Father denies son for 46 years

Father denies son for 46 years

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DAD

Enfield, NC

#1 Jan 31, 2012
In 1965 I gave birth to the most beautiful boy in the world (looking just like his DAD), Alone and afaird,without any money I went to work in a mill. This may not appear to be that alarming however this child was only 1 week old. The DAD never offered ANYTHING, to this child then and hasn't since. He continued on with his life, married and had 2 more children, a boy and a girl. He moved out of state and suddenly was back in the state, calling me repeadly. He called me at work and at my home, knowing by this time I had married. He continually told me "What a Mistake he made" and if he could only go back things would be different. All he wanted was me and this child. His wife didn't understand him and on and on. Well the time came when I had to tell he child who his DAD was. It was a sad day for me and even sadder for the child. This boy had finished college and wanted his DAD to attend his Wedding. I ask him without response-therefore the son ask him, no reponse. After years of keeping my mouth shut, protecting the DAD and SON, I was so angry,I picked up the phone and called HIS HOUSE. He lived in Landfall at the time, and announced who I was and the reason for my call. This may seem cruel, however the anger was so strong it could not be controlled. It has been 15 years now, the DAD's wife left him... My husband left me, and his two children have (somewhat) accepted my son, as their half brother.Now you would think DAD would have come forth and claimed his first born, but NO he will not have anything to do with him. The child has completed his Masters Degree, has a wonderful job, a wife, daughter and 2 stepchildren, and DAD still refuses to acknowledge his SON. I write this, without names, however if he reads this-HE will know this is to him.
You are a poor excuse for a Man, a pentiful human being pretending/playing church and looking at your new wife saying- All this is a lie. The same things you said to your children, however when they saw him, both almost fainted. He is your twin, and was meant to be, the Lord wanted you to identify him as YOURS. You did/ have made the biggest mistake of your life. You will grow old, probably alone; and may call his name, however I doubt that you will be in time.
He is the finest MAN I have ever known, and it's a shame, you haven't known him as his DAD.
Now he has told his daughter who is 13yoa, showing her a photo of you. Her reply "Gosh DAD, now I know who I really look like".
You can hide behind a skirt, just like you did when your mother was alive, pretend that this isn't true. The Lord knows and will punish you accordingly....You have a home for sale-$235,000.00 there (beach) and I have requested that your first borned get 1/3rd. of the sell. No answer-well I am telling you, he will have it and I will see you in court for a DNA or whatever is necessary to make this happen. I am sick and tired of people asking me "How often does DAD, she his son, and I bow my head, saying "Never".
Fair is Fair and he deserves a portion of your inheirtance, 1/3 shall go to him, David.
If we had not had many years (in a relationship) I could understand your denial, however we lived together for many months, and had many years together before your mother moved yoy away- saying your deserved better.... Well you are not better, however your son is better and wiser, knows the Lord and lives the life you should be living.
You have a nice day and I will see you in court, however you know that, since you received a notice through an e-mail.. Remember. If I should die before I wake- they will know who killed me....
DAD

Enfield, NC

#2 Jan 31, 2012
DAD wrote:
In 1965 I gave birth to the most beautiful boy in the world (looking just like his DAD), Alone and afaird,without any money I went to work in a mill. This may not appear to be that alarming however this child was only 1 week old. The DAD never offered ANYTHING, to this child then and hasn't since. He continued on with his life, married and had 2 more children, a boy and a girl. He moved out of state and suddenly was back in the state, calling me repeadly. He called me at work and at my home, knowing by this time I had married. He continually told me "What a Mistake he made" and if he could only go back things would be different. All he wanted was me and this child. His wife didn't understand him and on and on. Well the time came when I had to tell he child who his DAD was. It was a sad day for me and even sadder for the child. This boy had finished college and wanted his DAD to attend his Wedding. I ask him without response-therefore the son ask him, no reponse. After years of keeping my mouth shut, protecting the DAD and SON, I was so angry,I picked up the phone and called HIS HOUSE. He lived in Landfall at the time, and announced who I was and the reason for my call. This may seem cruel, however the anger was so strong it could not be controlled. It has been 15 years now, the DAD's wife left him... My husband left me, and his two children have (somewhat) accepted my son, as their half brother.Now you would think DAD would have come forth and claimed his first born, but NO he will not have anything to do with him. The child has completed his Masters Degree, has a wonderful job, a wife, daughter and 2 stepchildren, and DAD still refuses to acknowledge his SON. I write this, without names, however if he reads this-HE will know this is to him.
You are a poor excuse for a Man, a pentiful human being pretending/playing church and looking at your new wife saying- All this is a lie. The same things you said to your children, however when they saw him, both almost fainted. He is your twin, and was meant to be, the Lord wanted you to identify him as YOURS. You did/ have made the biggest mistake of your life. You will grow old, probably alone; and may call his name, however I doubt that you will be in time.
He is the finest MAN I have ever known, and it's a shame, you haven't known him as his DAD.
Now he has told his daughter who is 13yoa, showing her a photo of you. Her reply "Gosh DAD, now I know who I really look like".
You can hide behind a skirt, just like you did when your mother was alive, pretend that this isn't true. The Lord knows and will punish you accordingly....You have a home for sale-$235,000.00 there (beach) and I have requested that your first borned get 1/3rd. of the sell. No answer-well I am telling you, he will have it and I will see you in court for a DNA or whatever is necessary to make this happen. I am sick and tired of people asking me "How often does DAD, she his son, and I bow my head, saying "Never".
Fair is Fair and he deserves a portion of your inheirtance, 1/3 shall go to him, David.
If we had not had many years (in a relationship) I could understand your denial, however we lived together for many months, and had many years together before your mother moved yoy away- saying your deserved better.... Well you are not better, however your son is better and wiser, knows the Lord and lives the life you should be living.
You have a nice day and I will see you in court, however you know that, since you received a notice through an e-mail.. Remember. If I should die before I wake- they will know who killed me....
"Does the New Wife Know"?
Father denies son for 46

Enfield, NC

#3 Feb 2, 2012
DAD wrote:
<quoted text> "Does the New Wife Know"?
This makes me sick.... What is wrong with a man who denies A SON. Think he is an SOB to be mild. Someone should have castrated him before he had additional children. This may sound mean, however he should and still needs to take responsibility for this MAN- How could you do this to another human being ??
Father denies son for 46

Enfield, NC

#4 Feb 3, 2012
DAD wrote:
<quoted text> "Does the New Wife Know"?
What kind of Nut is he- one who denies a son, will surely go straight to HELL ! God gave his own sons that we may live, and a human being has denied HIS SON. Who and Where are you, I could personally slap the Crap out of you. Give us his name and we will write moew on this link ?
Father denies son for 46

Enfield, NC

#5 Feb 12, 2012
I find this stry hard to believe. How could a Man deny a child, at His Birth? He must be a real SOB and it sounds as though there is something missing. What could it be? What part of the story don't we have here? Would love to know the whole story. If the DAD has read this, it looks like he would respond.. Where is he and who is he?? Let us know. Please give us his name and address, we will push him to answer ! I am not a reporter however this could make headlines or be part of a TV show.
Mother also

Enfield, NC

#6 Feb 21, 2012
DAD wrote:
In 1965 I gave birth to the most beautiful boy in the world (looking just like his DAD), Alone and afaird,without any money I went to work in a mill. This may not appear to be that alarming however this child was only 1 week old. The DAD never offered ANYTHING, to this child then and hasn't since. He continued on with his life, married and had 2 more children, a boy and a girl. He moved out of state and suddenly was back in the state, calling me repeadly. He called me at work and at my home, knowing by this time I had married. He continually told me "What a Mistake he made" and if he could only go back things would be different. All he wanted was me and this child. His wife didn't understand him and on and on. Well the time came when I had to tell he child who his DAD was. It was a sad day for me and even sadder for the child. This boy had finished college and wanted his DAD to attend his Wedding. I ask him without response-therefore the son ask him, no reponse. After years of keeping my mouth shut, protecting the DAD and SON, I was so angry,I picked up the phone and called HIS HOUSE. He lived in Landfall at the time, and announced who I was and the reason for my call. This may seem cruel, however the anger was so strong it could not be controlled. It has been 15 years now, the DAD's wife left him... My husband left me, and his two children have (somewhat) accepted my son, as their half brother.Now you would think DAD would have come forth and claimed his first born, but NO he will not have anything to do with him. The child has completed his Masters Degree, has a wonderful job, a wife, daughter and 2 stepchildren, and DAD still refuses to acknowledge his SON. I write this, without names, however if he reads this-HE will know this is to him.
You are a poor excuse for a Man, a pentiful human being pretending/playing church and looking at your new wife saying- All this is a lie. The same things you said to your children, however when they saw him, both almost fainted. He is your twin, and was meant to be, the Lord wanted you to identify him as YOURS. You did/ have made the biggest mistake of your life. You will grow old, probably alone; and may call his name, however I doubt that you will be in time.
He is the finest MAN I have ever known, and it's a shame, you haven't known him as his DAD.
Now he has told his daughter who is 13yoa, showing her a photo of you. Her reply "Gosh DAD, now I know who I really look like".
You can hide behind a skirt, just like you did when your mother was alive, pretend that this isn't true. The Lord knows and will punish you accordingly....You have a home for sale-$235,000.00 there (beach) and I have requested that your first borned get 1/3rd. of the sell. No answer-well I am telling you, he will have it and I will see you in court for a DNA or whatever is necessary to make this happen. I am sick and tired of people asking me "How often does DAD, she his son, and I bow my head, saying "Never".
Fair is Fair and he deserves a portion of your inheirtance, 1/3 shall go to him, David.
If we had not had many years (in a relationship) I could understand your denial, however we lived together for many months, and had many years together before your mother moved yoy away- saying your deserved better.... Well you are not better, however your son is better and wiser, knows the Lord and lives the life you should be living.
You have a nice day and I will see you in court, however you know that, since you received a notice through an e-mail.. Remember. If I should die before I wake- they will know who killed me....
I am a mother who cannot understand a person (can't call him a man) who could forsake a child. If he and the mother could not get along, he should have taken care of this child. I do feel, however this woman did what any fine woman would have done, and that was taking care and bringing the child. Pew to you DAD, you will surely Burst Hell wide open. God will take care of you.
Father who denies his son

Enfield, NC

#7 Feb 24, 2012
I heard about this letter at work today. After reading the letter from this mother, I am so sorry for her and the child she has raised. No doubt, of her truthfullness (if that is a word). It is a shame that God gives us children to love and care for, and so many people don't full fill those duties. I agree with one writter- God will take care of the father.... in his time. If ever a person deserves to go to heaven it would be a child, who has been abused by his own DAD, as the mother states. The father did not have to abandon this child, he was just a lousy person (I would call worthless) and his wife or wives are no better, or they would see to it- that he do what was needed for the boy. If I were the mother, I would take my last dime and see that this man (child) got everything the dad has. I would drag him through every court in the land and expose him in everyway possible. There is no doubt that the mother loved this worthless piece of do do, or she would have done it years ago... I do blame her for not taking all he had/has years ago, however I would go after it now, for sure. The child deserves every dime and should get it. It isn't too late, go after him and BURN HIS ASS A BLISTER- maybe if this is done- his present wife will say good-bye, since I feel sure he has filled her with the lies he feed his former and his other children. BURN HIS ASS isn't on the poll- so I will vote my heart.
wow

Watertown, MA

#8 Sep 29, 2013
Ask Maryellen Kenton of Wilmington NC what she thinks!

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