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Jimmy

Ozark, MO

#21 Jun 6, 2012
I dated a girl that had 3 kids and when she was at work her mother would leave the kids with a known pedophile and swore at them of they spoke about it to their mom. That guy even sleeps in her bed and she kept saying he is a friend of the family even when the the police are called. The grand mother is so drugged out that she just sits at the table in the kitchen living area just on her phone as the kids are abused and neglected and she spouts about how much she loves her fans babies and other lies. I hope something will get rose kids away from those worthless people and I use the term people loosely just like their daring habits.
try to help

Branson, MO

#22 Jun 6, 2012
Hot line this family. Be a voice for the children who don't have one.

“USS Bainbridge CGN-25”

Since: Jun 11

San Diego Pier 5

#23 Jun 6, 2012
you all are describing deadbeat parents in training pants, until they get arrested, then they fully graduate...anymore it seems it's all about the cell phone and the facebook status
mama

West Plains, MO

#24 Jun 7, 2012
Most of the problem stems from parents who are just too young.When my daughters came of age I took them to the doctor to get "period" control.We talked about it freely and instead of concentrating on how the pill is used to just prevent pregnancy, I explained how it helped regulate menstruation, kept hormones in check and helped clear up zits,too, so they didn't feel as ackward about going on it. I'm happy to say, they both graduated hs and on to college and no unplanned pregnancies.
sad but true

Forsyth, MO

#25 Jun 8, 2012
parents even though a grandparent loves their Grandkids it does not mean that you should be dumping them off every weekend or almost the whole summer or spring break so you can get out and do what your big enough to do . Try being parents rather then allowing someone else take the right of saying they raised your kids . Another thing I think it's sad to shove kids off on a babysitter all the time . It's one thing when you have to work but another to keep them over so you can take a nap and only see your kids for an hour or two a day . Another thing I think is a JOKE is the whole sports thing . It's one thing to send them to one sport of their choice but to make sure their schedule's so full of activities so you can have ME time is really sick . I am sorry but if a child was close to their parents they would not feel the need to take on a full week of activities and if a parent cared about their kids they would limit this and make sure to have PLENTY of family fun too . I have been seeing this for so long and it really breaks my heart . point blank , if you don't have the time or money to afford kids , DON'T HAVE THEM!!!
Sunshine

Ava, MO

#26 Jun 8, 2012
Jimmy wrote:
I dated a girl that had 3 kids and when she was at work her mother would leave the kids with a known pedophile and swore at them of they spoke about it to their mom. That guy even sleeps in her bed and she kept saying he is a friend of the family even when the the police are called. The grand mother is so drugged out that she just sits at the table in the kitchen living area just on her phone as the kids are abused and neglected and she spouts about how much she loves her fans babies and other lies. I hope something will get rose kids away from those worthless people and I use the term people loosely just like their daring habits.
R u serious right now? If u knowingly havent called to get these kids help ur just as guilty. Save those kids already! U shldnt let another minute go by without at least trying to protect those kids.
fed up

Palos Hills, IL

#27 Jul 2, 2013
I work 4 days a week, as soon as I leave my neighbor that does not work sends her kid over to my babaysitter,,and all she does does is ask me if I wartch certain reallity shows , so I know what she does all day , on weekends the kid is knocking on my door at 10:00 am wth.why are there people like this? it is ur kid take care of him your self!!!
Lisa

West Plains, MO

#28 Jul 2, 2013
Donna Jo wrote:
How about mothers who choose men over their kids?
There are more pathetic women out there that do choose a man over their children. A movie was made about a woman who was with a man that said he wasn't ready to be a father to her 3 kids. She tried to kill them. The oldest survived. I forgot the name of the movie but Farrah Faucett played the mother. I do know a wonam who gave her child away because the man didn't want children. Sad.
chaz

UK

#29 Aug 17, 2013
Regardless your here and thank God, be a blessing to others esp. Those that can relate to you. And yes we do love u and I will pray for u I had my son when I was young and I mother him to much u should not have gone through that but I reckon yr stronger because of it try not to be bitter or hate them, let go and let God deal with them He states your special I reckon he's right.
Michael wrote:
I dont give a damn about my parents,my father wanted an abortion and for some reason my mother wouldn't go through with it,yet today she wishes she had because he believes her life would be alot better with her new husband and my half siblings.Basically telling me that she knows now that my father was right and that she wasn't ready for the responsibility.Oh well,life sucks right? Get over it right? Who gives a shit right? Well,I've been away from my parents for 10 years now,its better that way, My mother was a single parent who always dumped me off on my grandparents so she could go out,get drunk and fuck around,now today she tries to act as she's all innocent,goes to faith assembly and tries to cover it all up.Well,fuck you mom.
hmm

Branson, MO

#30 Aug 17, 2013
what about wrote:
what about so called mothers who think its ok to
cheat on their man and having a child of the age that know whats going on and know dad is at work and mom being the w hore that she is continues to meet guys time after time and having so called friends
to back her up ?


Sounds like you had a personal experience with this mom your talking about hehe. Or are you just talkin smack because your jealous lol. Cheating is definitely wrong but there are always two sides to every story.
thriftyjim

Mansfield, OH

#33 Sep 23, 2014
all the same wrote:
There are 'fathers' who do the same thing, and a lot worse!
Bullshit! Women are way worse and care less.
tim

High Ridge, MO

#34 Sep 23, 2014
Michael wrote:
I dont give a damn about my parents,my father wanted an abortion and for some reason my mother wouldn't go through with it,yet today she wishes she had because he believes her life would be alot better with her new husband and my half siblings.Basically telling me that she knows now that my father was right and that she wasn't ready for the responsibility.Oh well,life sucks right? Get over it right? Who gives a shit right? Well,I've been away from my parents for 10 years now,its better that way, My mother was a single parent who always dumped me off on my grandparents so she could go out,get drunk and fuck around,now today she tries to act as she's all innocent,goes to faith assembly and tries to cover it all up.Well,fuck you mom.
I am sorry you are mad and you have a right to be. I want you to know if you don't already realize it that people do care about youand love you. Think of your grandparents that rasied you. Parents are not perfect and some have no right to be blessed with children. I hope you one day will come to terms with your past relationship with your mom. Time changes people and when people do not talk about things that anger them it festers and grows consuming the person. I suspect that your mom may have deep regret for the way she was. For your own sake I hope sincerely hope you will find a way to forgive your parents and move on with your life.
Nardine Walesky

West Plains, MO

#35 Sep 23, 2014
tim wrote:
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I am sorry you are mad and you have a right to be. I want you to know if you don't already realize it that people do care about youand love you. Think of your grandparents that rasied you. Parents are not perfect and some have no right to be blessed with children. I hope you one day will come to terms with your past relationship with your mom. Time changes people and when people do not talk about things that anger them it festers and grows consuming the person. I suspect that your mom may have deep regret for the way she was. For your own sake I hope sincerely hope you will find a way to forgive your parents and move on with your life.
I don't think this is the real tomboy (tim). You sound almost like a caring "human" here.
Momma

Sparta, MO

#36 Sep 23, 2014
I heard that you could drop off your kids at the hospital in Kansas if you're unable to properly care for them anymore, and so I drove all the way out there with three boys, and they wouldn't take them!! So what if they are 33, 36, and 41 years old! Nit-picking on technicalities, I say!! I don't want them in my basement any longer!! They refuse to leave!!!

Anybody out there willing to take them? They seem to be able to survive solely on Old Milwaukee beer and pizza, and the younger one is very, very good at taking motorcycles apart. Not so good at putting them back together. So anybody that takes them gets a free truckload of Harley Davidson parts. Their names are tim, grave digger, and police state. No, I didn't name them that, don't ask me why they insist on those names..go figure! Ha haa haa!!!
Good Parent

Vanzant, MO

#37 Sep 23, 2014
What's wrong with young people today? When you make the choice to have children you have also made the choice to give up having a personal life for the next 18 years. Children require your full attention and deserve to be home at night, alone with their parents. If you aren't willing to make that sacrifice then you have NO business having them in the first place, period.
FedUp

Drury, MO

#38 Sep 27, 2014
I have raised my grandkis for three years. The dad is non existent and the mom usually comes around at the end of the year to see if she can "borrow" a kid for tax return purpose to buy a car or pay her drug fines and to complain that I "stole" her child support card and money!

She recently came back into my home under the pretense that she was clean and wanted to reconnect. I fell for it. All was good for about 3 weeks and then she starte running off and coming back when she pleased, screaming at her kids, sleeping all day and expecting me to do it all as if wasn't there. She was a slob and sat around eating foo when not sleeping, so it caused problems. I would tell her to leave and she would refuse an use her kids as the excuse....."I want to be with my kids!!!" she would say and then go to sleep on the 16 couch for hours or leave for three days! She also started demanding the child support card. I told her no, as she would waste it like she had before!.I got called a gold digger, selfish b*tch, and more! YET, she had three paycheck previously and spent maybe $20 on her kids!

I finally got her out and me and her kids are much happier. When she first left, she immediately stopped the child support card I had and got herself a new one! She can't pick up her socks, do her kid's laundry, give good attention to her children or cook and do dishes, but she can take the time to get online and call to get at her kids support!!!She has been gone for two months spending their child support! I am told she goes around slandering my name and telling everyone I lie and keep her kids from her.I know it is true, because I watched her lie to a judge about abandoning her kids for 3 years. I guess that is the thanks you get for sacrificing yourself to care for someone else's children!

I use to hope she would come around and be in their lives. Now I realize she may have more than a drug problem and I don't have time to waste on worrying about her anymore.She refuses rehab and counseling. I also realized I don't have to put up with her abuse, either.I have accepted she isn't a very nice person and moved on. Hard to do. But I am done!
Good Parent

Ozark, MO

#39 Sep 28, 2014
FedUp wrote:
I have raised my grandkis for three years. The dad is non existent and the mom usually comes around at the end of the year to see if she can "borrow" a kid for tax return purpose to buy a car or pay her drug fines and to complain that I "stole" her child support card and money!
She recently came back into my home under the pretense that she was clean and wanted to reconnect. I fell for it. All was good for about 3 weeks and then she starte running off and coming back when she pleased, screaming at her kids, sleeping all day and expecting me to do it all as if wasn't there. She was a slob and sat around eating foo when not sleeping, so it caused problems. I would tell her to leave and she would refuse an use her kids as the excuse....."I want to be with my kids!!!" she would say and then go to sleep on the 16 couch for hours or leave for three days! She also started demanding the child support card. I told her no, as she would waste it like she had before!.I got called a gold digger, selfish b*tch, and more! YET, she had three paycheck previously and spent maybe $20 on her kids!
I finally got her out and me and her kids are much happier. When she first left, she immediately stopped the child support card I had and got herself a new one! She can't pick up her socks, do her kid's laundry, give good attention to her children or cook and do dishes, but she can take the time to get online and call to get at her kids support!!!She has been gone for two months spending their child support! I am told she goes around slandering my name and telling everyone I lie and keep her kids from her.I know it is true, because I watched her lie to a judge about abandoning her kids for 3 years. I guess that is the thanks you get for sacrificing yourself to care for someone else's children!
I use to hope she would come around and be in their lives. Now I realize she may have more than a drug problem and I don't have time to waste on worrying about her anymore.She refuses rehab and counseling. I also realized I don't have to put up with her abuse, either.I have accepted she isn't a very nice person and moved on. Hard to do. But I am done!
Take it from someone who knows, what their mother is doing (keeping the child support money without having physical possession of the kids) is considered felony fraud and punishable by jail time. This also includes any welfare (medicaid/food stamps) she is claiming and receiving for the children. If charged, she could be banned from ever personally receiving child support or welfare ever again (for life). But, it doesn't mean the support will be taken from you since you have the the children. Actually, the courts will probably order her to repay you for the months she stole the money and you could conceivably receive back-pay for that time. Protect yourself and the children by having everything transferred to your name. By the way, GOOD JOB, GRANDMA!

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