Lapage Accused Of Having Sex With Teen Girl

There are 66 comments on the Ogdensburg Courier-Observer/Journal story from Mar 3, 2011, titled Lapage Accused Of Having Sex With Teen Girl. In it, Ogdensburg Courier-Observer/Journal reports that:

A Sanfordville man was charged Tuesday with a felony count of rape for allegedly having sex with a 14-year-old female.

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Here kitty kitty

Syracuse, NY

#43 Mar 15, 2011
Rape is also defined by age. Otherwise we wouldnt have this lovely topic. If it were only through "force", then we'd have no age restriction and the law wouldnt protect drunk/drugged females.
Im not saying she wasnt willing, BUT hes at fault, because he was the adult in the situation. She is SUPPOSE to know better. He DID know better. He knew if he was caught, the consequences he'd face. And she knew she'd face no trouble at all!
So bruce was outsmarted by a 14yr old.
Proud he must be.
scumsniper

Contoocook, NH

#44 Mar 15, 2011
lets get real wrote:
Too many teen girls get away with this bullshit. Why dont we start arresting them as well for engaging in an illegal activity. Lots of girls consent to sex with older guys and then cry rape...yes either way he is in the wrong but come on people how many guys are considered sex offenders for sleeping with a 16 year old when they are 19? Now the state lables them for life???? WTF!!!!!
Its a child it is rape you retard wt f is wrong with you?
scumsniper

Contoocook, NH

#45 Mar 15, 2011
i do know him wrote:
I agree that the girl is a slut!! For the person who says that there is no difference between a 4yr old and a 14yr old, ur wrong, a 14 yr old has been through puberty and a 4yr old doesnt even know what puberty is!! You must of went 2 Potsdam school. She took off her own clothes. I was that age when i started having sex nd the guy was in his late 20's. I knew what I was doing. I was willing. When you are willing, it is not rape. Here you are, the definition of rape:the unlawful compelling of a woman through physical force or duress to have sexual intercourse;any act of sexual intercourse that is forced upon a person;to force to have sexual intercourse!! There was no force!! definition of consensual:performed with the consent of all parties involved!! I've known him all my life, and no he doesn't go out seeking young girls. He is really a good person. People make mistakes, they learn from them. He has been there for me and my family. And when he gets out, my family and I will be there for him. Any1 who knows him and has ever considered him a friend knows how good of a person he is. And if he was your friend and your talking crap about him now, then I am so glad I don't have friends like you!!
just because your ok with being raised as a neglected ignorant maury povich contestant doesnt make it ..normal. Its tardfs like you who end up passing the child abuse hertitage onto other kids because you are soo foked up yourself
scumsniper

Contoocook, NH

#46 Mar 15, 2011
small town wrote:
She was probly a lil cock tease any perent that lets there kid dress like a slut, i think the girl and her perents had it comming, i have a daughter too and no way in hell would i let her go around dressing like lil horrors,blame the perents. no control over there kid!!!!!! and you cant ever rape the willing in north carolina you can marry at 14 unfortunally for him wrong state!!!!!!
you shouldnt have kids they have a father attracted to children . There is no such thing as dressing like a slut ..if peices of clothing give you an erection I would say you need an evalutaion ..Does the beach make you ejaculate in your speedos much? You are a prime canidate for castration and removal of your own daughters ..gross
agree

Newark, NJ

#48 Mar 15, 2011
Totally agree with scumsniper!!!
i do know him

Syracuse, NY

#49 Mar 15, 2011
you no wut scumsniper, ur name fits u "scum"!! I think u splattered some "crap" on this page. My daughter knows this girl, luckly she never hung around her. Why, cuz she is a sl**, act like a sl**, dress like a sl**, is a sl**. She was also with another older man around the same time. hello.... a sl**!! Just because you get off at the beach by looking at little kids, doesnt mean every1 else does. I would hope that you dont have any kids. I think you need to get all the facts "scum"

Since: Mar 11

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#50 Mar 18, 2011
Here kitty kitty wrote:
Rape is also defined by age. Otherwise we wouldnt have this lovely topic. If it were only through "force", then we'd have no age restriction and the law wouldnt protect drunk/drugged females.
Im not saying she wasnt willing, BUT hes at fault, because he was the adult in the situation. She is SUPPOSE to know better. He DID know better. He knew if he was caught, the consequences he'd face. And she knew she'd face no trouble at all!
So bruce was outsmarted by a 14yr old.
Proud he must be.
Yup.
SetItStraight

Potsdam, NY

#51 Mar 28, 2011
Okay people, here's the deal from a legal perspective from someone who can spell and has an education level higher than 6th grade. In NYS, you can't have sex with anyone under 17. That's the law. If you are under 17, it's illegal and the adult who is over 17 should know better. It doesn't matter how the girl dresses, where her parents are, or anything else. And in most cases like this, the girl doesn't "cry rape". If the police, or anyone else, find out what has been going on, the state prosecutes through the district attorney's office. The victim doesn't have to file charges, and in most cases they don't. The state does because it's illegal. And children, defined by the law as being under age 17, are not considered legally able to consent, even if they do "want it". Neither are those with mental retardation or those under the influence of alcohol or drugs. The adult or person who IS legally able to consent is responsible for saying no. That's the law. Learn it. Obey it. Don't mess around with kids and you won't get arrested. And shame on all of you for saying such horrible things about a young girl and not seeing what is wrong with an ADULT male engaging in such activities with her. All of you who are defending him clearly have bigger problems of your own.
yaok

Syracuse, NY

#52 Mar 28, 2011
and thats y your dumb
the guy is sick

Syracuse, NY

#53 Mar 28, 2011
i do know him, what if it was your daughter? she is that age. if it was her you would not be thinking he is a great guy. just admit it everyone, the guy is wrong and is a sick man. he needs a lot of help!
RTHesEppls4Real

United States

#54 Mar 28, 2011
Wat the HEll! Is this a forum 4ppls tht R on meganList! WTF she's 14teen N his a grown a**Man! U sick F*cks need 2hope u don't get caught... U will not b saying tht mess to ur cellie bubba when he's talling u "wat U bent @the knees" ur leading me on so I felt free to take it!
Confused 1

United States

#55 Mar 28, 2011
i do know him wrote:
you no wut scumsniper, ur name fits u "scum"!! I think u splattered some "crap" on this page. My daughter knows this girl, luckly she never hung around her. Why, cuz she is a sl**, act like a sl**, dress like a sl**, is a sl**. She was also with another older man around the same time. hello.... a sl**!! Just because you get off at the beach by looking at little kids, doesnt mean every1 else does. I would hope that you dont have any kids. I think you need to get all the facts "scum"
you had me @1st until u started calling a 14yrold kid a slut! So ur saying wat? Tht if a 14yrold kid looks N acts like a slut! Thn itks OKAY 4a grown A** man to have sex wit her! N u have a daughter? Dam thn u better hope U as a father pays enough attention, gives enough affection N praise 2ur daughter! Or Statistics say u might b raising ur self " wat's the word u so boldly wrote more thn 1nce" O'ya SLUT!!!!!!!!!!
Priceless

Syracuse, NY

#56 Mar 29, 2011
true wrote:
obviously she knows what to do with whats between her legs. so yes hold her responsible.
LOL. Despite the law, 14 or not, she is presenting herself as a slut who also should know better. FOR SURE hold him accountable but if she needs to screw older guys to feel good about herself, then she needs to be held accountable for willingly breaking the law as well. What you idiots are arguing is "she's just a child" and HE should know better. This is defintely true but SHE should also. 14 yr olds are f*ckin multiple people and they know that they are not at a legal age to have sex, according to the LAW.

And for the record: 14 yr olds are cognitively aware of what "sex" is. 4 year old's do not understand sexual boundaries. It's disgusting that men engage in these activities but a 14 yr old is old enough to understand right and wrong.
True

Syracuse, NY

#57 Mar 29, 2011
I would have to agree with Priceless.
dodo

Syracuse, NY

#58 Mar 30, 2011
Blame the parents! It works every time.
like

Ithaca, NY

#59 Mar 30, 2011
The parents are partly to blame. They should be watching who she is with. And should be teaching her not to put herself in the spot of being raped. So sorry I do believe this little girl obviously was looking for something! Sorry if you don't like my opinion!
Owen hart

Brooklyn, NY

#60 Mar 30, 2011
Most 14 yr olds dont bang old men. And if they do its probably because she WAS molested when she was 4.
Real

Syracuse, NY

#61 Mar 30, 2011
Speaking of young teenagers banging old men, anyone seen a recent episode of Shameless? haha.
dont worry who i am

Syracuse, NY

#62 Mar 30, 2011
WTF wrote:
Are you people for real? Any man who lacks the self control to say no to a 14 year old, should be castrated. Whether she "led him on" or not.
U KNOW WHAT A 14 YR OLD HAS A MIND OF THERE OWN I DONT CARE WHAT ANYONE SAYS ABOUT IT CUZ I KNOW AT 14 YRS OLD I WAS INVOLVED WITH A OLDER MAN AND IN MY EYES IT WASNT HER FIRST TIME SHE HAS BEEN WITH OTHER OLDER MEN THEN HIM AND HE IS WHERE HE IS CUZ IT TORE HIM UP INSIDE
dont worry who i am

Syracuse, NY

#63 Mar 30, 2011
[QUOTE who="you are all sick!!!"]You are all sick and have no idea what this guy is like. It wasn't one girl it was several girls he had over playing them to be his daughters friends. He is sick and deserves to rot in jail. Any man who calls himself the bunny daddy has issues.[/QUOTE]

dont know where u got your info from but it was only the one girl not many so before u go talking shit get your facts straight jerk

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