I agree with you , What I am wondering along the lines of all I read is , how many remarried or new relationships woman are in have their new husbands / boyfriends believing she was such a wonderful wife / partner and her ex was so mean to me out of sick sympathy to make her look better ? I too wonder no matter the law if the ex went to get paternity done to prove the child , children aren't his if the new guy will still be dumb enough to stay or smart enough to leave because who's to say she won't do it to him too ? I know there have been abuse cases in the world but one common thing sometimes works is for someone to cry abuse that never happened so someone can feel sorry for them ? You just can't trust that many people in the world anymore .I can't even believe that in the United States with DNA tests that a father who is proven to not be the father under the lies of an ex wife still has to pay child support. So a woman can marry a man with money, have a child with him, lead him to believe it's his and all along be having an affair with a man who doesn't make any money but that shes' in love with. Then the rich guy she marries finds her cheating, divorces her and has to pay for a child that was never biologically his? This is the most messed up thing I've ever heard of. So if a guy gets a women pregnant and she proves he's the father he is ordered to pay. But if a women tricks a man into believing the baby is his while they are married and later find out the baby is not his he is still ordered to pay child support for a child that a DNA test proves isn't his!!!! I'm a woman, and this has to be one of the most fucked up things I've ever heard of. Lesson here, no matter if she's your wife or not get a paternity test when the baby is born and before you sign a birth certificate. The laws in this country really need to be looked at!!