or just go up there and fill out an application. Never hurts to try.

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