experimenting

Indianapolis, IN

#1 Jul 9, 2013
My husband has been discussing male chastity. I was concerned at first but am starting to see the benefits. Anyone else had any experience with this?
Curious

United States

#2 Jul 10, 2013
experimenting wrote:
My husband has been discussing male chastity. I was concerned at first but am starting to see the benefits. Anyone else had any experience with this?
Have been in chastity for almost three years now. Very rewarding but challenging. Why are you interested?
jason

United States

#3 Sep 23, 2013
Been in for afew days now and I love it ... Sposto get. Let out this after. Noon for a few hours back in for 15 days ... Should b a easy 2 weeks will be out of town for work
Rocky

Lady Lake, FL

#4 Mar 13, 2014
My wife and I have been practicing male chastity for the last 5 months and are now up to a month or more period of chastity for me. It started as just tease and denial play. All of a sudden my wife loved teasing and denying me after 43 years of catering to my sexual needs and control.

Over time she extended my period of denial and teased me more often. It got to the point where my penis took over my brain and we had to go to a chastity device to go as long as my wife wanted me too. She discovered her kink after all this time and like how I behaved when I was constantly aroused. She keeps saying that if I leave it to her, it will be a very long time before she lets me orgasm because when she does, I get bitchy for the next week and then it takes at least two weeks for me to get back to where she likes me to be. Going through this every month only resulted in one week of the behavior from me that she desired.

Now we are on no schedule. She is free to let me have an orgasm whenever she wants and she no longer feels guilty or being a bad wife by denying me for long periods of time. Surprisingly enough, I like it too. After many years of trying to have as many orgasms as possible, I am enjoying being aroused all the time. Certainly more fun than a 15 second orgasm. I feel calm and am sleeping much better. I am no longer spending hours looking at porn and went from zero housework to do more than half of it and asking to do more. My wife had to stop me because she said that she did not want to be left with nothing to do.

It is usually my wife who wants me to orgasm, more than I do. When she makes me have an orgasm I feel that all my hard work to get to the point where having an orgasm does not matter, went down the drain and I have to go through those first hellish two weeks to get back to the place that I felt good in. So now we are going to see how long is too long for me.

For most, an orgasm is the goal of sex. Once you change from goal oriented sex to just intimacy, sex becomes better and more enjoyable plus it lasts a lot longer and done more often. My wife is having so many orgasms that she says she is exhausted. I have learned to share my wife's orgasms so that when she cums, I feel like I just did too and am calm and relaxed afterwards.

I would have never thought that I would intentionally limit my orgasms but now I love the feeling. I am always aroused by even the smallest of things and feel much better than I have felt before. We both love it and it has made our marriage better than it already was. My wife is digging the extra attention that I give her and my complete cooperation. We have even entered into a wife led marriage where she has the final say in all matters. It is freeing to not have to make all the relationship decisions anymore. I had a good run and now it is my wife's turn to live the good life like I did for so long.

Chastity play has led to Domestic Discipline where my wife no longer gives me the silent treatment of holds on to resentment for a long period of time. Now she just paddles my butt and she lets go of any anger she had. We still appear as normal as any other couple but her girlfriends are always telling her how lucky she is to have such an attentive husband. If only they knew why.:)

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