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curious

Pleasantville, OH

#1 Jan 31, 2013
Is there really any good, honest men left out there? Stupid men has almost made a man hater out of me. Between my friends and I, I'm begining to think they are all the same, now I know women can have the same flaws that men do but why do men have to be such pigs? When they get a good women they either cheat, lie and say they love them, always puts them down, won't work, uses them etc. It seem like all the good guys like sluts and all the good women get these bad men. My point is why can't good women find decent guys? I really wish people know days could be honest. If you don't really love someone don't tell them you do, if you don't have any attentions on staying with that person don't lead them on and cheat on them, if you really love the person your with get a job and help out, telling your man or women that you love them is one thing but words don't mean sh*t if your not man or women enough to back them up that just means your your a coward, chicken sh*t pu**y. So if you have made promises keep them do what you say you are going to do. Don't forget to show them attention, hug, and kiss them like your never going to see each other again. If your not man or women enough to treat each other right then get the h**l out of the relationship, playing with ones heart is a very selfish act.
hair raiser

Livonia, MI

#2 Feb 1, 2013
You should practice what you preach. I always treat a woman like a ladie. Do what I say im going to do. Have worked the same job for over 25 years, dont run the bars and dont want to. Try to stay fit and trim. And have been treated like shit by a couple of woman . But I dont think every other woman is a dirty bitch . And by the way Im single and I dont have any good ladies beating my door down trying to get at me. Where are all the good single ladies at.
bill

Van Wert, OH

#3 Feb 1, 2013
Pike County women have a thing for drug addicts, thieves, and drunks. This means most of the men around here pick up bad habits so they can have them wimmins. It's like a positive feedback loop.

So if you want a good man then tell your girlfriends to have some standards.
curly cue

United States

#4 Feb 3, 2013
No not all of us women have a thing for drug addicts. Some of us work our asses off and raise kids. We spend free nights watching movies and cuddling with our babies instead of getting our nails done and hitting the bar. We're not on a constant man hunt because we pay our own bills and could care less about the car you drive.
However, we do daydream about taking walks walks under the stars and slowdancing to classics and feeling like a teenager again. We care about disease and what enters our bodies. Nobody will have respect for you if you don't respect yourself. If you think all Pike County women are like that, then you are probably no better yourself. You're only as good as the company you keep. I know there are lots of good girls around because those are the people I associate with. Get my drift?
Hair raiser...you sound real nice. Keep on keepin on.:)
lol

Van Wert, OH

#5 Feb 3, 2013
pike county women who pay their bills and dont depend on the government? Every woman in pike county is either on anti-psychotic meds or needs them. lol good luck curly cue.
curly cue

United States

#6 Feb 3, 2013
lol wrote:
pike county women who pay their bills and dont depend on the government? Every woman in pike county is either on anti-psychotic meds or needs them. lol good luck curly cue.
I'm sorry to burst your bubble buddy...I pay my own bills and the only medication I take is for acid reflux. Maybe you can't find a nice girl because you've already got your mind made up that we don't exist. Too bad for you...
Agreed

Vermilion, OH

#7 Feb 3, 2013
I actually found eharmony better than othe Pike co opition a
curly cue

United States

#8 Feb 3, 2013
Whatever happened to people dating in person? Where's the fun in online dating? It's lazy. I want good old fashioned flirting and butterflies. I want eye contact and secret smiles...that's where it's at. Get off your asses get out and live! And if you see someone that you might be interested in.....say something!
man

Ray, OH

#9 Feb 6, 2013
curly cue wrote:
Whatever happened to people dating in person? Where's the fun in online dating? It's lazy. I want good old fashioned flirting and butterflies. I want eye contact and secret smiles...that's where it's at. Get off your asses get out and live! And if you see someone that you might be interested in.....say something!
Curly Cue I agree with you to a point. But from personal experience flirting with women in public often gets me in trouble more often then not. So many married women don't wear rings. That's always the first thing I look for. Then you do strike a conversation up with her and you get to talking and sometimes even meeting up at a later date. Then through the grapevine you come to find out she is married or in a serious relationship etc. I am not fond of drama. Plus if I would have known this woman was in a relationship I would have never even talked to her. Its happened more than once. So personally that's why I am kind of iffy on approaching women anymore. Of course it can happen online in the same fashion. Where are all the truthful women at is the question? It sucks when you start to fall for someone only to find out she is pretty much using you for sex/dinner/gifts etc. Honesty is hard to find anymore whether in person or online.
curly cue

United States

#10 Feb 6, 2013
man wrote:
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Curly Cue I agree with you to a point. But from personal experience flirting with women in public often gets me in trouble more often then not. So many married women don't wear rings. That's always the first thing I look for. Then you do strike a conversation up with her and you get to talking and sometimes even meeting up at a later date. Then through the grapevine you come to find out she is married or in a serious relationship etc. I am not fond of drama. Plus if I would have known this woman was in a relationship I would have never even talked to her. Its happened more than once. So personally that's why I am kind of iffy on approaching women anymore. Of course it can happen online in the same fashion. Where are all the truthful women at is the question? It sucks when you start to fall for someone only to find out she is pretty much using you for sex/dinner/gifts etc. Honesty is hard to find anymore whether in person or online.
I guess I see where you're coming from. I was in a similar situation myself not long ago. Makes you feel crummy. If you ask upfront...trust your gut...who knows. I'm looking for honest people myself, they're few and far between and it's really easy to assume that people are just naturally honest. You win. I'm got nothing. I'm sorry.
Jay

Van Wert, OH

#11 Feb 6, 2013
my problem is seems like every woman around my age (29) has 1-2 or more kids. bah!
ethan

Chillicothe, OH

#12 Feb 6, 2013
i agree with curly cue
curly cue

United States

#13 Feb 7, 2013
ethan wrote:
i agree with curly cue
It's nice to know I'm not the only person around that sees life this way.
looky there

Chillicothe, OH

#14 Feb 7, 2013
Jay wrote:
my problem is seems like every woman around my age (29) has 1-2 or more kids. bah!
The older you get the more likely that people will have children and an Ex or two
man

Wilmington, OH

#15 Feb 7, 2013
curly cue wrote:
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I guess I see where you're coming from. I was in a similar situation myself not long ago. Makes you feel crummy. If you ask upfront...trust your gut...who knows. I'm looking for honest people myself, they're few and far between and it's really easy to assume that people are just naturally honest. You win. I'm got nothing. I'm sorry.
See I'm the opposite on the naturally trusting people or thinking they are honest. In my line of work I deal with professional manipulators everyday. I'm not saying I will think you are lying right away it just takes a minute to gain my trust. Sometimes trusting your gut just doesn't work out. I always have asked up front but people will lie to get what they want. I guess I will keep on trying, its hit and miss.
curly cue

United States

#16 Feb 7, 2013
I live life day to day without any expectations. I take care of what needs it. If something nice happens along the way then I've had a great day. I don't approach everyday life with the "I need to find a man" attitude like most women my age, because I don't. What I need is to make sure the bills are oasis and I get through a shift at work without killing somebody. What I'd like is a best friend to help lift me up when it gets to be too much. Someone to hold my hand, make me smile...and allow me to do the same for them. My main goal is to live life with a smile on my face as much as possible. It's a beautiful day out today.:)
curly cue

United States

#17 Feb 7, 2013
*bills paid
An Idea

Westerville, OH

#18 Feb 7, 2013
Curly Cue and Man you are talking online right now and getting to know small personality traits. I met my husband online. Takes a lot of pressure off. Of course there are the liars and players everywhere. And believe me there's still butterflies, excitement and flirtation. My husband used to make fun of relationships that started on the Internet...till we stumbled into one that became love and now I get to sleep in his arms every night :)
curly cue

United States

#19 Feb 8, 2013
An Idea wrote:
Curly Cue and Man you are talking online right now and getting to know small personality traits. I met my husband online. Takes a lot of pressure off. Of course there are the liars and players everywhere. And believe me there's still butterflies, excitement and flirtation. My husband used to make fun of relationships that started on the Internet...till we stumbled into one that became love and now I get to sleep in his arms every night :)
That's nice :) I'm glad it worked out for you.
good guy

United States

#20 Feb 8, 2013
what women don't understand is guys need to be needed.

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