Please don't tell ME about having real issues to deal with okay? You have no clue what I've been through. While my heart breaks for you after reading your post(the first part about your daughter),I can't help but to see something hęre that confirms my point to you. You talk about "Aaron,your miscarried "son" and now your daughter(who passed after birth). You said that "SHE" almost died before being delivered and how if she did,YOU would have NEVER known each other,have held HER to your breast and nursed her,comforted her cries when SHE wa too hot or too warm,say HER firt word,seen HER take her first step or hear HER giggle. TWO children of yours,talked about while in the womb,as if they were REAL individual and not just some WAD OF USELESS CELLS. ONE survived and you got to experience those things. Yet,you lost her early in her life which deeply pains you not being able to experience the *rest of HER life*. The other two died while in utero,and only one got named. Aaron was your son somehow.<quoted text>
I miss my daughter who would be 21 a week after Christmas. I missed seeing her graduate high school. I missed teaching her how to drive. She was going to have her first lesson the next day. We were going to have lasagna for dinner the night she died. She was going to clean her room. It was a 4-day weekend. Semester break. She was a sophomore in high school.
She almost died before being delivered. I almost died, too. Had we died, we never would have known each other. I never would have held her to my breast and nursed her. I never would have comforted her cries when she was too cold or too warm. I never would have heard her first word (it was not Mama), seen her take her first steps, or hear her giggle.
I did not have anything with my lost pregnancy other than lost dreams. He didn't survive, he didn't live. He wasn't as real to me as my youngest daughter is. She lived. She breathed. In and out. Over and over and over until the morning she stopped.
Don't you ever talk to me about dehumanizing anything you evil thing draped in a fake Christ. You think you're "honoring" a 30 plus year old fetus who never saw the light of day or felt the sun on his cheeks? You are disrespecting all lost pregnancies with your fakey fake concern for dead fetuses you'll never know about if you're not told about it. You wouldn't know humanity if it hit you right between the eyes. Especially when you continue trying to steal women's civil rights out from under them. Right out from your own daughters' feet!!
Your smugness won't save you if/when you have real issues to deal with in your life time.
Interesting that you dehumanize those still young and in the womb during the journey of their lives. You are fighting me for the right to KILL them AND I AM THE "EVIL" ONE KATIE????????
My condolences on your losses. I am sure the grown adult daughters loss was the worst experience you faced. I can't even IMAGINE losing my child. I almost did and just reading your post choked me up. I know the response I will get so don't even bother responding.. I speak from my heart and your approval of it is not required.