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Since: Jan 10

Rochester, NY

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#124
Feb 26, 2010
 
kathy wrote:
my boyfriend goes to williard he got there in february he wrote me one letter and then stopped.the weird thing is he said he would write me weekly.why do you think he stopped writing me does it have something to do with the treatment.can someone please help me
It's possible that he is too busy to write at the present time. You can always write to him. If you don't have the address, here it is:
Willard DTC
PO Box 303
Willard, NY 14588.
Be sure to put his name and is DIN on it.
MFRosario

New York, NY

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#125
Mar 8, 2010
 
Hey everyone i Haven't wrote in a while my fiancee is still at Willard and i have only seen him twice since he got there in december I work full time, while trying to get a degree in psychology, it takes up all my time.

After being at Willard my fiancee has changed in many ways, the way he talks the way he carries himself, and now he even has goals for himself. For those who are asking Willard is tough, and deff takes a toll on ur loved one and even on you, but i think in the end, we can appreciate the new person he/she is becoming.

As far as letters you can write as many letters as you want, the problem is they will get your letter just sometimes a little up to more than a week late, my fiancee tells me there's only one person who works the mail room & they start to distribute the letters to the inmates on fridays.

As well as the visits i was happy i got to spend soo much time with him being that i got there at 8am I live in Ny so i took the bus at 1am and the trip was 6hrs long. I kinda was upset at the fact that contact with him is very limited nothing like when he was at Rikers no touching, no kissing nothing! Just when the visit starts a hug and a kiss & later when the visit is over.

It hasnt being easy to get used to the fact he is at willard were they try to brake you down at all cost. & i still dont get used to it, everytime i read a letter that comes in the mail i drop down to tears he always has crazy stories to tell. & ladies they only give them 3mins to write so don't get upset.

It's all about patience, also if they don't have any stamps they can't write!. so sending them a money order of atleast 40$ can help at times...

Am still waiting patiently till he get's home, hes been away since September, in December he got moved to willard & we still aren't sure when it's his release date ;-(

i will answer any questions i can help with.
eboog

Washington, DC

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#126
Mar 9, 2010
 
its 97 days from that tuesday he got there (unless he gets into trouble as its based on a points system). they shouldve sent a letter to you with his tentative graduation date and the clothes you can send to him for him to come home in.
good luck to your hubby. I know its rough but he's half way through!! ; )
MFRosario

New York, NY

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#127
Mar 9, 2010
 
I have a question , the program is supposed to be 97 days but my hubby has a projected release date for September , why is that? also a parole hearing date for june? If anyone can please explain..
eboog

Brooklyn, NY

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#128
Mar 9, 2010
 
that's on docs. my hubbys said the same. in my hubbys case he was a parle violation so it would have been a year. once he was done w willard that changed.

ur hubby should have sent you that paper telling u what his tentative graduation date it. if he has been there since september it should be some time in march. just count 97 days from the tuesday he got there. the 97 day is also a tuesday.

now its 97 days unless they get recycled which means they see a review board there to determine how much more he would have to do BUT this is only if he's been getting into trouble there.
MFRosario

New York, NY

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#129
Mar 9, 2010
 
yea i recieved that letter it says march 12, he actually was sent to willard on december. i find it weird that i haven't recived a letter from him in 2 weeks..
eboog

United States

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#130
Mar 10, 2010
 
ok that's great! wait that's friday. its usually a tuesday to tuesday thing at willard. are you getting his calls?
MFRosario

New York, NY

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#131
Mar 10, 2010
 
i recieved a call from him last sunday..
eboog

Bronx, NY

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#132
Mar 11, 2010
 
ok great! so that's a good sign right. it means he's still there and doing what he has to do.

good luck to u and him!! hopefully he's back to u very soon ; )
David S

Buffalo, NY

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#133
Mar 17, 2010
 

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Just graduated 3/16/10....first few weeks is the worst, then your used to flow of things. Definetly beats longer incareration. Plus saves the taxpayer's lots of money. Some of the Drill Instructor's need to be in prison themselves though.

Since: Jan 10

Rochester, NY

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#134
Mar 18, 2010
 
David S wrote:
Just graduated 3/16/10....first few weeks is the worst, then your used to flow of things. Definetly beats longer incareration. Plus saves the taxpayer's lots of money. Some of the Drill Instructor's need to be in prison themselves though.
And which ones would they be?
c_smith

Johnstown, NY

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#135
Mar 18, 2010
 
David S wrote:
Just graduated 3/16/10....first few weeks is the worst, then your used to flow of things. Definetly beats longer incareration. Plus saves the taxpayer's lots of money. Some of the Drill Instructor's need to be in prison themselves though.
My husband is going there can you tell me if there is anything I should give him the heads up about or some words of wisdom. If he doesnt do this program he faces 2-4 years prison and I know he doesnt want that as do I. Thank you for you time
c_smith

Johnstown, NY

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#136
Mar 19, 2010
 
Can anyone tell me how my husband would go about getting clothes and what kind and other necessities when he gets there.He is going there straight from jail. Also what about shoes and what kind.Also what happens to him when he is done with the 90 days? He is from northern NY. Will he come back to this part of the area and into a half way house or something or can he return to his home?Thank you for any help you may have.

Since: Dec 09

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#137
Mar 20, 2010
 
If your husband is going to Willard he does not need anything with him nor do they allow any packages to be delivered to him while he is there they provide everything, because they are basically dressed up in boots pants button up and a tie. He would only basically need a money order for stamps.
WRIVERA

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#138
Mar 23, 2010
 
mfrosario, i have a quick question for you.
what bus company goes up to Willard from The bronx or manhattan?
MFRosario wrote:
If your husband is going to Willard he does not need anything with him nor do they allow any packages to be delivered to him while he is there they provide everything, because they are basically dressed up in boots pants button up and a tie. He would only basically need a money order for stamps.
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Johnstown, NY

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#139
Mar 23, 2010
 
MFRosario wrote:
If your husband is going to Willard he does not need anything with him nor do they allow any packages to be delivered to him while he is there they provide everything, because they are basically dressed up in boots pants button up and a tie. He would only basically need a money order for stamps.
Thank you so much I am so scared for what will happen to him. I dont know what to expect after he is done with the 90 days.
drea

Brooklyn, NY

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#140
Mar 24, 2010
 
my boyfriend has been there since february 23rd...and i still haven't recieved a tentative release date...should i be worried?
eboog

New York, NY

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#141
Apr 1, 2010
 
wrivera - kismet goes up - I believe Justin's number 6462941180. good luck!
JustAnotherCrimi nal not

Victor, NY

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#143
May 4, 2010
 
a friend just went in All because his medicine is free to grow and no drug company can make a fortune off it plain and simple y should anybody have 2 Run From The Cure !
cookie

Floral Park, NY

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#144
May 15, 2010
 
my lovd one compleated the zero wks thing and i only got 1 letter from him so far weird cause i didnt get one at all this week, im told they r short staffedin the mail rm and the incoming mail and outgoing takes longer, also he tried to call me but he couldnt get through and i have no blocks on my phone at all and is it true they read ur mail? they have very little help in the mail rm how could they do that? ive been reading alot of these posts and some info is helpful and some not so but im going through such stress from this we have no contact at all and is so hard anyone have answers about the phone thing and letters??? please help me
Munson15 wrote:
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It's possible that he is too busy to write at the present time. You can always write to him. If you don't have the address, here it is:
Willard DTC
PO Box 303
Willard, NY 14588.
Be sure to put his name and is DIN on it.

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