Child Support is not Allimony / for W...

Child Support is not Allimony / for Women

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WinchesterDAD

Platteville, WI

#1 Jul 8, 2011
Anytime you put something on here about a Woman using Drugs with the Child Support Money or telling how they dragg you through the mudd for no reason, just to be bitter to the man, then there is always the L E S B I A N that gets on here and acts like she is defending the women that Use and Abuse Men and Money.

Since we are in the Age of Drugs, there needs to be a Receipt showed for the Child Support Usage.
Even if the Man pays it, the woman bitch's her head off wanting more and if she does not get it she wants him in Jail NOW, they set back on their fat A S S E S and eat Bon-Bon's all day and expect to smoke thier POT or take thier Pills and live off someone that left them in the first place and god help him if he says no, even if he tries to make sure the money is spent wisely on the child he will be persecuted..........now try and deny that you money hungry P U S S E Y P A C K E R S that needs an attitiude adjustment from the Courts.

I feel that Laws will be changed soon because there are tooo many people crying our for change since the Drug Era is upon us.
Chubby chaser

Clarksville, TN

#2 Jul 8, 2011
How many kids do you have?
And by how many different girls?

I know that child support doesnt even cover 25% of what the kids needs. A hundred bucks a month isnt going to cover 2 kids food and clothes ect for a whole month. So you dads that pay child support arent taking care of your kids.
I dont even have any kids and this pisses me off.
When I was growing up my mother paid child support to my father. She gave him more than the courts asked..and paid for all our school clothes..ect. She actually gave a damn. Not like some of you fathers out there that think parenting in passing on a hundred bucks to the mother once a month..and never even bother going to see your kids. That doesnt make you a father. It isnt the kids fault, or the mothers fault if you have 5 different kids by 4 different girls. Keep it in your pants. Or better yet wait until youre married.
Childless Association

Winchester, KY

#3 Jul 8, 2011
Chubby chaser wrote:
How many kids do you have?
And by how many different girls?
I know that child support doesnt even cover 25% of what the kids needs. A hundred bucks a month isnt going to cover 2 kids food and clothes ect for a whole month. So you dads that pay child support arent taking care of your kids.
I dont even have any kids and this pisses me off.
When I was growing up my mother paid child support to my father. She gave him more than the courts asked..and paid for all our school clothes..ect. She actually gave a damn. Not like some of you fathers out there that think parenting in passing on a hundred bucks to the mother once a month..and never even bother going to see your kids. That doesnt make you a father. It isnt the kids fault, or the mothers fault if you have 5 different kids by 4 different girls. Keep it in your pants. Or better yet wait until youre married.
STFU. You don't even have kids so STFU. You are more than willing to spread your legs but, no one wants the crap you have. Talking the way you talk now is a sure sign of a true bitch if a kid ever did came from you. I would shoot myself before I would deal with you in court concerning child support. NO. I take that back. I could never murder another human being. Not even one like you. I would kill myself though if by some unexplainable reason we had sex and then a child to top it off. Load it, cock it, put the barrel to my temple, BANG... bye bitch.
hey

Richmond, KY

#4 Jul 8, 2011
Chubby chaser wrote:
How many kids do you have?
And by how many different girls?
I know that child support doesnt even cover 25% of what the kids needs. A hundred bucks a month isnt going to cover 2 kids food and clothes ect for a whole month. So you dads that pay child support arent taking care of your kids.
I dont even have any kids and this pisses me off.
When I was growing up my mother paid child support to my father. She gave him more than the courts asked..and paid for all our school clothes..ect. She actually gave a damn. Not like some of you fathers out there that think parenting in passing on a hundred bucks to the mother once a month..and never even bother going to see your kids. That doesnt make you a father. It isnt the kids fault, or the mothers fault if you have 5 different kids by 4 different girls. Keep it in your pants. Or better yet wait until youre married.
Excuse me! I know guys having to pay $700-$800 a month in child support for 2 kids. Who ever is paying $100 a month should consider themselves very lucky!
i know

Bowling Green, KY

#5 Jul 8, 2011
Child support is based on the man's income, but I know from personal experience it's easy for the man to only take cash jobs and lie about what he makes in order to receive the minimum payment order. People have this idea that child support should only be spent on THINGS for the child, but they forget kids need food, housing, water and electricity. All things that cost MONEY. Add to this the time the mother spends raising the child alone and I'd say these fathers (the ones that bitch about child support) are getting off easy. They send in their $200/month or whatever and want to brag about what a good father they are like that should be the extent of their responsibilities.
IF I

Winchester, KY

#6 Jul 8, 2011
hey wrote:
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Excuse me! I know guys having to pay $700-$800 a month in child support for 2 kids. Who ever is paying $100 a month should consider themselves very lucky!
If I pd 7 or 8 hundred per mo then I better see some reciepts where the money was spent directly on the child. I do the same now and I pay 425.
Mystic

Pflugerville, TX

#7 Jul 8, 2011
Let's not forget that the father only has to pay half and the mother has to cover the other herself!
you dont have a clue

Winchester, KY

#8 Jul 8, 2011
WinchesterDAD wrote:
Anytime you put something on here about a Woman using Drugs with the Child Support Money or telling how they dragg you through the mudd for no reason, just to be bitter to the man, then there is always the L E S B I A N that gets on here and acts like she is defending the women that Use and Abuse Men and Money.
Since we are in the Age of Drugs, there needs to be a Receipt showed for the Child Support Usage.
Even if the Man pays it, the woman bitch's her head off wanting more and if she does not get it she wants him in Jail NOW, they set back on their fat A S S E S and eat Bon-Bon's all day and expect to smoke thier POT or take thier Pills and live off someone that left them in the first place and god help him if he says no, even if he tries to make sure the money is spent wisely on the child he will be persecuted..........now try and deny that you money hungry P U S S E Y P A C K E R S that needs an attitiude adjustment from the Courts.
I feel that Laws will be changed soon because there are tooo many people crying our for change since the Drug Era is upon us.
I can show you just one of my bills water, electric or gas, lets not mention the internet I provide my child with to use on that laptop I bought her, and the Iphone I provide for her, but go ahead and pick any one of those bills and I promise you just one of those bills is way more than what little child support I get when I get it, those are just a few things she gets, I didnt mention all the name brand clothes, nice shoes, and everything else she gets, the $900 rent I pay a month so she can have a nice decent home, oh and the school clothes and supplies that I buy all year round by myself, the car I will be buying her by myself for her bday this year, so dont you dare judge all women by the sorry ass ed ones you screwed around with, there are sorry ass men out there too, just like the one that fathered my child, so suck it up and pay your child support! The child support I get is just a tiny drop in the bucket compared to the reality of what I spend every day, every week, every month, and every year on my child!! So what if I finally get a little child support payment I wipe my ass on it??
well hell

Newport, KY

#9 Jul 8, 2011
i know wrote:
Child support is based on the man's income, but I know from personal experience it's easy for the man to only take cash jobs and lie about what he makes in order to receive the minimum payment order. People have this idea that child support should only be spent on THINGS for the child, but they forget kids need food, housing, water and electricity. All things that cost MONEY. Add to this the time the mother spends raising the child alone and I'd say these fathers (the ones that bitch about child support) are getting off easy. They send in their $200/month or whatever and want to brag about what a good father they are like that should be the extent of their responsibilities.
Assuming Mom didn't decide to get pregnant on her own and claimed to be on bc, then you owe child support. However, it's based on BOTH incomes, and I'm going to bet Mom isn't working or planning to. I'm also sure she's getting her food, housing, medical and utilities paid by the government. There's a good possibility that she's smoking, drinking, and/or taking drugs and that her kids see a different guy waking up every few weeks. I'm sure all aren't, but from what I've seen in Winchester, more are than aren't.
dad

Winchester, KY

#10 Jul 8, 2011
you dont have a clue wrote:
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I can show you just one of my bills water, electric or gas, lets not mention the internet I provide my child with to use on that laptop I bought her, and the Iphone I provide for her, but go ahead and pick any one of those bills and I promise you just one of those bills is way more than what little child support I get when I get it, those are just a few things she gets, I didnt mention all the name brand clothes, nice shoes, and everything else she gets, the $900 rent I pay a month so she can have a nice decent home, oh and the school clothes and supplies that I buy all year round by myself, the car I will be buying her by myself for her bday this year, so dont you dare judge all women by the sorry ass ed ones you screwed around with, there are sorry ass men out there too, just like the one that fathered my child, so suck it up and pay your child support! The child support I get is just a tiny drop in the bucket compared to the reality of what I spend every day, every week, every month, and every year on my child!! So what if I finally get a little child support payment I wipe my ass on it??
sounds like to me your raising a little bitch
ddd

Winchester, KY

#11 Jul 8, 2011
dad wrote:
<quoted text>sounds like to me your raising a little bitch
That's real cute & grown up calling a child a bitch, now we can see why you complain about paying child support, your a POS loser, I bet you never see your child(ren) either. Deadbeat!!
i know

Bowling Green, KY

#12 Jul 9, 2011
well hell wrote:
<quoted text>
Assuming Mom didn't decide to get pregnant on her own and claimed to be on bc, then you owe child support. However, it's based on BOTH incomes, and I'm going to bet Mom isn't working or planning to. I'm also sure she's getting her food, housing, medical and utilities paid by the government. There's a good possibility that she's smoking, drinking, and/or taking drugs and that her kids see a different guy waking up every few weeks. I'm sure all aren't, but from what I've seen in Winchester, more are than aren't.
Well, you would be wrong. I have a B.S. and a good job and I pay my own bills thank you very much. Good thing, too, because he didn't pay anything for a whole year. Yes, it was court-ordered and no, he didn't go to jail.
who cares

Cincinnati, OH

#13 Jul 9, 2011
guys its time to man up i pay over 6 a month got my babys alote ptetty much they live with both of us an i barley live after so but as long as my babies have thingd i dnt mind ill just stay broke point is im not bitchin neither should u pay the shit so ur kids can eat its should b man up month i know 4 a fact its hard but do it
you dont have a clue

Winchester, KY

#14 Jul 9, 2011
dad wrote:
<quoted text>sounds like to me your raising a little bitch
oh yay, you can resort to name calling of children, just because someone has a job and pays their own way does not make their child bad, what do you suggest? Should I quit my job, sign up on welfare and food stamps, move into gov housing? No thank you, I will continue to work and pay my way, I will continue to provide my very lovely, very well mannered children with the things their hearts desire, because they do well in school, they are good children and they deserve everything they have, Im truly sorry that you obviously dont have much of a life, or know what a good, honest, decent life is. Try looking for a better woman next time, or try being a better man and you may find a better woman, good luck and have a nice life :)
yeah

Winchester, KY

#16 Jul 9, 2011
Well I am one who has seen both sides of the fence. I was the single mother who worked her butt off to provide for her children while their father paid nothing for 5 years. I remarried and my husband has been paying $713 a month, carries health insurance, buys them clothes they need, etc. The last time he was told he needed to buy school clothes, I told him to get sizes and we would go get them. After all, they were in uniforms. Since I took the tags off and didn't send the receipt, she no longer asked for school clothes. I also told him to offer to go get the kids so they could pick out their clothes. That didn't sit too well with the exwife. Hmmmmm I wonder why? I would have been tickled pink if my ex had offered any of the above.
Dharma

Winchester, KY

#17 Jul 9, 2011
@Well Hell. I Live in Winchester and raised my kids as a single mom. I worked full time, carried them on insurance and allowed my ex to pay less than the state mandate so he could live too. I never brought a man into my house other than their family. Do you have any stats to back up what you are accusing "most" single moms of? I know plenty of skanks who take the state and their ex for a ride but I know just as many who are fair, decent single moms...and dads too for that fact.
Chubby chaser

Clarksville, TN

#18 Jul 10, 2011
Childless Association wrote:
<quoted text> STFU. You don't even have kids so STFU. You are more than willing to spread your legs but, no one wants the crap you have. Talking the way you talk now is a sure sign of a true bitch if a kid ever did came from you. I would shoot myself before I would deal with you in court concerning child support. NO. I take that back. I could never murder another human being. Not even one like you. I would kill myself though if by some unexplainable reason we had sex and then a child to top it off. Load it, cock it, put the barrel to my temple, BANG... bye bitch.
"talking the way you talk"
Im far from a bitch. Im sorry that you cant handle somone telling you, you are a poor excuse for a father. WHy dont you man up. And as for me spreading my legs...I never said I was a lady..
fathers rights

Culver City, CA

#19 Oct 11, 2011
i am going through a child custody and support issue with my ex and she is a psycho circus. she see's all thees wierdos and says there are the one but they realize what they are dealing with and then bounces. only when i got in a relationship myself was when she got desperate and even more stupid. when i got engaged, she found out, found the lonely stupid dude that would agree to be with her because he had no social skills and it didnt hurt that it was a family member of a family member and procided to get pregnant and marry the unlucky guy (and all because she wanted to make me look bad). now she is saying she is on welfare, out of work, pregnant, and on aid...but... lets see, she has a mortgage she can afford to pay, a brand new car, and a more comefortable lifestyle. well me, lets see: i work two jobs, trying to funish school, renting, and living on the good nature of people who see what she is trying to do. so i dont believe for one minute that child spport is fair or impartial. i am broke, and i still have to give money for my daughter who i see every chance i get, and do the best i can with what is given.-----so to these women who bash the guy for leaving them, look at your self before you judge. better alone than in bad company. but, my kid shouldnt suffer for her mothers bitterness!
wincity

United States

#20 Oct 17, 2011
I know what u mean iv got a 12 year old girl that I pay child support on and her mom hasn't had a job since this baby was born. Sets around doing pills and smoking its ridiculous. The kid comes to my house smelling like a bum and has had lice for ten years but as long as I send 60 dollars a weak everything is supposed to be alright. I even think that her (JJ napier) man or a friend of his is touching my little girl but social workers won't do shit because the mother is supposedly the victim. My my jj the walls are getting ready to come tumbling down. The last post I put on hear was erased way to go jj , u sure as hell don't want anyone to know about this shit.
BTDT

Richmond, KY

#21 Oct 18, 2011
Child support encompasses more than most consider. To support the child requires that they have a well adjusted parent. If that means some support is used to pay a baby sitter while the parent goes out once in while, so be it. Decent furniture, etc. Remember absent parents, some of that support is because you're ABSENT and the custodial parent needs help too. It seems most complaints arise from a basic lack of grasping this very concept. It has went on this way for years and will continue so as will the complaints. It is what it is.

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