Why do men get so angry when they hav...

Why do men get so angry when they have to pay childsupport?

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#1 Aug 23, 2010
I dont understand why men get so angry when they hav to support children that they helped make.I think it is just stupid
Yep

Campbellsville, KY

#2 Aug 23, 2010
I feel your pain!
OMG

Richmond, KY

#3 Aug 23, 2010
Don't all us single mothers...But then they expect is to trn them favors. PA-LEEZE
what

Pikeville, KY

#4 Aug 23, 2010
Because males, don't feel the same about their children as females. I am a guy. This is true.
Parole Officer

Bardstown, KY

#5 Aug 23, 2010
what wrote:
Because males, don't feel the same about their children as females. I am a guy. This is true.
You are wrong
Love My Kids

Bardstown, KY

#6 Aug 23, 2010
men dont mind paying as long as it's spent on the child, not to pay car payments, rent, getting your hair done etcetera. Some mom's come out dressed head to toe and there kids are dressed like bums
pete rose bush

Stanford, KY

#7 Aug 23, 2010
I am a man that pay,s more than my share of child support also i spend alot of time and extra money on my kids . I made sure my kids would,nt suffer because me and my ex could,nt make it work .so don,t put all men down by saying crap like that.I KNOW some people men and women that are deadbeats so don,t just single out men .

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#9 Aug 24, 2010
topics terminator wrote:
i asked my gfriend if she wanted anal,HELL NO.then how about swallowing,HELL NO.why do i have to pay because she isnt open minded.next time i will get a ribbed condom.im going to turn it inside out for my pleasure.
YOUR stupid dont comment on anything else

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#10 Aug 24, 2010
pete rose bush wrote:
I am a man that pay,s more than my share of child support also i spend alot of time and extra money on my kids . I made sure my kids would,nt suffer because me and my ex could,nt make it work .so don,t put all men down by saying crap like that.I KNOW some people men and women that are deadbeats so don,t just single out men .
I apologize if I offended you I worded it wrong I should have put absent parents

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#11 Aug 24, 2010
Love My Kids wrote:
men dont mind paying as long as it's spent on the child, not to pay car payments, rent, getting your hair done etcetera. Some mom's come out dressed head to toe and there kids are dressed like bums
The rent is something that should be paid with it, but not everything else
just sayin

United States

#12 Aug 24, 2010
Love My Kids wrote:
men dont mind paying as long as it's spent on the child, not to pay car payments, rent, getting your hair done etcetera. Some mom's come out dressed head to toe and there kids are dressed like bums
No offense...but kids need their moms to have a car and house...so its okay for them to pay for those things w/ child support money...those are things that the child needs/uses. I do agree that it shouldnt be spent on things just for the mother like cigs and clothes and stuff like that.
shayla

Russell Springs, KY

#13 Aug 24, 2010
Most men get mad becasue the court is unfair when it comes to child custody, and payments. You know the girl laid down and spread her legs and got preganant and then she wants to sit back and draw child support and do nothing, most of these
mothers don't take good care of their babies/children. I think some of the men should get custody and the girl should have to pay child support. The courts are behind in the times when it comes to this. Maybe it would be good if the mom had the child for six months and the father pay and then the father the other six months and the mother pay child support,then they both could experience what its like to support someone else and try to live and pay your own bills at the same time. I know men who have been screwed over by woman and I think if the courts made them share in paying custody , maybe they would think twice before spreading their legs and bringing children into the world , and poor child has to deal with all this stupid drama and stupid parents. Don't have children unless you know your partner is commended for life. Maybe spend 5 to 10 yrs together before having children, by then you should know if you want to be together. I think some woman just have babies so someone can support them and they can draw all that welfare, and lay around on their A>S. In my opinon men get the bad end of the deal everytime.

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#14 Aug 25, 2010
shayla wrote:
Most men get mad becasue the court is unfair when it comes to child custody, and payments. You know the girl laid down and spread her legs and got preganant and then she wants to sit back and draw child support and do nothing, most of these
mothers don't take good care of their babies/children. I think some of the men should get custody and the girl should have to pay child support. The courts are behind in the times when it comes to this. Maybe it would be good if the mom had the child for six months and the father pay and then the father the other six months and the mother pay child support,then they both could experience what its like to support someone else and try to live and pay your own bills at the same time. I know men who have been screwed over by woman and I think if the courts made them share in paying custody , maybe they would think twice before spreading their legs and bringing children into the world , and poor child has to deal with all this stupid drama and stupid parents. Don't have children unless you know your partner is commended for life. Maybe spend 5 to 10 yrs together before having children, by then you should know if you want to be together. I think some woman just have babies so someone can support them and they can draw all that welfare, and lay around on their A>S. In my opinon men get the bad end of the deal everytime.
not everytime,i think t depends on the situation and as for women spreading there legs what about men not pulling out or better yet use a condom if they dont want the financial responsibility
Mother

Stanford, KY

#15 Aug 25, 2010
Cigarettes?? They should NEVER be bought with child support. Better yet, if your salary(if you have one) and child support isn't paying all your bills as it is then you don't NEED cigarettes, or alcohol or drugs. Child support should go for basic needs of your child whether it be food, clothes, medicines, school supplies. THEIR needs. If there is any left...if you are getting everything that they need there probably isn't any left but if there is then you can use it for rent or whatever. But I'm sure hardly anyone does that.
18 years of hell

Rochester, MN

#16 Aug 25, 2010
child support is not good. I could say lots but whats the point.
18 years of hell

Rochester, MN

#17 Aug 25, 2010
if there is any money left it should be returned to me god damn it!
Kentucky

Upton, KY

#18 Aug 26, 2010
The "mother" of my son is over $3000 behind on
child support. Do a little research, and you will
find that moms are just as bad as dads, about not
paying child support, if not worse!
I payed

Upton, KY

#19 Aug 26, 2010
Im a dad that payed c.s. for more than 15 years, and here is my problem with it... after the ex took
me to court for c.s. and after paying it and health ins. for my son, it left me with about $400
a month to live off of. In other words, I only had
$400 a month to pay my rent, electric, water, car payment, car insurance, gas to work, food, etc and etc. I couldnt make my car payment, and the bank
repossed it, and I ended up bumming rides to work, and I had to move into my mom and dads basement.
Now all of this happened while my ex married some
s.o.b. that made more money in a month, than I did in a year. She didnt even have to work! And to make
matters even worse, my son spent the majority of his time with her parents!
So does that help you to understand why some men get so angry when they have to pay child support?
i hear you

Flemingsburg, KY

#20 Aug 26, 2010
hoes need to get a fluckin job

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#21 Aug 26, 2010
I payed wrote:
Im a dad that payed c.s. for more than 15 years, and here is my problem with it... after the ex took
me to court for c.s. and after paying it and health ins. for my son, it left me with about $400
a month to live off of. In other words, I only had
$400 a month to pay my rent, electric, water, car payment, car insurance, gas to work, food, etc and etc. I couldnt make my car payment, and the bank
repossed it, and I ended up bumming rides to work, and I had to move into my mom and dads basement.
Now all of this happened while my ex married some
s.o.b. that made more money in a month, than I did in a year. She didnt even have to work! And to make
matters even worse, my son spent the majority of his time with her parents!
So does that help you to understand why some men get so angry when they have to pay child support?
wow, i would be super pissed to but why didnt u take her back to court and have it lowered

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