Hope you don't mind me butting in but that is a defeatist attitude, first of all you have to consider there really may have been other complaints but no one else came forward to validate that it may be true and more than he said she said. You also are assuming that the leaders of the ministry house or home group would not still be confronted about this. If women would take this attitude (which regrettably many do) rapist would never be caught and would go on raping. and how do you expect people to sit up and take notice when yo have not told anyone other than coming on this page to do it?? What are the chances someone was going to see it that could do something about it? I saw this page today just by fluke looking up something else. It is not wrong to express you concerns or feelings in any church or anywhere else for that matter..if you and others who felt the same do not voice them while in the group or ministry house then how does it get discussed, worked out, or changed??