No More

Boston, MA

#1 Sep 14, 2009
You are the home wrecker and other woman that intruded in our life. You know who you are. Have you been blind? You already know that he's a liar. He has been lying to you since you met him. He is using you. Heís talked to you daily telling you all his problems. Heís a smooth talker telling you everything you want to hear. He also is a user. Heís with you because he thinks you and your family have money. Think of me. He hasnít told you how much Iíve done for him and how much I loved him. Is it fair to me? Didn't you ever think what it was doing to me? Iíve been with him for many years. Weíve made a nice home together. Then you come into the picture. Since then, Iíve dealt with his moods, anger and verbal and emotional abuse due to his guilt of cheating on me with you. Heís told me lie after lie. Heís taken you on dates and has attended family functions with you. Who does your family think he is? Have you introduced him to everyone as your boyfriend? Havenít you ever wondered why he never invited you to his house? Where did you think he spent his holidays? Have you known about me from the beginning and still gone out with him? He denied knowing YOU when I confronted him. Heís lived a double life since he met you a year and a half ago. I know about everything. Iím asking you to GO AWAY and leave us alone. We are going to try to pick up the pieces and get on with our life.
why

Effingham, NH

#2 Sep 17, 2009
I just am concerned with you,you sound like you are in a lot of pain and i feel for you very much!You do not deserve a man who is gonna cheat on you and lie to you and hurt you in this way.I was abused too and we are women and do not deserve it AT ALLL.. I am sorry that you are having a hard time dealing with this and wish i could help,the only way i can think of is to suggest maybe ready a book called "the verbally abusive relationship" By Patrica Evans..It helped me and maybe it will you...

And if you "the home wrecker" Is reading this you suck and have no self respect and no morals you deserve a jerk just like the one you have..

Oh and to the wife listen to the song by sugarland called stay..it is so good.
abused

Effingham, NH

#3 Sep 17, 2009
I agree why would you want to be with a cheater? And why would you take him back? And if he abused you in any way you need to really stand up for yourself and let the bastard go.
No more

Saint Albans, VT

#4 Sep 17, 2009
why wrote:
I just am concerned with you,you sound like you are in a lot of pain and i feel for you very much!You do not deserve a man who is gonna cheat on you and lie to you and hurt you in this way.I was abused too and we are women and do not deserve it AT ALLL.. I am sorry that you are having a hard time dealing with this and wish i could help,the only way i can think of is to suggest maybe ready a book called "the verbally abusive relationship" By Patrica Evans..It helped me and maybe it will you...
And if you "the home wrecker" Is reading this you suck and have no self respect and no morals you deserve a jerk just like the one you have..
Oh and to the wife listen to the song by sugarland called stay..it is so good.
Thank you so much for concern. I'm very hurt because I've lost the trust I had in him. He is not seeing her anymore. He has admitted it and we are trying to work things out and get our life back to the way it was before she came into the picture. I've been with him for many years and he is a good man. I think his affair was making him consumed with guilt and thus it was taken out at me. By verbal abuse, I mean he was moody and sullen and always angry. I felt that he no longer loved me. Since he admitted it, he says he does love me and never stopped. We have a long way to go but I feel that our relationship is worth the work. I felt that I had to comment on this forum to let HER know about the misery that she caused in my life. She is from Westbrook and I hope she and her family see it. I know this is an odd way to open up and vent but it's been a catharsis for me. Thanks so much.
why

Effingham, NH

#5 Sep 17, 2009
I do hope things work out,but i really am strongly suggesting that you do read that book i mentioned before,you will be surprised at the things that ARE abuse..Good luck..
No more

Boston, MA

#6 Sep 18, 2009
why wrote:
I do hope things work out,but i really am strongly suggesting that you do read that book i mentioned before,you will be surprised at the things that ARE abuse..Good luck..
Thanks so much. I'll get that book.
ex-cop Bill

Norwalk, CT

#7 Sep 26, 2009
I hope things work out- maybe you both should go into relationship counseling....
No more

Boston, MA

#8 Sep 28, 2009
ex-cop Bill wrote:
I hope things work out- maybe you both should go into relationship counseling....
I'm trying. Thank you.
Local

Des Moines, IA

#9 Oct 13, 2009
No More wrote:
You are the home wrecker and other woman that intruded in our life. You know who you are. Have you been blind? You already know that he's a liar. He has been lying to you since you met him. He is using you. Heís talked to you daily telling you all his problems. Heís a smooth talker telling you everything you want to hear. He also is a user. Heís with you because he thinks you and your family have money. Think of me. He hasnít told you how much Iíve done for him and how much I loved him. Is it fair to me? Didn't you ever think what it was doing to me? Iíve been with him for many years. Weíve made a nice home together. Then you come into the picture. Since then, Iíve dealt with his moods, anger and verbal and emotional abuse due to his guilt of cheating on me with you. Heís told me lie after lie. Heís taken you on dates and has attended family functions with you. Who does your family think he is? Have you introduced him to everyone as your boyfriend? Havenít you ever wondered why he never invited you to his house? Where did you think he spent his holidays? Have you known about me from the beginning and still gone out with him? He denied knowing YOU when I confronted him. Heís lived a double life since he met you a year and a half ago. I know about everything. Iím asking you to GO AWAY and leave us alone. We are going to try to pick up the pieces and get on with our life.
How sad and lonely you must be to be pleading with some skank on the internet to leave your man alone. You have to know that she didn't take him, he willingly left. If he had respect for you he would never have pulled any of this crap.

Time to move on and leave them alone. They won't be together for long. If he cheated on you, he will do the same to her.

For you to stress over it is only hurting you. Don't give the two of them that kind of power over you.
No more

Boston, MA

#10 Oct 14, 2009
Local wrote:
<quoted text>
How sad and lonely you must be to be pleading with some skank on the internet to leave your man alone. You have to know that she didn't take him, he willingly left. If he had respect for you he would never have pulled any of this crap.
Time to move on and leave them alone. They won't be together for long. If he cheated on you, he will do the same to her.
For you to stress over it is only hurting you. Don't give the two of them that kind of power over you.
It is over now between them. He may have willingly carried on the affair but she knew about it and continued it anyway. He is sorry and we are trying to work it out. We are considering counseling and will be taking a vacation to get away from everything for a while. She is from a well-respected family in Westbrook and I'm sure everyone would be surprised if they knew what she was doing.

Since: Sep 09

Location hidden

#11 Oct 17, 2009
I know who these people are and it was definitely the woman chasing after this married man. He was a pig for going after her. She brought him around her family and they have no idea that he was cheating on his wife. She should be ashamed of herself and he should thank his lucky stars that he has a wife as wonderful as the one he has to put up with him and be willing to take him back.
chitty chitty bang bang

Boston, MA

#12 Nov 10, 2009
Is it the "doctor?" Taking advantage of the people she treats.
why is she hiding

Needham, MA

#13 Jan 22, 2010
Just wondering.
Wow

South Portland, ME

#14 Mar 10, 2010
I can't believe the wife of this loser and liar is staying with him and blaming the other woman for everything.
This guy is getting away with this and will definitely do it again.
windham resident

Lewiston, ME

#15 Mar 23, 2010
Want to hook up so I can ease your pain? I'll make you forget all about that clown.

Since: Mar 10

Location hidden

#16 Mar 26, 2010
Not everyone knows the circumstances of this and shouldn't judge. If you've ever been in love with someone it's hard to end it. He will get what's coming to him eventually. She will smarten up.

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