You failed to grasp the meaning of the example, but I'm not surprised.<quoted text>
You accused me of saying something charitable and consoling about God to a grieving person who has lost a family member. You seemed to think there is something wrong with that.
You cannot tell NAP she is blaming God for all the evils of the world while you attribute everything to God. Everything includes good and bad, not just the good stuff. God is not your personal Santa Claus or Fairy Godmother.
Those who believe that abortion is bad because God said so (where's the real proof in that anyway?) cannot ignore the reality if God didn't want abortion to happen, it wouldn't happen. Therefore, to ignore that all things are through God, including abortion, is faulty logic on your part. Not NAP's. Not mine.
Get with it already.