dick57

Pikeville, KY

#23 Nov 19, 2012
noone wrote:
Thanks everyone for your advice. I didnt start this thread but it got sidetracked on me. "Just me" said on post #14 that are actions break up friendships. If my actions wasnt pleasing to this person it was either because I didnt hear what they were telling me right away,(sometimes takes 2-3 times if you dont speak up to me) or they didnt tell me one. I am midly hearing impaired, never shared that with this person because I was embrassed. I am SORRY if I done anything wrong it was total accident. I am easy going person and I wouldnt do anything to upset anyone if I can help it.
you sound like a good person to me dont ever let another human beig get you so lowwwwwwwwwwwwwww to somone youre worth the world
Just Wondering

Stanford, KY

#24 Nov 19, 2012
give up wrote:
<quoted text>
wow it's like we live the same life. I'm a dad raising my son on my own with absolutely no help at all! Yes bills are the most part alone with 60 hour work weeks . Daycare. If it wasn't for my son I would have already done it. Not to mention when I try to date the woman are losers.and don't want to bring woman in and out of his life so the past year I've not even thought about another woman . Just work home and I'm in my early 30's my son is 5 and I'm far from a bad looking guy. Thank every one for there concerns.
Afternoon, was wondering how you are doing today. Hopefully you are doing better than when you made this post originally.
noone

Pikeville, KY

#25 Nov 19, 2012
dick57 wrote:
<quoted text>you sound like a good person to me dont ever let another human beig get you so lowwwwwwwwwwwwwww to somone youre worth the world
Thanks so kind:)Hope you have a Happy Thanksgiving!
Fact

Paris, KY

#26 Nov 19, 2012
Don't give up! If I could help I would. I work first shift or I'd watch you son for half price and give you a day off.

And no one, just friends, goes alot of ways
noone

Butler, KY

#27 Nov 19, 2012
Fact, what you mean just friends goes alot of ways? Thanks.
so true

Morgantown, KY

#28 Nov 20, 2012
We are all worth more than we think, and we need to recall that at all times. We often hurt each other in some way , and want to make things right. But pride overtakes us and we fail to say we are sorry. Talk is what it takes, just do it....
For the other , you are so special and you need to know your son needs you , trust me times can get really tuff, but we have to keep on going for those we love. Losing a loved on to such a bad way , pains your loved ones for years, and I know that hurting them worse is not what you want to do. Never take the easy way out for you , because trust me it is the harder way for those who love you.. Happy Thanksgiving , so many are here for you....
dick57

Pikeville, KY

#29 Nov 20, 2012
noone wrote:
<quoted text>Thanks so kind:)Hope you have a Happy Thanksgiving!
IM REALLY NOT A DICK I LOANED MY PC TO A GUY AND HE DIDNT TAKE HIS NAME OFF HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO YOU WHEN I LOST MY HUSBAND I THOUGHT ID DIE GOD HAD PLANS FOR ME STILL BEING HERE IN FACT I WANTED TOO DONT EVER LET ANYONE PUT YOU DOWN NOR LET U STAY UNHAPPY BE HAPPY WITH U
give up

Winchester, KY

#30 Nov 20, 2012
Just Wondering wrote:
<quoted text>Afternoon, was wondering how you are doing today. Hopefully you are doing better than when you made this post originally.
still struggling . I've never been so unhappy in my life! But I'm trying to stay strong! It's times when my son goes to his moms is when I fear the worst is gonna happen. So guess we will find out tomorrow night.
noone

United States

#31 Nov 20, 2012
Yeah I feel you it is times when my daughter goes to her dad's for the weekend that I panic, I cant sleep, worry he isnt going to take good care of her. One time he let her get ahold of scissors and she cut big gaps of her hair off, he has his sister to help him since he lives with her at the moment but I live with him for 8 years and I know how he is.
Angel

Bellevue, WA

#32 Nov 20, 2012
I totally understand what u r sayin. I've been there before and there now. If it wasn't for my husband walking n on me several years ago I wouldn't be here now. I already had the gun between my feet the barrel under my chin and was reaching for the trigger. I am back to the point again. I have sat and plotted how could I do it so it would look like an accident. I have also thought about going over boonsbourgh hill with my truck outta gear n hands off the wheel and I know when I get to the bottom all my worries and suffering will be over but then I think about my husband kids and grandchildren that I'm raising. That's what keeps me pushing on. Keep ur head up and think about ur son.
dick57

Pikeville, KY

#33 Nov 20, 2012
give up wrote:
<quoted text>
still struggling . I've never been so unhappy in my life! But I'm trying to stay strong! It's times when my son goes to his moms is when I fear the worst is gonna happen. So guess we will find out tomorrow night.
IF U THINK POSITIVE MOST THE TIME GOOD THINGS HAPPEN DONT BE SO NEGATIVE U HAVE A CHILD WHO PROBABLY LOVES U MORE THAN LIFE DEPENDING ON YOU TO GUIDE HIM IN LIFE
Angel

Bellevue, WA

#34 Nov 20, 2012
I totally understand what u r sayin. I've been there and back there again. If it wasn't for my husband walking n when he did I wouldn't be here 2day. Because I had the gun between my feet and the barrel under my chin and I was reaching for the trigger. I sit and plot all the time how can I do this so it would look like an accident. I have also thought about goin to boonsbourgh hill pull my truck outta gear n take my hands off the wheel and let it go. I know when I get to the bottom it will all be over. Then I think about my husband 2 daughters and my grandchildren that I'm raising and the ones that I'm not. Because I know they all need me. Keep thinking about ur boy. where will he be without u.
Angel

Bellevue, WA

#35 Nov 20, 2012
sorry my post went up twice. my phone does it to me all the time.
justme

AOL

#36 Nov 20, 2012
Angel wrote:
I totally understand what u r sayin. I've been there before and there now. If it wasn't for my husband walking n on me several years ago I wouldn't be here now. I already had the gun between my feet the barrel under my chin and was reaching for the trigger. I am back to the point again. I have sat and plotted how could I do it so it would look like an accident. I have also thought about going over boonsbourgh hill with my truck outta gear n hands off the wheel and I know when I get to the bottom all my worries and suffering will be over but then I think about my husband kids and grandchildren that I'm raising. That's what keeps me pushing on. Keep ur head up and think about ur son.
god put us all here for a reason we are his creations to destroy something god made would be soooo wrong keep ure self busy and ure head held high u will be okay
Another Leslie

Winchester, KY

#37 Nov 20, 2012
give up wrote:
<quoted text>
still struggling . I've never been so unhappy in my life! But I'm trying to stay strong! It's times when my son goes to his moms is when I fear the worst is gonna happen. So guess we will find out tomorrow night.
Someone up-thread told you to get busy and that is perfect advice. This weekend please get out of the house and do something. Anything. Go to Peddler's Mall. Go to the movies. Go to the library. Take a drive. Go to Lexington and walk through the mall and take notice of all the weird and wacky people. I know it's so hard when money is tight and there's not much to spend but there are things you can do that don't cost much.

Also I'm going to recommend a wonderful church to you. I am not a religious person and sometimes when I've been to church I feel worse when I come out then I did before I entered. All the HELL FIRE AND BRIMSTONE sermons bring me down.

But there is a great little church in Mt. Sterling where you actually feel like going out and facing the world after hearing the preacher. It's Bethseda Church and the preacher is Paul Prather. He is so kind and so understanding and has a great sense of humor. I think you would like it. Paul has been through a lot in his life and has also suffered from depression so he is someone who can relate.

Will you keep us posted about how you are doing? Please - we are truly concerned about you.
give up

Winchester, KY

#38 Nov 20, 2012
Another Leslie wrote:
<quoted text>Someone up-thread told you to get busy and that is perfect advice. This weekend please get out of the house and do something. Anything. Go to Peddler's Mall. Go to the movies. Go to the library. Take a drive. Go to Lexington and walk through the mall and take notice of all the weird and wacky people. I know it's so hard when money is tight and there's not much to spend but there are things you can do that don't cost much.

Also I'm going to recommend a wonderful church to you. I am not a religious person and sometimes when I've been to church I feel worse when I come out then I did before I entered. All the HELL FIRE AND BRIMSTONE sermons bring me down.

But there is a great little church in Mt. Sterling where you actually feel like going out and facing the world after hearing the preacher. It's Bethseda Church and the preacher is Paul Prather. He is so kind and so understanding and has a great sense of humor. I think you would like it. Paul has been through a lot in his life and has also suffered from depression so he is someone who can relate.

Will you keep us posted about how you are doing? Please - we are truly concerned about you.
will keep posted for sure. And I'll try not to set at home. I took on extra shifts at work just so I don't have to. And thanksgiving looks to be a bust this year so maybe I'll do golden corral by myself. Hear they have a descent turkey dinner . And maybe rent some movies and get me a bottle of NyQuil and sleep it off
noone

United States

#39 Nov 20, 2012
Angel dont give dont know you either but you seemed so sad. I know that life is hard for sure trust me, raising a kid by myself is hard. If it wasnt for my kid I dont know what I would do, I try to stay strong for her. So stay strong for your family Angel I am sure they love you.
D57 post #29 sorry for loss of your husband. What you mean loaned your PC to a guy? Do I know you? Just wanted to know if it concerned me. Thanks
Just Wondering

Stanford, KY

#40 Nov 27, 2012
How you doing today. Hope your thanksgiving wasn't to bad and you rented some good movies. I didn't do to much myself, no family here so I vegged out and relax. Holidays can be hard without family especially your children. But i can tell you this it does get easier as time passes on. Don't become a hermit or a workaholic, get out go for walks and try to see the positive side. There is always a positive side we just have to want to see it. Trust me I know what i am talking about. You be blessed.
Single

Clay City, KY

#41 Nov 30, 2012
give up wrote:
<quoted text>
wow it's like we live the same life. I'm a dad raising my son on my own with absolutely no help at all! Yes bills are the most part alone with 60 hour work weeks . Daycare. If it wasn't for my son I would have already done it. Not to mention when I try to date the woman are losers.and don't want to bring woman in and out of his life so the past year I've not even thought about another woman . Just work home and I'm in my early 30's my son is 5 and I'm far from a bad lookin guy. Thank every one for there concerns.
I am concerned about u.
hey

United States

#42 Nov 30, 2012
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