kids not listening
ynotbkind

United States

#1 Jun 7, 2013
how to get kids to listen n behave without beating them. summer has just begun n i am already losing my mind. i am sitting at home with 3 kids n i am so tired of telln them to stop n behave all day long. y must kids fight n argue over everything what other ways r there to get them to mind
Reeeally-

Hollister, MO

#2 Jul 16, 2013
ynotbkind wrote:
how to get kids to listen n behave without beating them. summer has just begun n i am already losing my mind. i am sitting at home with 3 kids n i am so tired of telln them to stop n behave all day long. y must kids fight n argue over everything wh
at other ways r there to get them to mind
You should only have to tell them to stop and behave once...If they decide to disobey...give them a list of chores...cleaning toilet...ect ect..After they realize that their squabbling is going to be rewarded with chores and work they will most likely start getting along!
Reeeally-

Hollister, MO

#3 Jul 16, 2013
ynotbkind wrote:
how to get kids to listen n behave without beating them. summer has just begun n i am already losing my mind. i am sitting at home with 3 kids n i am so tired of telln them to stop n behave all day long. y must kids fight n argue over everything what other ways r there to get them to mind
And ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS reward good behavior. That is a must!
Bob Mussolini

West Plains, MO

#4 Jul 16, 2013
The only thing that kids respond to is "force". When you race your hand, follow through. Good luck.

*** The Bible states, "Spare the rod, spoil the child".
grave digger

Hollister, MO

#5 Jul 16, 2013
a peach tree switch

a hotwheels trac

a shoe

a fly swatter

a yard stick

a size 12 boot in the butt

a hand

all these worked well on the grave digger as a child,,,ha haa haaa

a time out chair

grounded from the tv

a good talking to

calling the juvie officers or police

all these things didnt work well on the grave digger as a child,,,ha haa haaa

the lefty liberal laws where kids can sue parents in court

schools who do leave children behind

GOD not allowed in schools

these are the things that make kids out of control,,,ha haa haaa,,,
hot momma

Garden City, MO

#6 Jul 16, 2013
Whoop there butt may help
William Hung

Noblesville, IN

#7 Jul 17, 2013
ynotbkind wrote:
how to get kids to listen n behave without beating them. summer has just begun n i am already losing my mind. i am sitting at home with 3 kids n i am so tired of telln them to stop n behave all day long. y must kids fight n argue over everything what other ways r there to get them to mind
YOU SPREAD FOR IT
Oprah Winfrey

Ava, MO

#8 Jul 17, 2013
Remember...violence is "never" the answer. Take it from me, a fat ole childless Obama supporter with possible lesbian tendencies, children must be treated with love and respect. Never ever swat a child. You must "reason" with them. Remember...children are just tiny people like you and me. O.k...I'm not "that" tiny, but I think you understand what I'm saying here.
ynotbkind

United States

#9 Jul 17, 2013
William Hung wrote:
<quoted text>
YOU SPREAD FOR IT
actually i only spread once if thats what u meant the other two somene else spread for them. how many kids do u have that u know of.
Tator

West Plains, MO

#10 Jul 17, 2013
Oprah Winfrey wrote:
Remember...violence is "never" the answer. Take it from me, a fat ole childless Obama supporter with possible lesbian tendencies, children must be treated with love and respect. Never ever swat a child. You must "reason" with them. Remember...children are just tiny people like you and me. O.k...I'm not "that" tiny, but I think you understand what I'm saying here.
You are stupid. You can not reason with a child. This country is in a state because kids are running things. Kids will not come up against someone they know they can't push around. Since no one stays home with their kids anymore the kids don't respect their parents and are not bonded to anyone that is why the crime rate is so bad. Work to earn the almighty dollar so we can have that cell phone and junk food.
Reeeally-

Hollister, MO

#11 Jul 17, 2013
I agree with Tator...kids have no respect for ANYONE these days...if you spank a child in public you get dirty looks and the DFS is called on you then you get to fight that battle. If they are spanked at home for doing something wrong they can go tell the school counselor and DFS is called to the school and then to the home. We are fighting an uphill battle when it comes to making out kids mind...thats why they seem to be at McDonalds and Wal Mart at 3 am! If they had to get up at the ass crack of dawn and do chores for a few hours they would be begging to go to bed at 8pm!
Reeeally-

Hollister, MO

#12 Jul 17, 2013
It's a scary thought to think these kids will be taking care of us in the nursing homes in the future!
Oprah Winfrey

Ava, MO

#13 Jul 17, 2013
Tator wrote:
<quoted text>You are stupid. You can not reason with a child. This country is in a state because kids are running things. Kids will not come up against someone they know they can't push around. Since no one stays home with their kids anymore the kids don't respect their parents and are not bonded to anyone that is why the crime rate is so bad. Work to earn the almighty dollar so we can have that cell phone and junk food.
YOU "DARE" CALL THE ALMIGHTY OPRAH "STUPID"???!!! WHEN I TYPE THE EARTH SHAKES AND THE OCEANS PRODUCE WAVES 10 MILES HIGH!!!
idea yet better advice

West Plains, MO

#15 Jul 17, 2013
get the largest t-shirt you can find or buy and fit the 3 in the same shirt put them in time out that way and see how it works , write on the shirt "our get along shirt ". See how it works it's worth a try and another idea if you don't like that one that worked for me and one of my siblings I didn't get along with back in the day my parents made us hug each other and hold hands , and tell each other we loved who ever it was I or they were mad at or couldn't get along with , there is nothing wrong with it , it's just away to bring love in their lives and help them build a strong relationship for the future. Later on my sibling protected me and we talk to each other as often as possible as adults , and no back then I didn't enjoy it that to me it was almost harsher punishment to express love then get my bottom whooped after all I was mad at them lol ! It at times was like putting a wild cat and a dog together but it sure broke our fighting in the long run . Of course the final resort would be break out the tush and give them a good swat where it belongs . Good luck
Barney Gribble

United States

#16 Jul 17, 2013
Depending on their age you can approach it it in different ways. You can take away a privilege such as Xbox, cell phone, tv, etc. Sit them in timeout facing a corner. Warm their backside up. Reward good behavior.
Tator

West Plains, MO

#17 Jul 18, 2013
Barney Gribble wrote:
Depending on their age you can approach it it in different ways. You can take away a privilege such as Xbox, cell phone, tv, etc. Sit them in timeout facing a corner. Warm their backside up. Reward good behavior.
Time out does not work. You know time out when you are older is jail. Love and Logic teaching works some. Feel free to eat dinner when you have cleaned your room. This leaves the decision up to the kid whether he eats or not. Then you don't have to worry about it and don't give in. Kids need tough love these days. Chores also help
grave digger

Hollister, MO

#18 Jul 18, 2013
Tator wrote:
<quoted text>Time out does not work. You know time out when you are older is jail. Love and Logic teaching works some. Feel free to eat dinner when you have cleaned your room. This leaves the decision up to the kid whether he eats or not. Then you don't have to worry about it and don't give in. Kids need tough love these days. Chores also help
back in the day,,,the good old days,,,kids got smacked,,,kids played on metal toys,,,etc etc etc and we all made it,,,but then come the 90's,,,safty safty safty and list list list of whats bad for kids to play with or get smacked when in trouble,,,the grave digger used to ride a metal bike with no helmet,,knee pads,,elbo pads or insurence coverage,,,down hills twice a steep as south hill st at mock speeds all the time,,,and if got hurt would get a smack from the old man for tearing up a good bike he worked long and hard for,,,and for crying cuz got a boo boo or two,,then had to mow the lawn for a month,,,even if it didnt need mowing,,,just cuz the grave digger didnt something the grave digger shouldnt have,,,smack the little bastards if you want respect,,,call dfs on the grave digger if he does,,,prepare for war,,,ha haa haaa,,,will hunt you down until you are found,,,then f----------k your sh----------t uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu uupppppppppppppppppppppppppppp ,,,all cuz you wouldnt let the grave digger teach a kid a lesson on right and wrong,,,,ha haa haaa

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