Comments
1 - 7 of 7 Comments Last updated Jun 28, 2013
Green eyes

Winnfield, LA

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#1
Jun 27, 2013
 
I want to know if my man would cheat. I have made fake accounts and phone numbers and messaged him. He did talk, but when I told him I knew he said he was bored or just messing around. He is on to me now, so I really need a new plan. I am thinking about setting him up to see if he really would cheat. Like getting a female to talk to him in person, and give him "her number" and it will really be a new second number of mine. I need to know for sure. I am wondering if it would be wrong or what?
question

Oklahoma City, OK

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#2
Jun 27, 2013
 
Would you want him to set you up like this? If you trust in him, then trust him. Else end the relationship. Lady's that do this stuff have low self esteem and can never be in a relationship for very long. If you have to worry about him cheating, then be alone. It's easier. There's not a man living that wants a mistrustful woman. Stop worrying about him. Support and love him. Remember, not all guys cheat. Men really do want a relationship but you have to want it too. You don't have to control everything and certainly not him.
Green eyes wrote:
I want to know if my man would cheat. I have made fake accounts and phone numbers and messaged him. He did talk, but when I told him I knew he said he was bored or just messing around. He is on to me now, so I really need a new plan. I am thinking about setting him up to see if he really would cheat. Like getting a female to talk to him in person, and give him "her number" and it will really be a new second number of mine. I need to know for sure. I am wondering if it would be wrong or what?
Green eyes

Winnfield, LA

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#3
Jun 27, 2013
 
We have been together for eight years and the first six years I never worried about him cheating. He never even looked the way of another female. I never looked through his phone, accused him of anything or thought that he was or ever would. One day when he came home from work his phone went off, I always replied to his texts. "It's always his family or friends" I replied and hit the back button, it was texts from and to a female, one text hurt the most he said, "I wish I was your man, I would treat you like a queen" (he chased me for a year before I said yes to date him, and he said those same words to me and did treat me like a queen) I looked through his phone after that and found a picture of them. He said he did it because he likes the attention. A year after that we broke up for two month, he was texting his friends girl and going to her house.(fine we was broken up) When we got back together is when I found out about her and heard all kind of stuff.(he denied it) So, I got a fake number messaged him as her and he was talking to her like they was going to hook up. I do love him, we have a family together. However after that I just can not seem to trust him, it does make me feel bad, because he probably will not put up with me accusing him much longer. Sorry it's so long, but it's hard for me and I need advice.
question

Oklahoma City, OK

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#4
Jun 27, 2013
 
Green eyes wrote:
We have been together for eight years and the first six years I never worried about him cheating. He never even looked the way of another female. I never looked through his phone, accused him of anything or thought that he was or ever would. One day when he came home from work his phone went off, I always replied to his texts. "It's always his family or friends" I replied and hit the back button, it was texts from and to a female, one text hurt the most he said, "I wish I was your man, I would treat you like a queen" (he chased me for a year before I said yes to date him, and he said those same words to me and did treat me like a queen) I looked through his phone after that and found a picture of them. He said he did it because he likes the attention. A year after that we broke up for two month, he was texting his friends girl and going to her house.(fine we was broken up) When we got back together is when I found out about her and heard all kind of stuff.(he denied it) So, I got a fake number messaged him as her and he was talking to her like they was going to hook up. I do love him, we have a family together. However after that I just can not seem to trust him, it does make me feel bad, because he probably will not put up with me accusing him much longer. Sorry it's so long, but it's hard for me and I need advice.
If you don't trust him, there is no relationship. You are just fooling yourself into thinking there is. My momma once said if he cheats once, he will cheat again. Do what you really want to. If you feel worthless, then stay. If you feel you are a woman of worth, leave and find a real man. Only little boys play. But remember if you leave, don't make another man pay for what HE did. In a real relationship, You have to trust or don't be in a relationship.
question

Oklahoma City, OK

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#5
Jun 27, 2013
 
One more thing....you said in your original post that you wonder if your man would cheat. Hummmm...I believe you already have your answer in your second post. If you're wanting validation, just read your own explanation in your second post.
oakly

Folsom, LA

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#6
Jun 28, 2013
 
I'm not for divorce but get proof n leave because cheating doesn't start with sex. If he's talking and texting women in an unappropriate way then he already is
question

Oklahoma City, OK

|
Report Abuse
|
Judge it!
|
#7
Jun 28, 2013
 
oakly wrote:
I'm not for divorce but get proof n leave because cheating doesn't start with sex. If he's talking and texting women in an unappropriate way then he already is
She already has proof.

Tell me when this thread is updated: (Registration is not required)

Add to my Tracker Send me an email

Type in your comments below
Name
(appears on your post)
Comments
Characters left: 4000
Type the numbers you see in the image on the right:

Please note by clicking on "Post Comment" you acknowledge that you have read the Terms of Service and the comment you are posting is in compliance with such terms. Be polite. Inappropriate posts may be removed by the moderator. Send us your feedback.

9 Users are viewing the Winnfield Forum right now

Search the Winnfield Forum:
Title Updated Last By Comments
LA Who do you support for U.S. Senate in Louisiana... (Oct '10) 1 hr Living Wage 2,950
Jessica sullivan 12 hr Yummy 3
Keep a word/Drop a word Game... (May '12) 12 hr Trouser Cough 1,713
Lets play - follow the word! (Aug '11) 12 hr Trouser Cough 2,791
Add a word drop a word (Feb '10) 12 hr Trouser Cough 1,586
??WHAT??A NEW word game FOUR WORDS (Oct '11) 12 hr Trouser Cough 1,062
Last 3 Letters Into 3 New Words (Mar '11) 12 hr Trouser Cough 1,469
•••
•••
•••
•••

Winnfield Jobs

•••
Enter and win $5000
•••
•••

Winnfield People Search

Addresses and phone numbers for FREE

•••

Winnfield News, Events & Info

Click for news, events and info in Winnfield
•••

Personal Finance

Mortgages [ See current mortgage rates ]
•••