Child support and Shared Parenting/Visitation

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Jarrod

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

#1 Aug 29, 2012
I have been paying child support on my son for over a year.Im trying to get my sons mother to do a shared parenting plan considering I have my son 5 days a week.Does anyone know if she agrees if it will stop my child support or atleast reduce it?

Since: Jul 12

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#2 Aug 29, 2012
Jarrod wrote:
I have been paying child support on my son for over a year.Im trying to get my sons mother to do a shared parenting plan considering I have my son 5 days a week.Does anyone know if she agrees if it will stop my child support or atleast reduce it?
No it will not stop nor reduce your child support. However you can have your support reviewed if you have any income changes that would affect it.
Jarrod

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

#3 Aug 29, 2012
Thank You Wellstendone
Big daddy

New York, NY

#4 Aug 29, 2012
Jarrod wrote:
Thank You Wellstendone
Three years form when u got divorced/dissolution you will get a notice in the mail and you can contest it then. They will review the previous 3 yrs of your income and hers But in the meantime I'd bite the bullet and take her back to court. If it has been less than 1 yr from when you divorced then you can contest it. I'd get a lawyer because it will be cheaper in the long run
ming gong gow

Columbus, OH

#5 Aug 29, 2012
If you are asking a court to approve your shared parenting plan, it will need to address child support as well as parenting time. If you agree in the parenting plan to keep support the same you may run into an issue if you try to modify it later.
Jarrod

Harpster, OH

#6 Aug 29, 2012
I think i will get a lawyer.We were never married and havent ever went to court yet although there is a child support order already.I have my son atleast 5 days a week sometimes 7.I dont want to be considered a deadbeat dad but I dont think I should be paying her as much as I am when she never see's him but maybe a total of 24 hours in a 1 week period.
Anonymous

Wellston, OH

#7 Aug 30, 2012
Jarrod wrote:
I think i will get a lawyer.We were never married and havent ever went to court yet although there is a child support order already.I have my son atleast 5 days a week sometimes 7.I dont want to be considered a deadbeat dad but I dont think I should be paying her as much as I am when she never see's him but maybe a total of 24 hours in a 1 week period.
Maybe the two of you should agree to no child support, that's how my shared patenting plan is.
good for you

Circleville, OH

#8 Aug 30, 2012
Jarrod wrote:
I think i will get a lawyer.We were never married and havent ever went to court yet although there is a child support order already.I have my son atleast 5 days a week sometimes 7.I dont want to be considered a deadbeat dad but I dont think I should be paying her as much as I am when she never see's him but maybe a total of 24 hours in a 1 week period.
jarrod-please talk to dana gilliland-she specializes in this area and also contracts thru human services and child support-just give her a call and share your story-she is a sweetheart. also my hat is off to you bro-for standing up and not being a dead beat dad-cant think of any other men doing this right now, so prayers for you that you and your child will be ok and everything will come out ok. she should not be getting any support if she is never around-and ask dana about 'physical' custody-that is what you are doing. am proud of you!
yes

Brooklyn, NY

#9 Aug 30, 2012
I agree with "good for you" she is your best hope for getting something accomplished with your child support. Dana also used to be the attorney for Jackson job and family, child support agency

“All hail Queen Mayor”

Since: Sep 11

Piketon, OH

#10 Aug 30, 2012
Boy ole boy a piece of azz sure gets expensive doesn't it? Slide on into the 18 yr income scam perpetrated on men across the country.. Slip into that slime hole and let that b!tch steal 50% of your income for the next 18 years..

If I were in your shoes I would file for FULL CUSTODY since you have the child more than 50% of the time anyway.. I would also pay a 40$ hooker to relieve my pressure once in a while then you don't have to worry about losing the other half of your income to some skank that can't keep her legs together..
John Q Public

Jackson, OH

#11 Aug 30, 2012
If you have your child as much as you say, you can get it reduced. In order to do so you have to have the actual visitation layed out on paper in court. Then when you fill out owe forms, if you have your child 50% of the time you get. 50% deviation. There is more too it than that, and you can agree to whatever number you want (in court) but if you don't agree then that is basically how it goes...
smiley

Brooklyn, NY

#12 Aug 30, 2012
Best idea is to get an attorney and don't follow someone's legal advice on topix
jussayin

Circleville, OH

#13 Aug 30, 2012
smiley wrote:
Best idea is to get an attorney and don't follow someone's legal advice on topix
well smiley-from what I have read and what i wrote-no one is giving legal advice-only advice. this person has reached out for help and ppl are trying to help. i tried to lead him in the right direction by telling him to seek danas counsel, so next time read the posts before you generalize
smiley

Brooklyn, NY

#14 Aug 30, 2012
jussayin wrote:
<quoted text>well smiley-from what I have read and what i wrote-no one is giving legal advice-only advice. this person has reached out for help and ppl are trying to help. i tried to lead him in the right direction by telling him to seek danas counsel, so next time read the posts before you generalize
Trust me I agree w you about Dana, I wasn't referring to you about advice
Lady GaGa

Vienna, VA

#15 Sep 2, 2012
Be Rock No Momma wrote:
Boy ole boy a piece of azz sure gets expensive doesn't it? Slide on into the 18 yr income scam perpetrated on men across the country.. Slip into that slime hole and let that b!tch steal 50% of your income for the next 18 years..
If I were in your shoes I would file for FULL CUSTODY since you have the child more than 50% of the time anyway.. I would also pay a 40$ hooker to relieve my pressure once in a while
then you don't have to worry about losing the
other half of your income to some skank that
can't keep her legs together..
That's only true if the $40 hooker doesn't get pregnant as well, in any case, it won't cont neither of them as much as it cost the kids they produce. You people are stupid. He's not taking care of the kid, it's his mom or his new girl friend!

“All hail Queen Mayor”

Since: Sep 11

Jackson, OH

#16 Sep 2, 2012
Lady GaGa wrote:
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That's only true if the $40 hooker doesn't get pregnant as well, in any case, it won't cont neither of them as much as it cost the kids they produce. You people are stupid. He's not taking care of the kid, it's his mom or his new girl friend!
There are two things that are stupid here and that happens to be your username and your comment..

As for your name ummm do something original not some stupid copycat crap.. The second thing that needs worked on is your opinion.. Since you obviously know very little about hookers let me help you out.. Most of those skanks doing the dirty actually go for the 30 second oral or a quick handjob.. They aren't interested in working as in taking all their clothes off and getting all hot and sweaty.. How do i know all this well i just might be a working girl :) Then again I might not be!!
smiley

Brooklyn, NY

#17 Sep 2, 2012
Be Rock No Momma wrote:
<quoted text>There are two things that are stupid here and that happens to be your username and your comment..

As for your name ummm do something original not some stupid copycat crap.. The second thing that needs worked on is your opinion.. Since you obviously know very little about hookers let me help you out.. Most of those skanks doing the dirty actually go for the 30 second oral or a quick handjob.. They aren't interested in working as in taking all their clothes off and getting all hot and sweaty.. How do i know all this well i just might be a working girl :) Then again I might not be!!
Love this post bee wok!!!
your biggest fan

Jackson, OH

#18 Sep 2, 2012
Be Rock No Momma wrote:
<quoted text>
There are two things that are stupid here and that happens to be your username and your comment..
As for your name ummm do something original not some stupid copycat crap.. The second thing that needs worked on is your opinion.. Since you obviously know very little about hookers let me help you out.. Most of those skanks doing the dirty actually go for the 30 second oral or a quick handjob.. They aren't interested in working as in taking all their clothes off and getting all hot and sweaty.. How do i know all this well i just might be a working girl :) Then again I might not be!!
hey stranger! been away for a while but could not resist cking in on you....and now I have to go onto bed all worked up, although we would need more than a half a minute. nite and wet dreams!

“All hail Queen Mayor”

Since: Sep 11

Jackson, OH

#19 Sep 2, 2012
You two crack me up..
your biggest fan

Jackson, OH

#20 Sep 3, 2012
Be Rock No Momma wrote:
You two crack me up..
well that is part of my mission-to keep your crack happy, so I guess-job well done? miss ya!

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