My Husband Doesn't Do Me Anymore
Not Telling

Willow Springs, MO

#22 Jun 19, 2013
why not wrote:
So do you let him put it wherever he wants?
Yes, anything he could want, I do.
Not Telling

Willow Springs, MO

#23 Jun 19, 2013
why not wrote:
So do you let him put it wherever he wants?
Yes.
male perspective

United States

#24 Jun 19, 2013
Not Telling your husband is a lucky man as you seem like you truly keep yourself up and make yourself available to him. It's a real shame he doesn't reciprocate the affection. I am in a somewhat similar situation with my wife. She doesn't initiate sex or seem to have any desire for it anymore. But yet when we discuss it she always says it is my fault for not trying. When that is so not true. It makes one feel awful and I can sympathize with you fully. My opinion, for what it's worth, is that most men can only dream of a woman such as yourself. Try not to let this get you down because in all honesty it is his loss. I hope he figures it out for your sake and actually changes.
Not Telling

West Plains, MO

#25 Jun 19, 2013
We have talked multiple times and it doesn't change anything. He worries about losing me, but doesn't make any changes. I don't want to hurt or leave him, but I may have to get what he doesn't provide somewhere else.
Sherm

Saint Louis, MO

#26 Jun 19, 2013
Not Telling wrote:
We have talked multiple times and it doesn't change anything. He worries about losing me, but doesn't make any changes. I don't want to hurt or leave him, but I may have to get what he doesn't provide somewhere else.
I'm right here!!!!
Not Telling

West Plains, MO

#27 Jun 19, 2013
lol, Sherm. Well whats your email address?
male perspective

United States

#28 Jun 19, 2013
Not Telling wrote:
We have talked multiple times and it doesn't change anything. He worries about losing me, but doesn't make any changes. I don't want to hurt or leave him, but I may have to get what he doesn't provide somewhere else.
Can't say I blame you...I feel the same way. One can only do so much on their own, so to speak. It is sad that he won't put forth the extra effort to satisfy your needs but that seems to be the norm in my experience. All is good until you are married then it slowly changes. I guess they think they don't have to try as hard anymore because they "have you". But little do they know that gets old. A man and woman need sex in their lives. It's just like you said I don't want to hurt or leave anyone but I may have to find someone to provide what they don't want to.

Since: Jun 13

Location hidden

#29 Jun 19, 2013
male perspective wrote:
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Not being mean towards him but he probably doesn't have much sex drive left. Some men loose this drive at an earlier age than others and 50 seems to be around that age. If this is not the case he is either 1) cheating 2) addicted to porn 3) no longer attracted to you 4) keeps you around because it makes him look good and has no interest in your feelings or needs. You're much younger and I would suggest finding someone a few years less than 50. You haven't even hit your sexual peek and he has long passed his. Good luck.
So, male perspective, which of the reasons you listed earlier is the reason your wife isn't interested? Also, what age do men hit their sexual peak, and are you at yours? If so ;)
Sherm

Saint Louis, MO

#30 Jun 19, 2013
Not Telling wrote:
lol, Sherm. Well whats your email address?
What do ya look like????
Sherm

Saint Louis, MO

#31 Jun 19, 2013
Not Telling wrote:
lol, Sherm. Well whats your email address?
After being with a 50 year old think you can still work the magic and keep up? Lol
do tell

Willow Springs, MO

#32 Jun 19, 2013
Sherm take care of your sperm yourself!
ready

Ozark, MO

#33 Jun 20, 2013
Age isn't always the problem, the age difference counts in many ways, trust me I've been there! Now re-married to a man that was never married, had free sex anytime he wanted, guess what after seven years, I'm two years younger then he is, and the sex stinks! He still likes the free looks like(who knows what!) The choice is always ours, i'm thinking let him go back where he came from, you do what you need to do!!!! Good luck!!!!!!! I'm moving on!
male perspective

United States

#34 Jun 20, 2013
ready wrote:
Age isn't always the problem, the age difference counts in many ways, trust me I've been there! Now re-married to a man that was never married, had free sex anytime he wanted, guess what after seven years, I'm two years younger then he is, and the sex stinks! He still likes the free looks like(who knows what!) The choice is always ours, i'm thinking let him go back where he came from, you do what you need to do!!!! Good luck!!!!!!! I'm moving on!
Don't blame you. It definitely gets old after awhile and one has to have sex (good sex) in a relationship. If you've gave him a chance to change I say do what you need to do.
Sherm

Saint Louis, MO

#35 Jun 21, 2013
male perspective wrote:
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Don't blame you. It definitely gets old after awhile and one has to have sex (good sex) in a relationship. If you've gave him a chance to change I say do what you need to do.
That means me!
male perspective

United States

#36 Jun 21, 2013
Sherm wrote:
<quoted text>That means me!
Well get on it man, lol. I think a lady asked for your email on a previous post and you still have yet to put it up.
o queen

United States

#39 Sep 23, 2013
What happens when he's 80 and your 50? That's gonna blow! That is when age difference shows alot ..the older years when the younger person is still full of life and active and the older person wants to be home with a remote and bengay close by..maybe a vicks vapor rub jar..it don't pan out in the long run
grave digger

Ozark, MO

#40 Sep 23, 2013
male perspective wrote:
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Well get on it man, lol. I think a lady asked for your email on a previous post and you still have yet to put it up.
that lady started this thread to seek answers and it wasnt a few post already wants to cheat on the old fart,,,good lord,,,and then one poster said you need good sex to stay together,,,the grave digger calls bullshit,,,on the whole thread,,,your a 20yr old with daddy issues and they do have treatments for that,,,people get love from their spouses everyday without the act of sex,,,your a horney 20yr old girl,,,and he is a 50yr old with a trophy,,,they do sell all kinds of sex toys,,,they wont give you a disease,,,call you in the middle of the night,,,get you pregnant,,,use them if you really love the 50yr old dude with a trophy wife,,,lucky bastard,,,ha haa haaa,,,cuz what you choose today does follow you tomorrow
Interested

Branson, MO

#41 Sep 24, 2013
don't feel bad your not only going through this I almost50 I would love to have sex. But he rises and falls before anything starts. He could be gay his roommate and him are time the only he gets a woody.He has tried cheating maybe their one of the same people now that a few have mentioned. I not as young and attractive as I used to be the doc will not give him anything best advice move on your to young live life will you can. I old but it would be nice.I am not dead yet.
Dirty Harry

Mooresville, NC

#42 Oct 2, 2013
Start pleaseing yourself. Sometimes in front of him. sleep naked. Let him know you want it in different ways. Thats what my wife has done for us. Are sex is really great now.
grave digger

Ozark, MO

#43 Oct 2, 2013
your husband doesnt do you anymore?,,,why cuz your always on topix telling the world your private problems or cuz you give him nothing in return but complaints after complaints after complaints or your lazy and the poor guy has to work all day and come home to a lazy complainer in a dirty house or are you an attention seeker who is a lazy complainer,,,boy,,,couldnt blame the poor guy if he turned gay and ran off with a dude in backless leather biker pants,,,thats for sure,,,ha haa haaa,,,Y.M.C.A.,,,ha haa haaa,,,poor guy,,,

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