Grandma, I can tell that you love your grandson very much and I don't blame you for being upset about all of this.The damage was caused when a car hit him. The school does know all about it. Yes he is falling behind in his grades, but every-time we ask for help, we are refused because of the kind of testing they do. He falls just above the line, yet when tested in the Dr office he does not. The testing does not take into account of how long he can stay focused and other issues. If he is taught more one on one he can learn a lot, he is smart just needs more help than some of the others. The more he falls behind the more frustrated he gets when trying to do his work then. It makes it a no win for him then. He is labeled a trouble maker just trying to take up for himself now when being called names and other kids pushing him and knowing they will get by with it and get him into trouble. He has gone and told the teachers that someone is bother and picking on him because we have worked hard trying to teach him to do this, and yes the teacher will just ignore him telling her and then when he does push back he is the one she will punish. I do not care whose child is done this way it is wrong for the children, they are being taught wrong behavior by the very people who are suppose to be teaching them good things. Just like when this happened the mother tried to call and make a appointment to go and see the head of the school board and they will not return calls to get this investigated, not that I think it would be a fair one now at all. This teacher has now gone to other teachers at school and told them to watch out for this child he is trying to cause me problems, now why if a teacher is innocent would they do that ? Yes another child heard him telling another teacher this and when the child said now wait a minute you did do that to him, that child got into trouble. So yes some of the children in the class did see it happen. I do not know if they all did, but some did and we have talked to them, so this is just not our childs version of what happened. Really the other children told more of what happened than ours, he was so scared he did not remember all of it and the other children added all of what happened to it. Yes the mother went to the principle too and nothing has happened. So while trying to teach ours the correct way to live he is not getting good examples at all right now in his life. If anyone else knows who we can talk to and get more help for him then please do tell us, we are willing to try anything as long as it will help him. I know I am speaking for the mother here too as we both want to help him all we can.
Keep telling your grandson how wonderful he is and encourage him to do the right thing. He is important!!!! He did not do anything to deserve to be treated this way.
If I were in your shoes, I would get the police involved they will investigate. I would also get an attorney. The school board might be more interested if they know they might have a lawsuit on their hands.
Also, try this website, dailystrength.org there are people with similar problems and you can get advise on how others deal with similar situations.
Good luck and remember your grandson is VERY important, and special, and wonderful, and keep telling him that....
If in fact the teachers keep treating him like a troublemaker shame on them!! These people really do make a difference in peoples lives, they can make a lasting impact on a young persons' life.