I think when you hear that the man is suppose to be the head of the house, you truly think about a sadam hussain, who rules with an iron fist.<quoted text>
By "others," I think you mean regressive religionists like yourself. If a husband is also a woman's BOSS, that is extremely oppressive to me, no matter how many times you claim otherwise. In fact, I consider such an arrangement to be the equivalent of marital slavery, which I don't believe is good for any woman.
You can call it "freedom" all you want, pal. I still call such an arrangement OPPRESSION.
You look for bible verses, that speaks of, after a man marries a woman "her body nolonger belongs to her ",and if the husband wants to make love, then shr should, but you OVERLOOK the verse that says, when a man marries a woman HIS BODY is no longer His own, and if the wife wants to make love, then He should!
Plus why? So that ye are not tempted of others in the world.
Being head of the home comes with great price!!!
it doesn't mean, that the woman stays home with the babies 24/7 while dady runs around killing deer every weekend, getting drunk, and playing with his home boys, while the woman knows her place.
Do some men think this? Yes
There are idiots eveeywhere.
Do those marriages make it? Not usualy, and if they do, they are DEAD even though they are alive.
Someone has to be the one that cast the last vote.
God chose the man.
If you are married, then when important decisions come up, soneone must have the final say.
You may hate the idea, of that being a man, plus will he screw up at times? Yes
Do you want women to have the final say? Ok will they screw up at times? Yes
Women can be smarter,and everything else more then a man, but someone must be in the position of head of the house.
plus it is how we are made.
Even two lesbians, will usualy have a head of the house.
Why do we have a president?
Boss at work?
Would you work for a male boss?
Even if he treated you with the respect you deserved?
Would you want a hubby, who only knows how to say yes dear?
Ok forget that one, becouse all women reading this are thinking "I would ". Lol
Seriously though -you idea is WRONG, when it comes to man being head of the house.
I cook I clean, I've changed almost as many diapers as my wife.
Plus if there is anything I think will make her happy, then I will do whatever I can to make it happen.
(MAKE HER HAPPY)
(MAKE IT HAPPEN)
Kinda catchy. Look just becouse soneone, or many ones from your past acted like a evil redneck, that just means they has the same idea about their position, as you have about the position.
A man that does his job, in this area, will give waaay more, then he gets.
I have found, that men that love God will love their wife, and men that don't , only love themselves.