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DR CANGAS

Waterloo, IL

#1 Aug 30, 2008
It has just come to my attention that this site is being used to bash me and my family. I will make this short, as I am too busy to focus my attention on someone who has a grudge or simply has too much time on their hands.

FACT: Neither my wife nor myself have posted replies to any of these comments/accusations. Any use of my name or hers, or implications thereof is done so falsely.

FACT: This will be the one and ONLY post, we will not post replies to any comments made here or elsewhere again. In fact, we will not return to this site for any reason.

I will gladly answer questions, face to face, from any parent whose child(ren) I care for or who are considering transferring care to me and my staff. As a parent,, I would clearly understand if this poses questions for you. Hopefully you'll be able to read it all for yourselves and see the childishness that it all represents. Please feel free to call and schedule a time if you have concerns. I would address the comments made here, but don't have time to read them all, nor time to reply to even just the few comments I have read.

Dr. Joseph E. Cangas
Illini Pediatrics
107 N Main St, Ste 2B
Columbia, IL 62236
Blosser

Waterloo, IL

#2 Sep 10, 2008
So are you coming to my New Years Eve party??
hahaha

Waterloo, IL

#3 Sep 10, 2008
how funny. he's such a joke
double ha

Waterloo, IL

#4 Sep 10, 2008
think there's a song about you 'hahaha', called 'stuck on you'. you really ought to move on. If he's such a joke, why's he still getting your attention??
hahaha

Waterloo, IL

#5 Sep 10, 2008
its funny that you think you know who i am.. but you really have no idea
double ha

Waterloo, IL

#6 Sep 10, 2008
never once assumed to know who you are, just that you are focusing attention on someone you supposedly think is a joke. if you really thought so, you'd just put him out of your mind, not think about him often enough to dig up this thread.
hahaha

Waterloo, IL

#7 Sep 10, 2008
i didn't dig this up, i saw that someone else had commented on it, why do you care what i comment on??
double ha

Waterloo, IL

#8 Sep 10, 2008
i dont, just think its funny that youd call him a joke out of the blue if he wasnt on your mind. we're all tired of the bs posts on here, prefer it to stay focused on news, current events, not just random crybabying about somebody someone doesnt like
agree

United States

#9 Sep 10, 2008
From the Columbia Topix forum:
Well ladies and gentlemen, you got what you wanted...the man who you've spent oodles and oodles of wasted energy on has posted a statement.

Please take a moment to self-reflect. Are you being the best person you could possibly be by posting damaging remarks and being a part of spreading the ugliness this has become?

This is just a question. There are bigger goals and aspirations for your life, hopefully they'll be recognized and accomplished with the same tenacity that was used to post such trash.
agree

United States

#10 Sep 10, 2008
hahaha wrote:
i didn't dig this up, i saw that someone else had commented on it, why do you care what i comment on??
I care because this you could me, you, your mother or your child that someone is dragging their name through the mud.

Take the higher road by not entertaining such nonsense.
Exactly

Waterloo, IL

#11 Sep 10, 2008
exactly. I'm sure if there were a thread about you, that there would be many people who don't like you. thats just life. No matter how good or bad somebody is, there's somebody who doesnt like him/her. Start a thread with your own name and see what happens. I bet it would be quite an eye opener.
hahaha

Waterloo, IL

#12 Sep 10, 2008
this person puts his business out there for everyone to see. he makes a fool out of himself over and over again while trying to do good. his name was dragged in the mud when the newspaper came out and several times that MANY people have posted threads about him on topix (Long before this most recent), one of which was taken down immediately so i'm sure wasn't seen by many. I'm not the only one in town who thinks he is a joke. this is supposed to be someone who is educated and a "role model" to children. While he does good, he also makes an ass of himself. Showing up in the newspaper, running around with MANY women, most of which are very young single mothers, and now getting married weeks after his last very public relationship ended.. thats all great but its all just a show. he wants the town to think that he's a great family man, and now calling himself a parent?? As a REAL parent i take offense to this and find it misleading.. while commendable that he would take the role of "dad" to two children (with 2 different fathers).. being married for a few weeks doesn't make you a parent. a parent is someone who is there for ALL of a childs needs, and while someday he surely will be a parent in those children's eyes, he is certainly not one now, not yet.
Again, yes, i think he is a joke. I think he puts on a front and hopes people will see the person he wishes he was. But i have an idea of who he is.. whether ANY of the threads are true or not, people (MORE THAN ONE) have spoken out. i have seen what seems to be important to him, the little blondes and "ideal" image of this amazing person.
I dont need to put my name out there, you people will decide who you think i am (right or wrong) and you will run with it.

and by the way, 80% of topix is nothing but bs. its not news, its bs gossip and bashing. while there is some interesting and important info, it's not cnn. its columbia's electronical way to gossip. just the way it is, like it or leave it.
terri

Waterloo, IL

#13 Sep 10, 2008
still great that you will judge him and hide behind this site. Be a man, or woman, if you intend to take a stand.
jenny

Waterloo, IL

#14 Sep 10, 2008
made a fool of himself? by dating? Thought that is what single people do. And having kids makes him a parent, good or bad still a parent. What i read from that you wrote: he wants to be a better person. All should strive for the same. Also, what, if even true, would the kids having different father have to do with anything? proof that his wife has slept with more than one person? How many have you slept with? Topix is bs, but what kind of person are you to add to the bs. Be a bigger person. Grow up. And it seems you know a lot about his personal life. is it made up, or shall we say STALKER??
hahaha

Waterloo, IL

#15 Sep 10, 2008
yep.. im a stalker because i live in town.. i go to the store, i go to columbia daze.. you caught me!! and all i was saying was that because you marry someone weeks ago, after dating for 3 weeks before that, and that person has kids doesn't make you a parent. thats not something that just happens over night when you marry into it. thats all
jenny

Waterloo, IL

#16 Sep 10, 2008
got it. not sure howd youd know how many daddys her kids have if youve been to columbia daze. None of us knows how long they have known each other. Or maybe it was just love at first sight. And you cannot know what type of parent he is. You cant know if he loves the kids. With his outward love for kids, i'm sure he cares about them greatly. Yes, youre right, he did take on the responsibility, and is clearly taking that role seriously. Only time will truly tell. SO why don't you be patient and see what happens. If its all a joke, it will be obvious soon enough. If not, let them be happy. How can you possibly know how any of them feel? Adding to this mess surely wont help his family. And, parent or not in your opinion, he has a family.
hahaha

Waterloo, IL

#17 Sep 10, 2008
so because i live in columbia, go to the store.. columbia daze, in general live my life in this small town and i see things.. i'm a stalker? ok good way to try and bash me. and all i was saying was that he married this woman weeks ago, after dating for a few weeks, that doesn't make him a parent. it doesn't just happen over night because you marry into it. being a parent, whether or not its your biological child, takes time. pregnancy for example, takes time. you go through nine months (mother or father). you build up to being a parent. same thing when you take on the role of of being a parent to someone else's children. you have to take the time to earn trust, build a relationship. i just think its a joke that in 6 weeks, he's a parent all of a sudden. Its takes time, thats all i said.

and dating .. fine.. we've all done it. but dating a different girl every month, mother's that bring their child into the practice, married women.. girls that work for you.. i think its all a little unethical really. and maybe i'm just old fashioned but i would like to think that keeping your personal life out of the spot light would be a big priority for someone in his career... but no, he didn't care. i thought maybe he'd at least try and be a little more low key after the newspaper, but within a week he was right there doing it again.
jenny

Waterloo, IL

#18 Sep 10, 2008
none of that makes you a parent either, other than caring and compassion, time has nothing to do with it. And the fact he's not embarrased to date doesnt make him a bad person. I'm sure we all have people we wish we'd not have dated. So he chose not to sit at home. How many people did he date publicly? How many was he seen with in public. I'm from the same town, am out all of the time, and saw him wiht one person over the past year. SO it seems you're exageratting hugely. And his name was in the paper.For someone coming to his house, not for doing anything himself. Any inferrence that was made from that is all heresay. And what was he doing a week after that? Unless you live with him or are one of his neighbors, I dont think you probably have any clue who he has dated or not dated. Unless the stalker point was true. Yo'ure throwing out a lot of info that doenst seem to be common knowlege in my circles, so where are you getting your info? The point to be made, his is married, thats a fact. They have children to care for. Is he doing that? Is he out dating anyone? Is he harming anyone? Is he human? Are you?
Chuck

Des Plaines, IL

#19 Sep 11, 2008
Sounds like hahaha is one who was more than likely dumped by the doctor. The bitterness that she has definitely shows and to know so much about what he's doing and with whom he's doing it proves that the stalker thing is right on. Move on with your life. Can't you see that noone on here cares what your opinion is of this man. You are making yourself look like a fool and guess what, he doesn't care about you. So find a counselor so you can get over being turned away by the doctor
Ouch

Waterloo, IL

#20 Sep 11, 2008
ok, everybody play nice. If she was 'dumped' she probably is just hurting/angry/bitter, and will hopefully get over it. If she's not, she has a grudge for some reason, and, again, will hopefully get over it. I'm sure the doctor doesn't need this issue brought up, so drop it and hopefully everyone else will. Agreed, none of us care, about either of them. Its a bit scary that she claims to know so much about what he's doing, if she's stalking, she'll get hers as well. Who knows, one person could have placed almost all of these posts. Very few stand behind thier words on here or take any resposibility for thier words. Most are hopefully smart enough to realize that and pay no attention. No matter what, hahaha states he was dating a few weeks and married for a few weeks. Definitely long enough to get over whatever it is he did to him/her and get on with life.

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