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wonder

Douglas, GA

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Jan 10, 2013
 
I am curious to see what others feel about this.

My spouse is in love with another person. They have never met in person. They met online and claim only to be friends but do chat about sexual stuff. The other person lives several hours away so I don't have to worry to much about a physical relationship. They text each other all the time. My spouse also gets very defensive when I say anything about how it hurts me that they seem to care more about this person they have only known for a few months but never met over their spouse and children. My question is am I wrong to feel hurt by their actions? How would everyone else feel if this was their wife or husband doing this?
Bandit

Douglas, GA

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Jan 10, 2013
 
Hell no!! I wouldn't put up with that weird shiat ! Dang man i'm not tripping but damn you gotta get some old swagger back for your self. Even if it dont work out with your spouse. And they never met!! Damn!!!
been there

Tifton, GA

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#3
Jan 10, 2013
 
Its just a matter of time. The sex will be great because it will be different. Are you up for a threesome? If not, youre going to be out in the cold. Cut your losses.
justsayn_

Fitzgerald, GA

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Jan 10, 2013
 

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No you are not wrong....... if he loved you and only you he would not be talking to another women.
WHOCARES

Douglas, GA

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Jan 10, 2013
 

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HONEY PLEASE pack his or her SHIT and say get the hell out of my house.DON'T put up with that.APPERTALY he or she dont love or care about you.AND sure as hell DONT have respect for you.
Just saying

West Point, IA

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Jan 11, 2013
 
WHOCARES wrote:
HONEY PLEASE pack his or her SHIT and say get the hell out of my house.DON'T put up with that.APPERTALY he or she dont love or care about you.AND sure as hell DONT have respect for you.
I have to agree you need to cut your loses he or she is on the search.They want a change to fill there thang or wang so you might as well hit the dusty trail because there tired or your tail. Several hours away divide that in half aint that far
Gun Runner

Harrison, OH

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Jan 11, 2013
 
wonder wrote:
I am curious to see what others feel about this.
My spouse is in love with another person. They have never met in person. They met online and claim only to be friends but do chat about sexual stuff. The other person lives several hours away so I don't have to worry to much about a physical relationship. They text each other all the time. My spouse also gets very defensive when I say anything about how it hurts me that they seem to care more about this person they have only known for a few months but never met over their spouse and children. My question is am I wrong to feel hurt by their actions? How would everyone else feel if this was their wife or husband doing this?
They have already done it! The other person came to your spouse.

Cut you losses and toss them out.
No No NO

Hawkinsville, GA

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Jan 11, 2013
 

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If he is that disrespectful to you to your face, what will he do behind your back. If I had to worry about my husband taking to another person, here or 500 miles away, he would be history. He apparently has no respect for you or your marriage. Do not put up with his trash, this is not exceptable. They will meet sooner or later. Stand up for your marraige and your self respect, Demand it, or he will know he can do what ever he wants to, when he wants to. Good Luck
PinkFlamingo

Douglas, GA

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#9
Jan 11, 2013
 
Don't forget...you teach a person how to treat you...if you allow their relationship to continue and allow the disrespect for you and your family then don't be shocked that your marriage will probably end sooner or later. Time for a reality check. Sorry for your pain.
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Douglas, GA

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#10
Jan 11, 2013
 
Call a divorce attorney today!!! What he is doing is still an affair, if your gonna be miserable, be miserable without him. Im sure in time he will see he made a huge mistake and hopefully by then you are happy with someone else.

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