friends who turn their back on you

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his child

Vero Beach, FL

#1 Feb 8, 2007
Can someone tell me why people who you think are your friends turn their back on you. I thought that I had some friends in NC while I lived there, but when I moved away and changed my lifestyle, they completely wiped me off their friends list. I am still the same person I was then, I just don't don't have the same nasty habits.
the other girl

Van Nuys, CA

#2 Apr 14, 2007
The person I once claimed to be my best friend did the same to me, though for different reasons. I used to see her as some kind of god…she just seemed so talented and wonderful. I though she was better than me in everyway, and I loved it when she was happy, there was no greater joy than her happiness.

I put her on a pedestal and placed myself at her feet…she took advantage of me. But as time progressed I grew and I begun to realize that she wasn’t all that great a person in the first place. In fact, she was, is, a really ugly person…

When I noticed this, I began to question. She didn’t like it and completely turned her back on me. I fell to pieces. I think my heart shattered and still isn’t together even now after a week or so. When she walked away after giving me that letter…she didn’t even look back. She constantly writes blogs on myspace about how much she hates me now

…but I, I’m moving on.

That night, after she gave me the ‘break up friendship letter’, she wrote a blog about being excited about school the next day. She specifically stated “what will you do, I wonder?”

I realized with practiced patience that…I don’t need her…and that she isn’t all that great. The next day I went to school as a totally new person. I had more loyal REAL friends than I’d thought. They were so wonderful to me…and the day was the best I’ve had ever since I had first met Nikka (my, supposed, friend).

She seemed very mad at the end of the day when I smiled and said hi to her…and the next day she apologized by giving me food.(But then again, the hate blogs continue and I’m just blocking her now. I’ll talk to her but I no longer see her as an important person in my life.)

I don’t care about her anymore, I can’t be bothered and you shouldn’t either. Who knows why people do the things they do but I do know this: always know that there are people we think aren’t there that are. Never let one or even millions hold you down, they’re not important. Live you life and be happy and successful…continue to move forward…
The sexiest

Wilson, NC

#3 May 15, 2007
I hate my best friend now! you want to know why? Cuz she is messing with my boyfriend!!!!!!!!!! don't ya'll think that's wrong? she a b***h

Since: May 07

High Point, NC

#4 May 22, 2007
the other girl wrote:
The person I once claimed to be my best friend did the same to me, though for different reasons. I used to see her as some kind of god…she just seemed so talented and wonderful. I though she was better than me in everyway, and I loved it when she was happy, there was no greater joy than her happiness.
I put her on a pedestal and placed myself at her feet…she took advantage of me. But as time progressed I grew and I begun to realize that she wasn’t all that great a person in the first place. In fact, she was, is, a really ugly person…
When I noticed this, I began to question. She didn’t like it and completely turned her back on me. I fell to pieces. I think my heart shattered and still isn’t together even now after a week or so. When she walked away after giving me that letter…she didn’t even look back. She constantly writes blogs on myspace about how much she hates me now
…but I, I’m moving on.
That night, after she gave me the ‘break up friendship letter’, she wrote a blog about being excited about school the next day. She specifically stated “what will you do, I wonder?”
I realized with practiced patience that…I don’t need her…and that she isn’t all that great. The next day I went to school as a totally new person. I had more loyal REAL friends than I’d thought. They were so wonderful to me…and the day was the best I’ve had ever since I had first met Nikka (my, supposed, friend).
She seemed very mad at the end of the day when I smiled and said hi to her…and the next day she apologized by giving me food.(But then again, the hate blogs continue and I’m just blocking her now. I’ll talk to her but I no longer see her as an important person in my life.)
I don’t care about her anymore, I can’t be bothered and you shouldn’t either. Who knows why people do the things they do but I do know this: always know that there are people we think aren’t there that are. Never let one or even millions hold you down, they’re not important. Live you life and be happy and successful…continue to move forward…
You are better off with out her
unknownheart

United States

#5 Jun 2, 2007
About two months ago, I had a rough break-up with my girlfriend of 3 months( I loved her dearly). I met her through some of my closest friends. After we split up.. I tried contacting my friends only to find that they were not listening to me. I called and called for over a month, leaving messages.. never returned any of them. This loss has wrecked me from the inside out. I had to get therapy, and even that has not helped very much. My days are lonely, my nights are broken with grief of my choices. I feel like this is all my fault. I tried everything, but it has all failed with them. Depression, hopelessness, sadness, grief, anger, frustration, all of these words describe the way I have felt. I have realized that these people were never my "true" friends to begin with. Only there in fairweather.. I pray everyday and night to make this pain go away.. Someone please say a prayer for me. Thank You.
toblessedtobedep ressed

Leesburg, FL

#6 Jun 8, 2007
unknownheart wrote:
About two months ago, I had a rough break-up with my girlfriend of 3 months( I loved her dearly). I met her through some of my closest friends. After we split up.. I tried contacting my friends only to find that they were not listening to me. I called and called for over a month, leaving messages.. never returned any of them. This loss has wrecked me from the inside out. I had to get therapy, and even that has not helped very much. My days are lonely, my nights are broken with grief of my choices. I feel like this is all my fault. I tried everything, but it has all failed with them. Depression, hopelessness, sadness, grief, anger, frustration, all of these words describe the way I have felt. I have realized that these people were never my "true" friends to begin with. Only there in fairweather.. I pray everyday and night to make this pain go away.. Someone please say a prayer for me. Thank You.
Sorry for all your pain and grief. I will say a prayer, but you need to realize, that friends that hurt and neglect you were never your friends to begin with. I have realized now that everything happens for a reason. God has a plan for all of us. We just don't know what it is yet. Please tell yourself that you are a good person, and you deserve better than what you are dealing with right now. Try and have a new outlook on life, and before you know it, you will be back to your old self again. The person who someone new will be grateful to call friend. God Bless you.
girl with no friends

London, UK

#7 Jun 14, 2007
a year ago a new girl arrived at our sckool
a couple weeks l8er we were best friends we did everythin 2gether
but then she started hanfin rounf another gitl i tryed everythin 2 get hr bck
now i have my braces she dont want 2 b my mate and some one has spreaded a rumor that i am bullin her friend and noe she just puts the phone down wen i ring wot can i do???
thisssguyyy

Buffalo, NY

#8 Jun 17, 2007
well me and my ex girlfriend were in this group together, and i am the one who got her t o join, so we broke up about a year after she joined and now shes dating one of my "best" friend that was in the group with me. and now all of my friends in that group are bad-mouthing me and neglecting me. isnt this prett f***d up?
majanna

Dandenong, Australia

#9 Dec 19, 2007
i have this friend and were have been friends since grade 4 and then she starts hating me for no reason so in grade 5 we didn't talk much but when we started grade 6 we were the best of friends now... she completey hates me and is making up all these rumors 2 days ago she did this joke ans said i killed a dog what can i do?
pray

High Point, NC

#10 Dec 19, 2007
What a friend we have in Jesus Christ.Put your trust in no man or woman.
majanna

Dandenong, Australia

#11 Dec 20, 2007
my friend that hurt me is still doing it but this time she said i called my bff a slut and a bitch which i didn't now every night i want to kil myself
majanna

Dandenong, Australia

#12 Dec 20, 2007
girl with no friends wrote:
a year ago a new girl arrived at our sckool
a couple weeks l8er we were best friends we did everythin 2gether
but then she started hanfin rounf another gitl i tryed everythin 2 get hr bck
now i have my braces she dont want 2 b my mate and some one has spreaded a rumor that i am bullin her friend and noe she just puts the phone down wen i ring wot can i do???
boy do i know wat that feels like i'm very sorry for you well wat can do is go to her house and apolgizie

“Dont hateME cause my car's HOT”

Since: Sep 07

St Louis Missouri

#13 Dec 21, 2007
OK you all listen to me,and you must hear and know this.It feels like the end of the world right now.But it is NOT.These 'friends' will come and go.The only true ones will ALWAYS be there.That's not saying that you won't fight and have arguements.A true friend forgives.If not,their not worth it.A true friend apoligizes.If not ttheir not worth it.My best friend of 30 yrs(my mom and her mom were good friends)Her and I have had many a fights.Guess what?We done a lot of hurtful stuff to one another.We moved past it.Heck I didn't talk to her for almost 4 yrs when she got pregnant by my ex.Oh,and him and I are even still friends.We also did a bunch of hurtful things.
You all seem very young.So know that it is not the end of the world,because you never know what could happen,even 4 yrs down the road.My bf kids call me aunt,and my mom grandma.
There were many a times I thought I could not go on after some of the things that happened.But life is like a book,and you must read it until the end,to see how it will end.
Good luck in life,and don't give up on anything or anyone.
majanna

Dandenong, Australia

#14 Dec 21, 2007
i have this friend and i broke our friendship and we worked it out but she keeping lying about things and trying to take my new friends then on msn she turns all my friends againstme even my bff and says i called her a slut and a bitch now she making mean names and hurting my feelings what do i do?
majanna

Dandenong, Australia

#15 Dec 23, 2007
I HATE MY LIFE!!!!ALL THESE PEOPLE ARE ACCUSING ME OF SOMETHING I DIDN'T DO AND NOW EVERYDAY I GET UP I WANT TO KILL MYSELF THEY'RE TAKING OVER MY LIFE!!!!!!!!!!WHAT SHOULD I DO??????????

“Dont hateME cause my car's HOT”

Since: Sep 07

St Louis Missouri

#16 Dec 26, 2007
majanna wrote:
I HATE MY LIFE!!!!ALL THESE PEOPLE ARE ACCUSING ME OF SOMETHING I DIDN'T DO AND NOW EVERYDAY I GET UP I WANT TO KILL MYSELF THEY'RE TAKING OVER MY LIFE!!!!!!!!!!WHAT SHOULD I DO??????????
You have to trust me when I say one day these people won't mean anything to you,and you will wonder what all the fuss was over.There will be friends,girl and guy friends that will like you for you.Not what you have or what you can do for them.Those people are the ones who will be worth your time.The ones who want to spend time with you and can't wait to hang out with YOU!A real friend doesn't make you feel this way on purpose or at least not apoligize if they had.We all say and do things sometimes that we later regret.
majanna

Dandenong, Australia

#17 Dec 26, 2007
THIS GIRL IS AMKING UP LIES AND HURTING MY FEELINGS SHE TURNED EVERYONE AGAINST ME WHAT SHGOULD I DO??

“Dont hateME cause my car's HOT”

Since: Sep 07

St Louis Missouri

#18 Dec 27, 2007
majanna wrote:
THIS GIRL IS AMKING UP LIES AND HURTING MY FEELINGS SHE TURNED EVERYONE AGAINST ME WHAT SHGOULD I DO??
You don't need to prove yourself to anyone!Eventually these people will realize this girl is a lier,cause she will do the same thing to them.And that is all you can tell them,that they will find out for themselves when she stabs them in the back.Until then,hold your head high.Continue your studies,cause you sound young.Edu cation is the most important thing.Also the best thing to rub in some one's face that you made something of your life.
XoXramonaXoX

Sydney, Australia

#19 Dec 27, 2007
One of my good friends Majanna(she posted in this) Is being badly abused. One of my not so friendly friend is making up things about her and saying like she just got an email from majanna calling us sluts(she didnt!) saying she killed a dog(no way would she do that!) and alot more! It kills me inside to think that some one would do that!

“Dont hateME cause my car's HOT”

Since: Sep 07

St Louis Missouri

#20 Dec 27, 2007
XoXramonaXoX wrote:
One of my good friends Majanna(she posted in this) Is being badly abused. One of my not so friendly friend is making up things about her and saying like she just got an email from majanna calling us sluts(she didnt!) saying she killed a dog(no way would she do that!) and alot more! It kills me inside to think that some one would do that!
See I told Majanna,there are True friends out there.And that is you!Thanks for knowing your friend could and would NOT be what the evil girl is trying to convince everyone of.Good for you to stick up for Majanna.Don't feed into her,that is all those kind of people want,to get a re-action out of you.It bothers them more when they are ignored.

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