kids wishing death of a parent.

kids wishing death of a parent.

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thoughtless parents

Houston, MO

#3 Apr 27, 2013
First off the mother and father are probably split. Sadly parents tell kids bad things about the other parent hoping to look better but they don't realize all they do is get the child/children stuck in the middle and it consumes the kids' thoughts thinking why do they say that, what if their right, is it my fault, ect ect. Parents split and the kids pay for it. I have been through it myself with my ex running me in the ground to our kids.
been there

United States

#4 Apr 27, 2013
I've been on both sides of this. I wanted my kids to know the truth and I talked about my ex infront of them,thinking at the time I was doing what had to be done because of all the lies being told. Now I know it was wrong of me but you can't go back in time. What I'm saying is I've been the one being downed and lied about to and infront of my kids,but I in return talked infront of them when I shouldn't have. Like every human in the moment, you don't think!
mee

Ozark, MO

#5 Apr 28, 2013
Hey, Michelle I am back in town and have been real busy but wanted to say HI lol
Eating popcorn

Ozark, MO

#7 Apr 30, 2013
been there wrote:
I've been on both sides of this. I wanted my kids to know the truth and I talked about my ex infront of them,thinking at the time I was doing what had to be done because of all the lies being told. Now I know it was wrong of me but you can't go back in time. What I'm saying is I've been the one being downed and lied about to and infront of my kids,but I in return talked infront of them when I shouldn't have. Like every human in the moment, you don't think!
Two wrongs don't make a right but what's done is done . Personally I think it's a shame that parents bash each other in front of their kids but on the same breath If a child or children know who the evil one was in the end one or the other will be dist sometime down the road if that parent doesn't make things up to them . Kids now days are pretty smart and have their ways of figuring things out so , if things were said out of anger (or) facts they already know and will know the difference between a lie or fact even if the parent tries to defend themselves.

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