Justathought

Prestonsburg, KY

#118 Dec 4, 2012
So Sad wrote:
Was she married to Sam?
No
Keep calm and carry on

Huntington, WV

#119 Dec 4, 2012
Wow wrote:
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And I didn't mean to come across so defensive. I totally understand the impact this has had on everyone in our community. It's puzzling to everyone right now. But you absolutely right. We should never take for granted that the ppl we love, know that we do. I believe w all my heart that Kara knew she was loved. That is what troubles me the most. With all the love that surrounded her, I don't understand how she got to that dark place :(
I know. And that's what makes this whole thing so scary. She seemed surrounded by love and happiness. What made her do this? I guess that's just what I mean by why this thread was started. You're right..it's so so puzzling. I hope that you are able to heal your broken heart.

Since: Nov 11

Location hidden

#120 Dec 4, 2012
I don't understand why people get on here and think they are entitled to ask questions because they knew her as an acquaintance or just as someone you are curious (nosey) about. I feel for this family and hope they take this site completely off. I don't know what happened nor do I want to cause anyone's family
anymore grief and misery than what they are experiencing. I hope and pray that Kara's family find some peace and comfort in this difficult time. May God Bless You and keep you safe in his arms as I am sure he does for Kara now.
Concerned

United States

#121 Dec 4, 2012
Tiger38 wrote:
I don't understand why people get on here and think they are entitled to ask questions because they knew her as an acquaintance or just as someone you are curious (nosey) about. I feel for this family and hope they take this site completely off. I don't know what happened nor do I want to cause anyone's family
anymore grief and misery than what they are experiencing. I hope and pray that Kara's family find some peace and comfort in this difficult time. May God Bless You and keep you safe in his arms as I am sure he does for Kara now.
It topix what do you expect? If you hate this forum so much why are you on her commenting on it?
Dont assume anything

Logan, WV

#122 Dec 4, 2012
I think this whole matter should be investigated instead of automatically assuming it was self inflicted. There is a party suspected of killing a few husbands that could very well have done the same to Kara.....at least that was my first thought!!!
the ghost

Logan, WV

#123 Dec 4, 2012
Whats all this about kara blowing her brains out?
Wow

Chapmanville, WV

#124 Dec 4, 2012
Keep calm and carry on wrote:
<quoted text>
I know. And that's what makes this whole thing so scary. She seemed surrounded by love and happiness. What made her do this? I guess that's just what I mean by why this thread was started. You're right..it's so so puzzling. I hope that you are able to heal your broken heart.
Thank you. I hope we all can heal from this tragedy.
West End Girl

Charleston, WV

#125 Dec 4, 2012
Tiger38 wrote:
I don't understand why people get on here and think they are entitled to ask questions because they knew her as an acquaintance or just as someone you are curious (nosey) about. I feel for this family and hope they take this site completely off. I don't know what happened nor do I want to cause anyone's family
anymore grief and misery than what they are experiencing. I hope and pray that Kara's family find some peace and comfort in this difficult time. May God Bless You and keep you safe in his arms as I am sure he does for Kara now.
I could not agree more. The people on Facebook are just as bad. You have people posting statuses about how close that they were, but NEVER in all my running around with Kara have I ever known her to associate herself with certain people.Yes she had a alot of friends but you have people coming out of the wood work on the internet claiming BFF. Its disgusting how desperate people are for attention. The prayer statuses are cool, and there is some from childhood and school that's cool to. She made a huge impact on the younger generation as well(photography)and that was so inspiring. BUT you have people acting like they were BFF. So many people want attention it is sickening. Heck one dumb chick went and got a tattoo and I never even saw the two hang out, EVER. I grew up with Kara ( hung out occasionally on weekends)and my heart is breaking but I am also sickened by the nosy people on here and Facebook. Can we all please just pray for everyone involved, and pray for all the idiots posting ridiculous stuff all over the internet not just this site. RIP my friend I will never forget all the childhood memories that we made in West End love you..........
the ghost

Logan, WV

#126 Dec 4, 2012
NEVER
BFF
BUT
BFF
EVER
said West End Girl
West End Girl

Charleston, WV

#127 Dec 4, 2012
the ghost wrote:
NEVER
BFF
BUT
BFF
EVER
said West End Girl
YOUR one COOL cat
Dubbs

United States

#128 Dec 5, 2012
when u got more pics of your tattoo then u do of u and the person its meant to remember thats sad

Since: Nov 11

Location hidden

#129 Dec 5, 2012
Dubbs wrote:
when u got more pics of your tattoo then u do of u and the person its meant to remember thats sad
When you have more negative things than positive things to say about someone who no longer has a voice to take up for themselves and whose family is facing a terrible tragedy now that's sad. RIP Kara Vance. Prayers going out to all the family and friends.
Greg Carlocci

Lansing, MI

#130 Dec 5, 2012
Tiger38 wrote:
I don't understand why people get on here and think they are entitled to ask questions because they knew her as an acquaintance or just as someone you are curious (nosey) about. I feel for this family and hope they take this site completely off. I don't know what happened nor do I want to cause anyone's family
anymore grief and misery than what they are experiencing. I hope and pray that Kara's family find some peace and comfort in this difficult time. May God Bless You and keep you safe in his arms as I am sure he does for Kara now.
I would never want to be a member of a group whose symbol was a guy nailed to two pieces of wood.
the ghost

Logan, WV

#131 Dec 5, 2012
West End Girl wrote:
<quoted text>
YOUR one COOL cat
West End Girl
She's been living in her white bread world
As long as anyone with hot blood can
and now she's looking for a downtown man
That's what I am
Greg Carlocci

Lansing, MI

#132 Dec 5, 2012
When it comes to bullshlt, big-time, major league bullshlt, you have to stand in awe of the all-time champion of false promises and exaggerated claims, religion. No contest. No contest. Religion. Religion easily has the greatest bullshlt story ever told. Think about it. Religion has actually convinced people that there's an invisible man living in the sky who watches everything you do, every minute of every day. And the invisible man has a special list of ten things he does not want you to do. And if you do any of these ten things, he has a special place, full of fire and smoke and burning and torture and anguish, where he will send you to live and suffer and burn and choke and scream and cry forever and ever 'til the end of time!

But He loves you. He loves you, and He needs money! He always needs money! He's all-powerful, all-perfect, all-knowing, and all-wise, somehow just can't handle money! Religion takes in billions of dollars, they pay no taxes, and they always need a little more. Now, you talk about a good bullshlt story. Holy Shit!

But I want you to know something, this is sincere, I want you to know, when it comes to believing in God, I really tried. I really, really tried. I tried to believe that there is a God, who created each of us in His own image and likeness, loves us very much, and keeps a close eye on things. I really tried to believe that, but I gotta tell you, the longer you live, the more you look around, the more you realize, something is [email protected] up.

Something is wrong here. War, disease, death, destruction, hunger, filth, poverty, torture, crime, corruption, and the Ice Capades. Something is definitely wrong. This is not good work. If this is the best God can do, I am not impressed. Results like these do not belong on the résumé of a Supreme Being. This is the kind of shit you'd expect from an office temp with a bad attitude. And just between you and me, in any decently-run universe, this guy would've been out on his all-powerful arse a long time ago. And by the way, I say "this guy", because I firmly believe, looking at these results, that if there is a God, it has to be a man.

No woman could or would ever [email protected] things up like this. So, if there is a God, I think most reasonable people might agree that he's at least incompetent, and maybe, just maybe, doesn't give a shlt. Doesn't give a shlt, which I admire in a person, and which would explain a lot of these bad results.

So rather than be just another mindless religious robot, mindlessly and aimlessly and blindly believing that all of this is in the hands of some spooky incompetent father figure who doesn't give a shit, I decided to look around for something else to worship. Something I could really count on.

And immediately, I thought of the sun. Happened like that. Overnight I became a sun-worshipper. Well, not overnight, you can't see the sun at night. But first thing the next morning, I became a sun-worshipper. Several reasons. First of all, I can see the sun, okay? Unlike some other gods I could mention, I can actually see the sun. I'm big on that. If I can see something, I don't know, it kind of helps the credibility along, you know? So everyday I can see the sun, as it gives me everything I need; heat, light, food, flowers in the park, reflections on the lake, an occasional skin cancer, but hey. At least there are no crucifixions, and we're not setting people on fire simply because they don't agree with us.

Sun worship is fairly simple. There's no mystery, no miracles, no pageantry, no one asks for money, there are no songs to learn, and we don't have a special building where we all gather once a week to compare clothing. And the best thing about the sun, it never tells me I'm unworthy. Doesn't tell me I'm a bad person who needs to be saved. Hasn't said an unkind word. Treats me fine. So, I worship the sun. But, I don't pray to the sun. Know why? I wouldn't presume on our friendship. It's not polite.
Greg Carlocci

Lansing, MI

#133 Dec 5, 2012
I've often thought people treat God rather rudely, don't you? Asking trillions and trillions of prayers every day. Asking and pleading and begging for favors. Do this, gimme that, I need a new car, I want a better job. And most of this praying takes place on Sunday His day off. It's not nice. And it's no way to treat a friend.

But people do pray, and they pray for a lot of different things, you know, your sister needs an operation on her crotch, your brother was arrested for defecating in a mall. But most of all, you'd really like to [email protected] that hot little redhead down at the convenience store. You know, the one with the eyepatch and the clubfoot? Can you pray for that? I think you'd have to. And I say, fine. Pray for anything you want. Pray for anything, but what about the Divine Plan?

Remember that? The Divine Plan. Long time ago, God made a Divine Plan. Gave it a lot of thought, decided it was a good plan, put it into practice. And for billions and billions of years, the Divine Plan has been doing just fine. Now, you come along, and pray for something. Well suppose the thing you want isn't in God's Divine Plan? What do you want Him to do? Change His plan? Just for you? Doesn't it seem a little arrogant? It's a Divine Plan. What's the use of being God if every run-down [email protected] with a two-dollar prayerbook can come along and [email protected] up Your Plan?

And here's something else, another problem you might have: Suppose your prayers aren't answered. What do you say? "Well, it's God's will." "Thy Will Be Done." Fine, but if it's God's will, and He's going to do what He wants to anyway, why the [email protected] bother praying in the first place? Seems like a big waste of time to me! Couldn't you just skip the praying part and go right to His Will? It's all very confusing.
Greg Carlocci

Lansing, MI

#134 Dec 5, 2012
So to get around a lot of this, I decided to worship the sun. But, as I said, I don't pray to the sun. You know who I pray to? Joe Pesci. Two reasons: First of all, I think he's a good actor, okay? To me, that counts. Second, he looks like a guy who can get things done. Joe Pesci doesn't f*ck around. In fact, Joe Pesci came through on a couple of things that God was having trouble with.

For years I asked God to do something about my noisy neighbor with the barking dog, Joe Pesci straightened that [email protected]*r out with one visit. It's amazing what you can accomplish with a simple baseball bat.

So I've been praying to Joe for about a year now. And I noticed something. I noticed that all the prayers I used to offer to God, and all the prayers I now offer to Joe Pesci, are being answered at about the same 50% rate. Half the time I get what I want, half the time I don't. Same as God, 50-50. Same as the four-leaf clover and the horseshoe, the wishing well and the rabbit's foot, same as the Mojo Man, same as the Voodoo Lady who tells you your fortune by squeezing the goat's testlcles, it's all the same: 50-50. So just pick your superstition, sit back, make a wish, and enjoy yourself.

And for those of you who look to The Bible for moral lessons and literary qualities, I might suggest a couple of other stories for you. You might want to look at the Three Little Pigs, that's a good one. Has a nice happy ending, I'm sure you'll like that. Then there's Little Red Riding Hood, although it does have that X-rated part where the Big Bad Wolf actually eats the grandmother. Which I didn't care for, by the way. And finally, I've always drawn a great deal of moral comfort from Humpty Dumpty. The part I like the best? "All the king's horses and all the king's men couldn't put Humpty Dumpty back together again." That's because there is no Humpty Dumpty, and there is no God. None, not one, no God, never was.

In fact, I'm gonna put it this way. If there is a God, may he strike this forum dead! See? Nothing happened. Nothing happened? Everybody's okay? All right, tell you what, I'll raise the stakes a little bit. If there is a God, may he strike me dead. See? Nothing happened, oh, wait, I've got a little cramp in my leg. And my balls now hurt. Plus, I'm blind. I'm blind, oh crap, now I'm okay again, must have been Joe Pesci, huh?

God Bless Joe Pesci.
dont worry

Langley, KY

#135 Dec 5, 2012
Greg Carlocci wrote:
<quoted text>
I would never want to be a member of a group whose symbol was a guy nailed to two pieces of wood.
Don't worry it doesn't sound like you will be. Just leave this family alone.
Agree w Greg

Macon, GA

#136 Dec 5, 2012
Minus some of the satire, I agree with you Greg Carolcci- however lets move this discussion to another forum where we can collectively share wisdoms on the subject. Let this thread be used by others, even though I don't agree with it..People should leave the dead alone, no need whatsoever to start a forum here..but oh well.
Poor thing rip

Paintsville, KY

#137 Dec 5, 2012
I heard it was over that boy! She supported him for years

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