As a Christian, and faith in Christ is black and white.<quoted text> "childen have parents who not only respect G-d, but their children and each other ALWAYS find a way to help their children find THEIR way "
How does one "respect " God? By following him and his commandments. Saying you believe in a God is meaningless if you don't obey him. You MUST lead by example and traditions only doesn't cut it.
Kids learn by exsmple after they're instructed.
You mock Christ. You claim that it is the "extremist "that you are mocking but your words attack God and Jesus. You also advocate, condone and justify killing whom he willed and then, created in the womb.
Your daughter has no stability in your home. She was taught traditions..and thats it.
One parent teaches the Jesus is your Lord and Savior and the other parent says He isn't and He probably didn't even exist. I seems that the child isn't vested in either religion enough to make a meaningful decision. She probably shirts the edges of both religions and has no real allegience to either.