What do I Do? My Wife Left Me...

What do I Do? My Wife Left Me...

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Since: Apr 10

Winchester, KY

#1 Apr 27, 2010
My wife left me because I was acting childish about life. Cant blame her for it. But I do love her and I believe that I can make a difference. She is my heart. We have 2 beautiful baby girls together and everything. I have backed off and I am giving her the break she has asked me for. Do you think things will get better and we will work things out? I feel that she still loves me and that she still cares for me. But I dont know if she wants me to be a part of her life... Please help. What can I do to get my baby girl back... My heart and my soul... She is my world, my everything.. What are everyone elses opinion on it....
AGurl

Winchester, KY

#2 Apr 27, 2010
Hey, well I've definitely been in this situation. The best thing u can do is give her the space she's asked for. And while ur being distant like she's asked..do something productive and show her you're really serious about ur family and life. She'll be back in no time. Good Luck!!:)
lol

Fort Branch, IN

#3 Apr 27, 2010
get off topix, quit whining, be a man and grow the F up!

“Nuff said!”

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#4 Apr 27, 2010
If she simply won't come back to you then let her file for divorce and come back and sue her for alimony.
what

Louisville, KY

#5 Apr 28, 2010
first of all what exactly did you do, because acting childish is not a reason for leaving someone your married to, thats something you leave a boyfriend for. Do you work, do you help around the house, do you help with the kids? I dont understand my husbands a bit childish but I knew he was like that before I married him.People are so easily willing to leave someone there married to over little silly crap. Marriage is for life, not untill Im sick of you.
because

Lexington, KY

#6 Apr 28, 2010
women will usually do everything they can to make things work and when it fails over and over, they give up and walk away from it. and when they finally do leave, they are really GONE. maybe you should have tried harder when you were with her and not taken her for granted?

“Nuff said!”

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#7 Apr 28, 2010
because wrote:
women will usually do everything they can to make things work and when it fails over and over, they give up and walk away from it. and when they finally do leave, they are really GONE. maybe you should have tried harder when you were with her and not taken her for granted?
thats a good post
Isnt Dreas Dull

United States

#8 Apr 28, 2010
Two words...

Penile implant.
Umm

Louisville, KY

#9 Apr 28, 2010
Well, I'm single (hint)
Peter B Hangin

South Holland, IL

#10 Apr 28, 2010
Celebrate !!!!!!!!!!
walking away

Lexington, KY

#11 Apr 28, 2010
http://www.divorcenet.com/states/nationwide/t...

more and more common, better wake up fellas! how many chances do ya think you get with a good woman?????
Isnt Dreas Dull

United States

#12 Apr 28, 2010
Fellas? I think the OP is the only "fella" boo-hoo'n over a female. The census says there are 5,600 more females than males in Lexington.

I figure, I haven't even made a dent.... yet.
fair enough

Newport, KY

#13 Apr 28, 2010
Isnt Dreas Dull wrote:
Fellas? I think the OP is the only "fella" boo-hoo'n over a female. The census says there are 5,600 more females than males in Lexington.
I figure, I haven't even made a dent.... yet.
I feel sorry for any "fella" who doesn't know how or has never cared enough to "boo-hoo over a female". That's sad and you don't even know how sad it is.
PLAYER

Winchester, KY

#14 Apr 28, 2010
Sounds like to me if your wife left you for being childish i think she may have another man.Im a woman and sometimes you like a little play in a relationship.To keep the spark sounds like your a good man to be on topix asking for advice cause everyone has problems in their relationship.So if you want your wife and family go try and talk to her and if she dont want to work it out then move on cause she probally is seeing someone else and dont know how to tell you.
POWELL COUNTY KID

United States

#15 Apr 28, 2010
she's seeing me and your out of the picture boy
Annie

Winchester, KY

#16 Apr 28, 2010
Give her time and space. Don't bug the crap out of her. Change your life for the better.

She's not going to come back to the same-old crap. If you're going to sit around moping over her then all you will get from her is pity and pity will turn to hate. If you have a crappy job then look for a better one. Improve your appearance and GET A LIFE. Women hate it when men sit around in front of the TV drinking beer. Find a hobby, volunteer - do something constructive. And like I said before - DO NOT BUG THE CRAP OUT OF HER.

It won't be easy but hang in there.
Isnt Dreas Dull

United States

#17 Apr 29, 2010
Don't take advise on women, from women. What you need to do is... STFU, stop groveling and begging! Move on with your life, be happy. If she feels anything for you, seeing you perfectly happy without her will drive her nuts till she returns. If not, oh well. Get over it. Nobody like a whiner, OP.
Ram2n

Barcelona, Spain

#18 Oct 17, 2013
My girlfriend of 4 years dropped me the bomb with the “I need space, Its not you its me” song and dance. Needless to say, I was completely heartbroken and destroyed and didn’t know who to turn to or ask for advice because everyone was saying different things and nobody actually knew our relationship.
Then i found a guy talking about an amazing program that helped him a lot findind the formula to be with her girlfriend again. At that moment I was so depresed and I decided to give a chance to that program and... That's the best thing I could have done!! Now I'm back with my beautyful girlfriend and we're really happy together :)

Take a look at it: http://textyourexback.co.nf

I'm sure that it can help you the way it helped me and the guy who told me about it :)

Since: Feb 13

Westmoreland, TN

#19 Oct 17, 2013
Hearts are never really broken. They still beat.
Instead, egos are damaged. Pride is compromised.
>
Time will heal if you let it.
>
Years ago I felt the loss of losing someone, yet now that pain does not bother me.
>
If I lose someone today, then years from now that pain will not bother me either_{:
ELMER

Paris, KY

#20 Oct 17, 2013
Annie wrote:
Give her time and space. Don't bug the crap out of her. Change your life for the better.
She's not going to come back to the same-old crap. If you're going to sit around moping over her then all you will get from her is pity and pity will turn to hate. If you have a crappy job then look for a better one. Improve your appearance and GET A LIFE. Women hate it when men sit around in front of the TV drinking beer. Find a hobby, volunteer - do something constructive. And like I said before - DO NOT BUG THE CRAP OUT OF HER.
It won't be easy but hang in there.
Don't listen to this. When they start the space and time bull. It's over. You can beat yourself up or you can move on. The space and time crap in nothing more than a white trash dodge of the truth! Truth is she don't need you any more.

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