MISSING: Brian David Cook 37

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Concerned

Virginia Beach, VA

#1 Aug 4, 2011
Brian David Cook of Boone County, recently residing in Oceana has been missing since July 27. He was last seen wearing brown shorts, blue shirt and sandals. Brian is 5'8" tall 185 pounds and has very noticeable scars down his forearm from a car accident. He has dark hair and usually has a mustache. He has an addiction to drugs and alcohol. He suffers from liver failure and has need of medical care. His friends and family are very worried about him and would like anyone with any information on his whereabouts to leave a message here (anonymously is fine) or to call the Oceana police chief who is heading up this investigation. Please, the worry is killing us.
Another one gone

Brooklyn, NY

#2 Aug 4, 2011
Probably laying dead somewhere from a drug overdose
pat pat

United States

#3 Aug 5, 2011
Another one gone wrote:
Probably laying dead somewhere from a drug overdose
Some day you may be facing the some thing this family is just because he was on drugs doesn't make the hurt or love you feel go away. I hope you face what they are facing and everything you say here comes back to you.
Another one gone

Astoria, NY

#4 Aug 5, 2011
If a member of my family was doing drugs I would get them help BEFORE they came up missing!! It is pathetic these people who get are weepy eyed when a family member dies from a drug overdose. They should get the family member help BEFORE it goes this far!!

Whine and complain all you want YOU know it is the truth!! FAmilies like this make me sick! They say "we tried to help him" Bu11sh1t!! Call the cops and turn them in if you have to!! Tell the cops where they get their drugs and where they keep their drugs!!

If they are not willing to go into rehab on their own then have them arrested! Don't start crying when they die.

They got what was coming to them!! Do you actually think they give a crap if they die or not!! If they want to live then guess what they won't use drugs!!

Drug addicts don't give a cfrap what they do to themselves or to others!! For proof go to youtube and search for KROCODIL it is a new drug in russia that rots peoples flesh away!! You can see the bones when their flesh rots away and they STILL keep using the drug!!
stupid people

Morgantown, WV

#5 Aug 6, 2011
Another one gone wrote:
If a member of my family was doing drugs I would get them help BEFORE they came up missing!! It is pathetic these people who get are weepy eyed when a family member dies from a drug overdose. They should get the family member help BEFORE it goes this far!!
Whine and complain all you want YOU know it is the truth!! FAmilies like this make me sick! They say "we tried to help him" Bu11sh1t!! Call the cops and turn them in if you have to!! Tell the cops where they get their drugs and where they keep their drugs!!
If they are not willing to go into rehab on their own then have them arrested! Don't start crying when they die.
They got what was coming to them!! Do you actually think they give a crap if they die or not!! If they want to live then guess what they won't use drugs!!
Drug addicts don't give a cfrap what they do to themselves or to others!! For proof go to youtube and search for KROCODIL it is a new drug in russia that rots peoples flesh away!! You can see the bones when their flesh rots away and they STILL keep using the drug!!
Well, make up your mind. Is it the families fault or the drug addicts? If it was that easy for family to stop it there wouldn't be any drug addicts. Only the addict can stop themselves and only when they want to. What makes you think the family knows where they get the drugs? The jails are full of addicts that someone has called the cops on. And the Drug Court. None of it stops them. You are just plain stupid and cruel. The only thing that will stop this is when the drug companies quit making this unnecessary crap, which they won't do, because they make millions, and we all know how important it is for big companies to make millions. Not to mention, the government wants the american people to be stupid (like you) or dependant on drugs. That way the big drug companies can keep making their millions and not pay taxes and ship their jobs overseas, and dumbases like you can just point the finger at the families and pour salt in their wounds. But, hey, it's good to know we got people like you that know how to stop drug abuse!
stupid people

United States

#6 Aug 6, 2011
thanks for your comment it's people like sunnyside or stupid that cause people to be on drugs in the first place
me too

Nitro, WV

#7 Aug 6, 2011
it is a lot easier said than done -- getting someone off of drugs --- hope they find him and he is okay ignore ignorant people who have not been thru the drug addiction of a family member this is boone county after all , half of the people are addicted
Concerned

Virginia Beach, VA

#8 Aug 6, 2011
I am Brian's ex wife and mother of his daughter. Before I left him, I sent him to detox and rehab three times. He has been in jail multiple times because once you screw up, the system makes it impossible to get back up unless you have the help of your family. If you are a drug addict, you burn your bridges with family and friends so when you come out of jail, you cannot get back up. He has tried and tried hard, but oxy's and heroin are impossible to get away from. He has had multiple chances and people have given up on him and maybe to some that means he is a piece of shit who deserves to die. But I challenge anyone with such a firm decision made about drugs, addicts and the responsibility of their family to come and talk to my little girl and tell her he deserves to be found dead in a ditch. If you wouldn't do that, then shut the f#%k up and keep your ignorant opinions to yourself. This man means something to his family regardless of the hurt and pain he is in or that he has caused, regardless of those of us who had to let him go to hope he would seek the help he needs. We care about human life, we care about his life and God help you and your families if you should ever face this horrible "not knowing"!
Another one gone

New Castle, IN

#9 Aug 6, 2011
So how did that letting him go to hope he would seek the help he needs work out for ya??

If you haven't told your daughter he is a piece of shit drug addict don't you think it's about time you did?? Would be alot better coming from you than someone else don't you think??
stupid people

Java, VA

#10 Aug 7, 2011
stupid people wrote:
thanks for your comment it's people like sunnyside or stupid that cause people to be on drugs in the first place
You should go visit a rehab facility, talk to the addicts and counselors. Ask them how they got started. And ask them if mom and dad or anyone else can get them off drugs. Until then, you are just blowing out your a s s.
stupid people

Java, VA

#11 Aug 7, 2011
Another one gone wrote:
So how did that letting him go to hope he would seek the help he needs work out for ya??
If you haven't told your daughter he is a piece of shit drug addict don't you think it's about time you did?? Would be alot better coming from you than someone else don't you think??
I disagree. She may someday need to tell the child her father is a drug addict. That is her business. But there is more than one kind of 'piece of s hit', and I believe you fit in that catagory. This is a posting of someone who is missing, if you don't care about this person, stay out of it and keep your shi tty opinions to yourself.
Concerned

Virginia Beach, VA

#12 Aug 7, 2011
Another one gone wrote:
So how did that letting him go to hope he would seek the help he needs work out for ya??
If you haven't told your daughter he is a piece of shit drug addict don't you think it's about time you did?? Would be alot better coming from you than someone else don't you think??
My daughter is very aware of who her father is and the mistakes he's made. She is aware of how sick he is and how much she wishes he would seek the help he needs. She is also aware that since she could remember, he was the one who took her out fishing and four wheeling, that he is the one who she followed a black bear with down the river bank until she saw it with some cubs, that he kept her from being scared the first time she rode a roller coaster or finally got the courage to go under water at the pool for the first time. She is aware that he came from 7 hours away to attend a father daughter dance with her and that he was the only dad willing to make a fool of himself dancing just to make sure she had a good time. So, another one gone, to answer your question. Leaving him in the hopes of him realizing he needed help didn't help him out much, but it helped her to grow up and realize that our parents aren't perfect. That we come with our own issues in life. That people struggle with horrible things and that sometimes they win and sometimes they don't. It also helped her have compassion and forgiveness and if we could ask her daddy if those things about her have helped him in his life since we've left I know he would say yes. I know he would say she is the only reason he has lived this long. While I am appalled at your lack of education and your ignorance I can only hope that you have not had occasion to procreate, as I know your children will take after you and leave this world a much worse place to be in. FOAD!
i care

Wharton, WV

#13 Aug 7, 2011
Concerned wrote:
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My daughter is very aware of who her father is and the mistakes he's made. She is aware of how sick he is and how much she wishes he would seek the help he needs. She is also aware that since she could remember, he was the one who took her out fishing and four wheeling, that he is the one who she followed a black bear with down the river bank until she saw it with some cubs, that he kept her from being scared the first time she rode a roller coaster or finally got the courage to go under water at the pool for the first time. She is aware that he came from 7 hours away to attend a father daughter dance with her and that he was the only dad willing to make a fool of himself dancing just to make sure she had a good time. So, another one gone, to answer your question. Leaving him in the hopes of him realizing he needed help didn't help him out much, but it helped her to grow up and realize that our parents aren't perfect. That we come with our own issues in life. That people struggle with horrible things and that sometimes they win and sometimes they don't. It also helped her have compassion and forgiveness and if we could ask her daddy if those things about her have helped him in his life since we've left I know he would say yes. I know he would say she is the only reason he has lived this long. While I am appalled at your lack of education and your ignorance I can only hope that you have not had occasion to procreate, as I know your children will take after you and leave this world a much worse place to be in. FOAD!
I know what the family is going through, I have been there and still am there. Brian has a good heart and that means alot. As long as there's life there is hope. I hope he still has both.

Since: May 11

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#14 Aug 7, 2011
has he been located yet?? i am from oceana did he disappear from boone county or oceana?? and where was he last seen?? im not wanting gossip just wondering if im in an area where i could maybe see him... i will be praying for his family. God give this family strength to get through this difficult time... AMEN
veracious

Wharton, WV

#15 Aug 8, 2011
I'd be checking Alicia! I believe she's capable of anything
stupid people

Chesapeake, OH

#16 Aug 8, 2011
veracious wrote:
I'd be checking Alicia! I believe she's capable of anything
you might be onto something there. Wouldn't be the first time would it?
stupid people

Chesapeake, OH

#17 Aug 8, 2011
veracious wrote:
I'd be checking Alicia! I believe she's capable of anything
you might be onto something there. Wouldn't be the first time, would it?
boone county

Nitro, WV

#18 Aug 8, 2011
hope he is found safe and sound hope he gets the help he needs to get off the drugs it is a lot easier said than done if you havent walked a mile in his shoes then you need to keep your hateful comments to yourself
Concerned

Virginia Beach, VA

#19 Aug 8, 2011
veracious wrote:
I'd be checking Alicia! I believe she's capable of anything
He has not been located yet. He was last reported as being let out of a car at a store in Lynco.
boone county

Nitro, WV

#20 Aug 8, 2011
still hoping he is found safe hope his family gets good news . if he is on drugs , he needs help not negative comments . he is still someones son ,brother ,daddy ,nephew, and he is loved by them i am sure . people should be praying for him instead of putting him down .

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