crazy like a fox

Philadelphia, PA

#1216 Nov 14, 2009
Veritas wrote:
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Silent boycott? What would the point of that be? If it is silent, who's gonna know? Some of their long term workers? Geez, wonder who THIS is? The long term workers I know being "persecuted" have it fully coming to them. One of them has been a right asshole for years and the other has been a miserable rude sow for just as long. You can only be nasty, rude & ignorant to your employers for so long before you are kicked to the curb. Volunteered in the community? Don't make me laugh, you "volunteered" so you could get things done for the school with the local govt. Just because you have an internet connection doesn't mean you should use it....,
sorry put on the wrong site. Is that you lonnie or is Jay using you're computer.What with that degree from Lincoln using those fancy words like "right".He always tried to come off like a street guy even with that rich background.Is he still doing Mary.
Aletheia

Philadelphia, PA

#1217 Nov 14, 2009
So true Veritas wrote:
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Rita, you can't rewrite history. "All of that is interesting, but what has made Glen Mills unique was the decision to build and operate a golf course on its grounds. In 2000, the Golf Course at Glen Mills opened for play and the accolades have been rolling in ever since" PA Golf.Com
The Golf Course opened in 2000. In previous post Rose gives your Dad credit for the Golf Course. You guys are already getting your stories confused.
Glen Mills schools is an institution for juvenile deliquents with a normative system based on positive peer pressure and one of the first w/out bars...These are some of the things that make it "unique" If we are being "truthful" veritas there may have been accolades but even with using the students as workers at only dollars a DAY the profit is minimal...Although the idea may have originally been GI's there was no way, even w/ the "golf course board" the idea could have been implemented w/out Mr.Ferrainola's approval....there's no confusion veritas, even if Sam didn't agree w/ the idea he made it possible if only to remain in favor...Sam wouldn't have it any other way
Steve

Tallahassee, FL

#1218 Nov 14, 2009
Dan wrote:
By the way, who is this staff asking for peoples names? Why? You going to do something? Are you scared of your future for what you've done? Are you ashamed of what you've done? Why so defensive?
You want my name, it is Dan. I was in Buchannon Hall in 96. I am from Erie, Pa and still live here. Come find me if thats your agenda.. words of advice, I wont be squaring up!
Other people may not want to post their names, but i have nothing to hide or lie about. I am not scared of the GM staff. If you staff want to call people out, then why dont you post your real name? Ill tell you why, because someone is going to call you out for something you have done,,, and we all know you dont want to get your name in the mix, when GM goes down. Cowardly, lying, child abusers, I respect none of you. Even the half way decent staff, you still support the GM way so you are no better than the rest.
I was in Buchannon Hall 96-99 and yes, i have watched thing go from bad to off the charts over nothing in a quick minute.. I have also had the privlidge of bring "touched" on more than once..Everyone will be judged in the end
Aletheia

Philadelphia, PA

#1219 Nov 14, 2009
Veritas wrote:
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Is this the same Nicole that had to leave the state to live with her father because Mom's new boyfriend/hubby didn't want you around? Is this the same Nicole that lived in a garage apt at her Grandparent's place when she returned and did lots of drugs and drinking with your Aunt Tresa? That is of course until Aunt Tresa & you had an argument and Aunt Tresa had you tossed by a completely willing GrandPop? Married, yes, at what, 17? I am sure it was destined...., Since the other grandkids aren't on this blog (that I know of) I won't dish the FACTS on them.
Nicole, the point here is not airing your dirty laundry or your life's mis-steps, it is the fact that your Mom & aunt are telling out right lies. They have filled all of you kids head's with crap, too. Your family hasn't deprived you of anything? That's a good thing? That is completely the reason you are all as screwed up as you are! What they have given you is a skewed outlook of life, the world & how to operate in it without drugs, booze, or unlimited amounts of cash. If you are respecting people that essentially have never respected you (and had a duty to as your parent), that's just nuts. Of course you all stand together. That's what brought your Grandpop down. Your aunt, uncle(s) & own Mom never stood up & stopped your destructive, vindictive, and downright evil aunt Tresa. Had someone stopped her shit, you would still be hanging around here trying to score heroin....,
As for revealing myself? I could be ANYONE at the Mills that had a modicum of knowledge of you or any member of the Ferrainola clan.
As for the weak attempt to "draw" us out here at the school? The school does speak for itself, it is a great institution. No one disputes that your Grandpop was/is very much responsible for it's rise to it's standing as a premiere institution. That it is also a fact that his downfall was his own & your parent/aunts/uncle(s) doing is all the much sadder. Lash out at us on this blog all you care to, Nicole. When your Mom & aunt stop writing lies and bullshit, we'll go back to playing Solitaire on-line.....,
Feel free to google any of the big words in this paragraph you don't understand....,
Verilas,you have crossed a line any self respecting ADULT would not cross...you are now talking about their young children...discredit the Ferrainola's all you want stay away from talking about the behaviours of what was a child at the time...who has fought through and become a wonderful young woman and mother...Please remember that while what some Ferrainola's did at times were wrong and unforgivable many followed along saying nothing,just watched as lives were ruined You asked why Rita/Rose didn't stop the manipulation of Sam by Tresa??? The same reason you didn't!!!! Everyone was aware of the "strange" relationship between Mr.Ferrainola and Tresa. No one could stop those two. The drugs and abuse of power are true,but you only call out the Ferrainola's!! What about those who partied along w/ them? Do you not talk about them because they are still employed? and before you deny it please remember I can air dirty laundry too although that's not the point here. Abuse of power is still going on also, as you conceded in a past post. I don't think stating you learned from the best proves there is an improved administration..sounds like the same old shit with a different face...and while some may be drinking the kool-aid most of us see through it.It has become painfully obvious the school no longer speaks for itself.You wouldn't be on here attacking the GRANDCHILDREN of a FORMER director if it did. If everything Rita/Rose says are lies you wouldn't waste your time.
Veritas

Elmer, NJ

#1220 Nov 15, 2009
Aletheia wrote:
<quoted text>Verilas,you have crossed a line any self respecting ADULT would not cross...you are now talking about their young children...discredit the Ferrainola's all you want stay away from talking about the behaviours of what was a child at the time...who has fought through and become a wonderful young woman and mother...Everyone was aware of the "strange" relationship between Mr.Ferrainola and Tresa. No one could stop those two. The drugs and abuse of power are true,but you only call out the Ferrainola's!! What about those who partied along w/ them? Do you not talk about them because they are still employed? sounds like the same old shit with a different face...and while some may be drinking the kool-aid most of us see through it.It has become painfully obvious the school no longer speaks for itself.You wouldn't be on here attacking the GRANDCHILDREN of a FORMER director if it did. If everything Rita/Rose says are lies you wouldn't waste your time.
Puh-leeze, can you trot out anymore worn out platitudes? This particular "young child/woman" has an internet connection and is spreading the bullshit of her Mom & aunts. Mr Ferrainola was/is NOT "awesome". He has not had dementia or alzheimer's for the last two decades, the weird/warped/downright creepy relationship he had with Tresa dates way back to when the Mills still had Tresa hall at the bottom of the hill. My point is and continues to be, they wouldn't have done anything if they could have anyway. It would've interferred with their slice of the easy life and really, who wants to actually WORK for a paycheck?
Rose & Rita (and their misguided minions, such as yourself) are on here posting that the school is off the tracks now that they & their Dad are gone. That's complete bullshit. It isn't, it is now run professionally. Like all jobs/companies/organizations, there is bullshit. However, the bullshit of colossal proportions that went on while the Ferrainolas were running the show doesn't exist anymore. That needs to be addressed EVERY time one of you posts here. Yes, everything Rose & Rita are posting is bullshit & lies, it is their efforts that are a waste of time. The only kool-aide drinkers left are the people that still support the Ferrainolas. What flavor do you prefer?
As for the posse' & leeches that hung out & partied with the girls, they are being watched & if need be, weeded out, they know it, too. They have hunkered down & do their jobs, now. In fact, they are model employees! Who knew?! If they continue to do their jobs, there is no problem, that cannot be said for the Ferrainola administration, hell, you could have lost your house/job for pissing off anyone of them, mainly Tresa.
Let me be crystal for you all:
The Ferrainolas deserve everything that happens to them. They screwed up and ARE screwed up. They were nasty to people for sport, yes, they had everything else provided for them, let's mess with people for the hell of it.
The Glen Mills Schools is still in operation. It is running professionally. People do their jobs and the students are taken care of.(It still makes me laugh when one of the Ferrainolas states how much they worry about those poor poor students, now that their Daddy isn't there to take care of them. They couldn't raise their own kids, come to think of it, neither could he! Any one of them is a disgrace to parenting....,) They never gave a fig for any of the students. Except for maybe the population figures, more pop.= more cash, for them to spend!
As for attacking a young child/wonderful Mom/woman, if Nicole is off the drugs & the sauce, great, I mean that. If Nicole wants to believe the crapola her mom & aunts feed her, fine, too. If Nicole wants to post that bullshit in public for all to see, then she needs to realize some of us haven't drunk the kool-aide & will speak up. We couldn't for so long, I am amazed they think we would still be silent....,
Aletheia

Philadelphia, PA

#1221 Nov 15, 2009
Veritas wrote:
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Puh-leeze, can you trot out anymore worn out platitudes? This particular "young child/woman" has an internet connection and is spreading the bullshit of her Mom & aunts. Mr Ferrainola was/is NOT "awesome". He has not had dementia or alzheimer's for the last two decades, the weird/warped/downright creepy relationship he had with Tresa dates way back to when the Mills still had Tresa hall at the bottom of the hill. My point is and continues to be, they wouldn't have done anything if they could have anyway. It would've interferred with their slice of the easy life and really, who wants to actually WORK for a paycheck?
Rose & Rita (and their misguided minions, such as yourself) are on here posting that the school is off the tracks now that they & their Dad are gone. That's complete bullshit. It isn't, it is now run professionally. Like all jobs/companies/organizations, there is bullshit. However, the bullshit of colossal proportions that went on while the Ferrainolas were running the show doesn't exist anymore. That needs to be addressed EVERY time one of you posts here. Yes, everything Rose & Rita are posting is bullshit & lies, it is their efforts that are a waste of time. The only kool-aide drinkers left are the people that still support the Ferrainolas. What flavor do you prefer?
As for the posse' & leeches that hung out & partied with the girls, they are being watched & if need be, weeded out, they know it, too. They have hunkered down & do their jobs, now. In fact, they are model employees! Who knew?! If they continue to do their jobs, there is no problem, that cannot be said for the Ferrainola administration, hell, you could have lost your house/job for pissing off anyone of them, mainly Tresa.
Let me be crystal for you all:
The Ferrainolas deserve everything that happens to them. They screwed up and ARE screwed up. They were nasty to people for sport, yes, they had everything else provided for them, let's mess with people for the hell of it.
The Glen Mills Schools is still in operation. It is running professionally. People do their jobs and the students are taken care of.(It still makes me laugh when one of the Ferrainolas states how much they worry about those poor poor students, now that their Daddy isn't there to take care of them. They couldn't raise their own kids, come to think of it, neither could he! Any one of them is a disgrace to parenting....,) They never gave a fig for any of the students. Except for maybe the population figures, more pop.= more cash, for them to spend!
As for attacking a young child/wonderful Mom/woman, if Nicole is off the drugs & the sauce, great, I mean that. If Nicole wants to believe the crapola her mom & aunts feed her, fine, too. If Nicole wants to post that bullshit in public for all to see, then she needs to realize some of us haven't drunk the kool-aide & will speak up. We couldn't for so long, I am amazed they think we would still be silent....,
Sweetheart...I never stated the school is off track w/out Mr.Ferrainola. You are so intent on your own agenda you don't pay attention.It was screwed up w/ him in those last years and it's screwed up w/out him. The kool-aide drinkers are on both sides. Those that refuse to see that while Sam is responsible for some very good things he's also responsible for some horrible things. On the other side, those like yourself, refuse to see the bad now.The only person gone from the past administration is Mr.Ferrainola...That's so different?? Remember, those that were in charge on a day to day basis before are still in charge now.Just stop trashing the grandchildren. We can debate our point of views on a higher level than that.
Veritas

Elmer, NJ

#1222 Nov 15, 2009
Aletheia wrote:
<quoted text>Sweetheart...I never stated the school is off track w/out Mr.Ferrainola. You are so intent on your own agenda you don't pay attention.It was screwed up w/ him in those last years and it's screwed up w/out him. The kool-aide drinkers are on both sides. Those that refuse to see that while Sam is responsible for some very good things he's also responsible for some horrible things. On the other side, those like yourself, refuse to see the bad now.The only person gone from the past administration is Mr.Ferrainola...That's so different?? Remember, those that were in charge on a day to day basis before are still in charge now.Just stop trashing the grandchildren. We can debate our point of views on a higher level than that.
Darling, I am paying full attention. Go read Nicole's first reply to one of my posts. It was started off with, "Mr Ferrainola is awesome...., " The grandchild goes on to trash me & my suppossed meaness & lack of a caring family, blah,blah,blah.
Nicole is an adult, now. If Nicole wants to post, it is her right, simply because I may or may not be older than her doesn't mean I have to allow her to rant un-oppossed.
As for trashing the grandchildren, not my intent, they have it hard enough. It is a very simple concept, if you dish, you should be able to eat it, too. Is it any surprise that the Ferrainolas aren't very good at that?
I agree, there are still many people left at the Mills that could have done better, should have done better & didn't. I did state the place is much like many other places of employment, and with the departure of Mr Ferrainola AND his spawn, even more like the rest of the world's work places, now.
I am not a follower or a kool-aide drinker. In fact, with the departure of the clan, many of us feel freer to speak up & say when things aren't as they should be. That's the difference one man's departure made, that's saying a lot. No work place is utopia, but the Mills isn't an unreasonable unstable hell any longer.
Rose & Rita are saying the Mills are off the tracks. If you don't feel that way, I don't see how you can support anything they post.
If your only issue is to back off a child, point taken. Nicole is no longer a child & should not be posting untruths, if she cannot stand the heat....,
So true Veritas

Morrisville, PA

#1223 Nov 15, 2009
Veritas I don't know who you are but you basically said what I was going to say to Nicole. You are all of us. You obviously do know exactly what you are talking about and you have not said one thing that is not true. Except one thing. There may be a few Grandchildren that have made it through not because of their family but in spite of them. I think Ashley may be one who will survive in the real world because of all of them she was the least spoiled. She had to be Mom so Tresa could live like a spoiled irresponsible selfish whore while Ashley raised her siblings.
However I agree that Mr Ferainola, while his intentions in starting the school were good, raised five children that belonged in a similar program.
Also, Verita brings up the most important point. The school is now run professionally and people are judged on their own merit. It no longer matters who you are connected to. Do a good job, come to work and you will keep your job. The atmosphere has completely changed.
Say what you want about GI. We like him and when he walks down the hall nobody is intimidated. Nobody lives in fear for their jobs just because they don't kiss the right asses. The school is continually working towards making things better for the employees as well as the kids. It has its flaws like any job but it is getting better everyday and the tension has left the building. Say what you want about Veritas. He knows exactly what he is talking about. I'm sorry Nicole. If you have turned your life around I am truly happy for you and you are to be commended. It is not easy to do. It's not your fault you had problems. You had no role model. But I do want to comment on one thing you said. You asked, if we had money and could use it to make our childrens lives easier, wouldn't we do it? I cannot speak for everyone but my answer would be no. Money is not what helps your children or makes their lives easier. Not if you don't understand the value of it. What has made my childrens lives easier is boundaries. They have always known where they stood with me. They have always known where the line was drawn and not to cross it. They have always known to be kind and generous and caring. And they have always known that it is our resposibility to help society and be good people. Money does help us in our daily lives but if you are kind and fair it will come back to you over and over again. In the end we will not be judged by our social standing. We will be judged on our contribution to society and the love and goodness in our hearts. Yes, it is true there is still much bitterness towards your family but that does not mean we don't respect the fact that your Grandfather started this institution to help these kids. It just went so terribly wrong because he could not say no to his children. Especially Tresa. Good luck to you. I hope you can turn it around for the next generation and see that for your family, living in the real world may actually be a blessing.
ALARMED

Philadelphia, PA

#1224 Nov 15, 2009
So true Veritas wrote:
Veritas I don't know who you are but you basically said what I was going to say to Nicole. You are all of us. You obviously do know exactly what you are talking about and you have not said one thing that is not true. Except one thing. There may be a few Grandchildren that have made it through not because of their family but in spite of them. I think Ashley may be one who will survive in the real world because of all of them she was the least spoiled. She had to be Mom so Tresa could live like a spoiled irresponsible selfish whore while Ashley raised her siblings.
However I agree that Mr Ferainola, while his intentions in starting the school were good, raised five children that belonged in a similar program.
Also, Verita brings up the most important point. The school is now run professionally and people are judged on their own merit. It no longer matters who you are connected to. Do a good job, come to work and you will keep your job. The atmosphere has completely changed.
Say what you want about GI. We like him and when he walks down the hall nobody is intimidated. Nobody lives in fear for their jobs just because they don't kiss the right asses. The school is continually working towards making things better for the employees as well as the kids. It has its flaws like any job but it is getting better everyday and the tension has left the building. Say what you want about Veritas. He knows exactly what he is talking about. I'm sorry Nicole. If you have turned your life around I am truly happy for you and you are to be commended. It is not easy to do. It's not your fault you had problems. You had no role model. But I do want to comment on one thing you said. You asked, if we had money and could use it to make our childrens lives easier, wouldn't we do it? I cannot speak for everyone but my answer would be no. Money is not what helps your children or makes their lives easier. Not if you don't understand the value of it. What has made my childrens lives easier is boundaries. They have always known where they stood with me. They have always known where the line was drawn and not to cross it. They have always known to be kind and generous and caring. And they have always known that it is our resposibility to help society and be good people. Money does help us in our daily lives but if you are kind and fair it will come back to you over and over again. In the end we will not be judged by our social standing. We will be judged on our contribution to society and the love and goodness in our hearts. Yes, it is true there is still much bitterness towards your family but that does not mean we don't respect the fact that your Grandfather started this institution to help these kids. It just went so terribly wrong because he could not say no to his children. Especially Tresa. Good luck to you. I hope you can turn it around for the next generation and see that for your family, living in the real world may actually be a blessing.
Let me make it quite clear that "Veritas" does NOT speak for all of us. Nor do you "So true Veritas". Why don't you go ahead and have the line staff evaluate their supervising Resource Manager. Better yet, let's take a VOTE! I think you would be quite surprised. Being that these are the same individuals that worked UNDER Sam and remained SILENT while all this crap was going on. Silence is golden only in the movies "darling." And, silence is an accomplice, NOT an innocent bystander. I am VERY AFRAID of losing my house and my job. I for one will only feel safe when there is a complete overhaul of the management. By the way, when does GI ever walk down the hall? He's usually home by 1:30..........Blessing to all!
So true Veritas

Morrisville, PA

#1225 Nov 15, 2009
If you live in fear of losing your house and your job you must deserve it. GI is in his office all day working and I do not believe you speak for even a small minority. And if you remember eventually the resource managers realized enough was enough and took the risk of losing everything themselves. If you can't see the effort to turn things around and make things right you must have enjoyed and benefitted from the corruption. Why do you live in fear. Doesn't your job require you to live on campus or were you given what you don't deserve by kissing a Ferrainola ass.
Grandkids

Philadelphia, PA

#1226 Nov 15, 2009
Veritas wrote:
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Darling, I am paying full attention. Go read Nicole's first reply to one of my posts. It was started off with, "Mr Ferrainola is awesome...., " The grandchild goes on to trash me & my suppossed meaness & lack of a caring family, blah,blah,blah.
Nicole is an adult, now. If Nicole wants to post, it is her right, simply because I may or may not be older than her doesn't mean I have to allow her to rant un-oppossed.
As for trashing the grandchildren, not my intent, they have it hard enough. It is a very simple concept, if you dish, you should be able to eat it, too. Is it any surprise that the Ferrainolas aren't very good at that? I am not a follower or a kool-aide drinker. In fact, with the departure of the clan, many of us feel freer to speak up & say when things aren't as they should be. That's the difference one man's departure made, that's saying a lot. No work place is utopia, but the Mills isn't an unreasonable unstable hell any longer.
Rose & Rita are saying the Mills are off the tracks. If you don't feel that way, I don't see how you can support anything they post.
If your only issue is to back off a child, point taken. Nicole is no longer a child & should not be posting untruths, if she cannot stand the heat....,
I can stand the heat...I can take it. It's just unfair because you know who I am, and I don't know who you are!! I have nothing to hide. I have no problem with the things you say about me, it's childish. Although I will say, they were some pretty low blows!! I guess if your point was to hurt me, it worked. You hurt me!! I just wish you would reveal your true self, maybe then we could find out who can really take the heat!! Are you afraid of what evil, mean things I could say about you, or say about your kids?? I will be the first to admit I made mistakes, I am not perfect!! I do try everyday though to treat people as I would like to be treated!! You are hiding behind your computer with a fake name, so don't say I cant take the heat!!! I never posed untruths either, evrything I have said is true...no lies!! The personal attacks at you?? WTF is that?? I dont even know who you are!! I am sorry if I hurt anyones feelings, it was not my intent at all...my intent was to have you stop hurting my Mom/Aunts feelings, it hurts me. If you don't like us then fine, I get it!! At least have a little class. You are sticking up for the Mills & GI as if they are your family, I respect that, so you should respect that I love my family as well, and don't like to see people hurt them. I really do hope this is not Scott G. or Jay H. All I ask of you is to be appropriate, you say you post these ugly things to make sure people know GMS is still a great place, well personal attacks at people, and thier kids/grandkids "my mom didn't want me around". You are staff there...what kind of role model does that make you? You are making the school look bad. If I was an outsider looking in at all this drama, I would be like WOW! STAFF, EX-Staff are more focused on fighting with each other than answering the questions of concerned parents out there. All of this makes GMS look really bad!!! If I was GI I would look into who is causing all theses waves and ask them to stop with the insults. But GI is a wimp, always has been and always will be! Sorry, but like I said before I speak the truth. I am done with all of this now.....I have a life to lead, but I am asking you to just walk away!! Be a Man/Woman and say I am still here, I am happy, I love GMS, I know it's a good school, I know GI is a good leader, I know the GM are good leaders, so who cares what those "pathetic" Ferrainola's have to say!! Good luck...Mystery man!!!:)
Glenn

Philadelphia, PA

#1227 Nov 15, 2009
So true Veritas wrote:
If you live in fear of losing your house and your job you must deserve it. GI is in his office all day working and I do not believe you speak for even a small minority. And if you remember eventually the resource managers realized enough was enough and took the risk of losing everything themselves. If you can't see the effort to turn things around and make things right you must have enjoyed and benefitted from the corruption. Why do you live in fear. Doesn't your job require you to live on campus or were you given what you don't deserve by kissing a Ferrainola ass.
I say take the VOTE baby!!!! You go alarmed!!!! I agree take the vote, let's count. All that is needed. I'll send the forms out to everyone..........Sounds like Veritas and So True Veritas are kissing a GI ass..........
Ed Buffone

Portland, OR

#1228 Nov 15, 2009
Grandkids wrote:
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I can stand the heat...I can take it. It's just unfair because you know who I am, and I don't know who you are!! I have nothing to hide. I have no problem with the things you say about me, it's childish. Although I will say, they were some pretty low blows!! I guess if your point was to hurt me, it worked. You hurt me!! I just wish you would reveal your true self, maybe then we could find out who can really take the heat!! Are you afraid of what evil, mean things I could say about you, or say about your kids?? I will be the first to admit I made mistakes, I am not perfect!! I do try everyday though to treat people as I would like to be treated!! You are hiding behind your computer with a fake name, so don't say I cant take the heat!!! I never posed untruths either, evrything I have said is true...no lies!! The personal attacks at you?? WTF is that?? I dont even know who you are!! I am sorry if I hurt anyones feelings, it was not my intent at all...my intent was to have you stop hurting my Mom/Aunts feelings, it hurts me. If you don't like us then fine, I get it!! At least have a little class. You are sticking up for the Mills & GI as if they are your family, I respect that, so you should respect that I love my family as well, and don't like to see people hurt them. I really do hope this is not Scott G. or Jay H. All I ask of you is to be appropriate, you say you post these ugly things to make sure people know GMS is still a great place, well personal attacks at people, and thier kids/grandkids "my mom didn't want me around". You are staff there...what kind of role model does that make you? You are making the school look bad. If I was an outsider looking in at all this drama, I would be like WOW! STAFF, EX-Staff are more focused on fighting with each other than answering the questions of concerned parents out there. All of this makes GMS look really bad!!! If I was GI I would look into who is causing all theses waves and ask them to stop with the insults. But GI is a wimp, always has been and always will be! Sorry, but like I said before I speak the truth. I am done with all of this now.....I have a life to lead, but I am asking you to just walk away!! Be a Man/Woman and say I am still here, I am happy, I love GMS, I know it's a good school, I know GI is a good leader, I know the GM are good leaders, so who cares what those "pathetic" Ferrainola's have to say!! Good luck...Mystery man!!!:)
Your grandfather and your family saved my life and I thank you all for that....
So true Veritas

Morrisville, PA

#1229 Nov 15, 2009
Grandkids wrote:
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I can stand the heat...I can take it. It's just unfair because you know who I am, and I don't know who you are!! I have nothing to hide. I have no problem with the things you say about me, it's childish. Although I will say, they were some pretty low blows!! I guess if your point was to hurt me, it worked. You hurt me!! I just wish you would reveal your true self, maybe then we could find out who can really take the heat!! Are you afraid of what evil, mean things I could say about you, or say about your kids?? I will be the first to admit I made mistakes, I am not perfect!! I do try everyday though to treat people as I would like to be treated!! You are hiding behind your computer with a fake name, so don't say I cant take the heat!!! I never posed untruths either, evrything I have said is true...no lies!! The personal attacks at you?? WTF is that?? I dont even know who you are!! I am sorry if I hurt anyones feelings, it was not my intent at all...my intent was to have you stop hurting my Mom/Aunts feelings, it hurts me. If you don't like us then fine, I get it!! At least have a little class. You are sticking up for the Mills & GI as if they are your family, I respect that, so you should respect that I love my family as well, and don't like to see people hurt them. I really do hope this is not Scott G. or Jay H. All I ask of you is to be appropriate, you say you post these ugly things to make sure people know GMS is still a great place, well personal attacks at people, and thier kids/grandkids "my mom didn't want me around". You are staff there...what kind of role model does that make you? You are making the school look bad. If I was an outsider looking in at all this drama, I would be like WOW! STAFF, EX-Staff are more focused on fighting with each other than answering the questions of concerned parents out there. All of this makes GMS look really bad!!! If I was GI I would look into who is causing all theses waves and ask them to stop with the insults. But GI is a wimp, always has been and always will be! Sorry, but like I said before I speak the truth. I am done with all of this now.....I have a life to lead, but I am asking you to just walk away!! Be a Man/Woman and say I am still here, I am happy, I love GMS, I know it's a good school, I know GI is a good leader, I know the GM are good leaders, so who cares what those "pathetic" Ferrainola's have to say!! Good luck...Mystery man!!!:)
I'm sorry Nicole. I don't think it was anybody's intention to personally attack you or hurt you. Maybe things are getting out of hand here. I know that you must realize why so many people are resentful of your family but saying your Mom didn't want you around was a reflection on her state of mind, not on you, but of course we can all see why that was so hurtful to you. I don't think it was meant that way. I really do wish you well whether you believe that or not. I cannot say that for your family because it would be a lie. But I do mean it for the Grandchildren who are trying to live good lives. And I do understand your sadness about your Grandmom. I was sorry to hear about her passing. I hope you can accept my apology. It might be time to end this blog. Two sides will never be in agreement. We should all move on.
Veritas

Elmer, NJ

#1230 Nov 15, 2009
ALARMED wrote:
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Let me make it quite clear that "Veritas" does NOT speak for all of us. Nor do you "So true Veritas". Why don't you go ahead and have the line staff evaluate their supervising Resource Manager. Better yet, let's take a VOTE! I think you would be quite surprised. Being that these are the same individuals that worked UNDER Sam and remained SILENT while all this crap was going on. Silence is golden only in the movies "darling." And, silence is an accomplice, NOT an innocent bystander. I am VERY AFRAID of losing my house and my job. I for one will only feel safe when there is a complete overhaul of the management. By the way, when does GI ever walk down the hall? He's usually home by 1:30..........Blessing to all!
Very afraid of losing your house? If this is who I think it is, you ARE losing your housing privileges NOT your job, but not through anyone else's fault, only your own.
I am pretty sure this is the "long term staff member" from an earlier post. If you are doing your job & not causing trouble in the community, you have no problems with the current administration.
You are definitely in the minority, now. The vast majority of the staff & community have had the burden of insanity and fear lifted off them.
You are correct, I speak only for myself, but would be willing to vote AND bet money, that the majority of staff & community feels the same way.
Plus, if this IS who I think it is, you've got some nerve wagging your finger at anyone about silence-is-accomplice. You & your bunch were accomplices, allright....,
Veritas

Elmer, NJ

#1231 Nov 15, 2009
Glenn wrote:
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I say take the VOTE baby!!!! You go alarmed!!!! I agree take the vote, let's count. All that is needed. I'll send the forms out to everyone..........Sounds like Veritas and So True Veritas are kissing a GI ass..........
Yes, I spend ALL day kissing GI, PI, EIEIO ass. Can you count? You certainly have a hard time with comprehension.
Veritas

Elmer, NJ

#1232 Nov 15, 2009
Grandkids wrote:
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I can stand the heat...I can take it. It's just unfair because you know who I am, and I don't know who you are!! I have nothing to hide. I have no problem with the things you say about me, it's childish. Although I will say, they were some pretty low blows!! I guess if your point was to hurt me, it worked. You hurt me!! I just wish you would reveal your true self, maybe then we could find out who can really take the heat!! Are you afraid of what evil, mean things I could say about you, or say about your kids?? I will be the first to admit I made mistakes, I am not perfect!! I do try everyday though to treat people as I would like to be treated!! You are hiding behind your computer with a fake name, so don't say I cant take the heat!!! I never posed untruths either, evrything I have said is true...no lies!! The personal attacks at you?? WTF is that?? I dont even know who you are!! I am sorry if I hurt anyones feelings, it was not my intent at all...my intent was to have you stop hurting my Mom/Aunts feelings, it hurts me. If you don't like us then fine, I get it!! At least have a little class. You are sticking up for the Mills & GI as if they are your family, I respect that, so you should respect that I love my family as well, and don't like to see people hurt them. I really do hope this is not Scott G. or Jay H. All I ask of you is to be appropriate, you say you post these ugly things to make sure people know GMS is still a great place, well personal attacks at people, and thier kids/grandkids "my mom didn't want me around". You are staff there...what kind of role model does that make you? You are making the school look bad. If I was an outsider looking in at all this drama, I would be like WOW! STAFF, EX-Staff are more focused on fighting with each other than answering the questions of concerned parents out there. All of this makes GMS look really bad!!! If I was GI I would look into who is causing all theses waves and ask them to stop with the insults. But GI is a wimp, always has been and always will be! Sorry, but like I said before I speak the truth. I am done with all of this now.....I have a life to lead, but I am asking you to just walk away!! Be a Man/Woman and say I am still here, I am happy, I love GMS, I know it's a good school, I know GI is a good leader, I know the GM are good leaders, so who cares what those "pathetic" Ferrainola's have to say!! Good luck...Mystery man!!!:)
Nicole, I have no intent to "hurt" you, I do have the complete intention of correcting you. Your Mom & aunts are telling lies to you, to each other, to parole officers, to ex-husbands,, to...,hell, these posts can only be 4000 words long. But I am sure you get the point, they are lying, you evidently believe them and repeat these lies.
The fact that people will read this is the very reason I will continue to post the truth as it is at the Mills. If all they read is the stuff the Ferrainolas post, that would be bullshit. They have had their way, it is the rest of the GMS community's turn.
Honestly, I really do hope you have turned it around, given what you came from, it would indeed restore anyone's faith in a deity. But as long as you continue to parrot your Mom's & aunt's crapola, you had better get used to the heat.
Please stop hiding behind that oh-so-fake-concern for Grandpop's legacy & those poor poor students at the Mills. It makes anyone who knows the clan laugh really hard, then it makes them sick to their stomachs. Again, not one of the Ferrainola kids gave a hoot for them.
Also, have a little class? Coming from your bunch?! You're kidding me, right?
Dan

Shelby, OH

#1233 Nov 15, 2009
I think this just shows what kind of cowardly scum works at GM. The same scum is suppose to be the ones that "reform" your children. All they can do is call everyone else out while they hide who they really are. Call us students liars, because we reveal what they choose not to see in the mirror, a child abuser. Call Mr.Ferrainola names. Use this school for thier own personal benefit. Call out his children and family. LIKE NONE OF YOU HAVE EVER MADE MISTAKES? I know a handful of you that i have seen first hand beat children. Not restraint, not hit and slap, BEAT! You have some nerve to talk about someone else. Keep hiding and lying you cowards. It just shows how guilty you really are.
rita

Landenberg, PA

#1234 Nov 16, 2009
Glenn wrote:
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I say take the VOTE baby!!!! You go alarmed!!!! I agree take the vote, let's count. All that is needed. I'll send the forms out to everyone..........Sounds like Veritas and So True Veritas are kissing a GI ass..........
Thanks Alarmed...Who ever thinks GI is in his office all day is soooo wrong..I have seen him in South Philly at noon on a wednesday..at Duffer's tha American Grill and the Hideaway drinking beer at 3pm..Are there new work hours at the school??//and if you all feel like what you did to our family was soo right..why do all of you hide when you see us out in public??? ha ha that's seems like more pressure to keep your jobs and house than when my dad was there.. we know you were all told to severe your relationships with us or you could pack your bags as well and join us as you say in the real world..funny i got the feeling you never lived in the real world yourself..and have just moved from one house to another on campus...and if you were truely concerned about my Dad when things were gong bad..why didn't you take steps to let him go honorably you had more status at GMS than we did??? instead of holding secret meetings up at the golf course to coo-attack him..You had to let us all go..we found out about the game you all played behind our backs and we saw how scared you all were..what if your game didn't work and Mr. ferrainola refuses to step down..no that's where Gil Spencer steps in...plqan to have all RM say in the Nov board meeting that it would be best if my dad stepped down..with his dementia and confusion he did what he thought was best for the school and its' students..but the minute he signed the resignation..the administration destroyed everything about him ..gutting his office throwing his pictures away and off the wall and when my sister-in-law asked for my father's clay sytatue..she found out JC threw it away..couldn't bring down my handicapped Mother a sandwich..didn't shovel the snow from their sidewalks..just became mean like a pack of wild wolves who counldn't wait to devior the remaining success of him.......WOW ..talk about losers..at least I only hurt myself..never anyone else..you pethetic SOB were only out to hurt my Dad and his family..and you succeeded..now move on and quit picking on my daughter
rose

Landenberg, PA

#1235 Nov 16, 2009
Veritas wrote:
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THAT'S what you got from that paragraph? Even if anyone played any games on the school's computer's during the workday for 1000 years, they still wouldn't come close to a total sum of how much the Ferrainola's ripped the school's off while they were "employed".
Rose, shopping at Giant at 2pm on a Tuesday? AND using a school credit card.
Rita, coming to "work" (MAYBE) if she wasn't too hung over? Or hiding from collection calls....,
Tresa, please, girl would go over to the AD building to pick up her paycheck. She didn't even know where the new playcenter was.
Joe, I know he had an office, couldn't figure out what he did in it.
Jim, before he died was out in Pittsburgh. I am going to bet did the same sort of stuff Joe did.
Trust me, none of us could come close to their level of larceny.
If I was shopping at the Giant at 2pm on tuesday ..you must have been there too you asshole...and you sure don't have a clue about what I did for GMS..especially since I worked thru many lunch hours having conferences with the P.O's and the student who they sent there...whoever this is..you make me laugh....

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