CYS/Court Corruption - Support Group
butler

Butler, PA

#165 Mar 29, 2008
Poppy John wrote:
Butler, How did you finally get away from the abuser. My daughter is in a simular situation now. Her kids have been taken and are being adopted.I just don't understand why she stands by him and not by her children.
I just want to say to all the ladies out there, the first time a "man" puts you down, calls you names or even attempts to slap you. Dump him fast. You cannot change them or help them. They will only bring you alot of heartache. These men are bullies and the more power you give them the less you have. They are the ones with the problem not you.
We are raising a bunch of irresponsible men. Your new babies father should stand up to the plate, new wife or not.
I finally got away from him cause he went to jail for a crime.Please dont hold it against her.Being in a abusive relationship is very hard.She might not beable to get away from him.Also he also might have her brainwashed.My ex had me so brainwashed and threatened my family I was scared to leave.Try to talk to her and get her help.If that doesnt work just be there for her and make sure she knows she can come to you, otherwise she will never leave him if she thinks he is all she got. Trust me, I know it will be hard cause you are mad at her for being dumb but alot of abuser are very minipulating and she is either scared to leave him or he has her brainwashed.
butler

Butler, PA

#166 Mar 29, 2008
does anyone out there know where or who i should go to for help against cys and the judges.The judges are on cys side.So who do I go to then.How can cys tell you from the very beginning that you will not beable to get your child back.It is like they plan it.So is there a place out there that I can get help.
Poppy John

AOL

#167 Mar 30, 2008
Reliant,

Thanks so much for sharing your story. I'm so glad to hear a happy ending. I believe also what started out as a good thing for the protection of children really got screwed up somewhere, not only in our community but nation wide.I have meet some wonderful foster parents and I try to keep the thought that there still are good people out there. It's just so hard when you hear the terrible stories that we humans due to each other.Even on this forum we have name calling.We have all been involved with CYS just from a different prospective.


I believe children need a voice and we are their voices. We need to vote wisely. The Judges and CYS need to remember they work for us (the tax payers).

Does anyone think we will hear about the outcome of this investigation?

Since: Feb 08

Charleroi, PA

#168 Mar 31, 2008
Poppy John wrote:
Reliant,
Thanks so much for sharing your story. I'm so glad to hear a happy ending. I believe also what started out as a good thing for the protection of children really got screwed up somewhere, not only in our community but nation wide.I have meet some wonderful foster parents and I try to keep the thought that there still are good people out there. It's just so hard when you hear the terrible stories that we humans due to each other.Even on this forum we have name calling.We have all been involved with CYS just from a different prospective.
I believe children need a voice and we are their voices. We need to vote wisely. The Judges and CYS need to remember they work for us (the tax payers).
Does anyone think we will hear about the outcome of this investigation?
You are quite right about the voting, Poppy. Too many times people forget that these are trusted servants that work for us. I would expect word on the outcome of the investigation as they had it news of it in 3 of our local papers....
Poppy John

AOL

#169 Mar 31, 2008
Butler,

We have been praying for years that this man would go to jail. She could put him there but chooses not too. He has committed numerous offensives. Violated the PFA 4 times now yet he gets a slap on the wrisk.
She has been to counciling many times. She has lost her children and we have lost her and our grandchildren. I'm just waiting now for a call he has killed her. We have offered to move her and the kids out of state, so they would be safe. He has no money or a job. There is nothing he contributes to a relationship. I keep praying she will do the right thing before her parental rights are taken.

I'm mad because she is an adult she can choose to stay or leave,but she was responsible for the children she chose to bring in this world. How can you look in the eyes of a child and not want to protect them. I have tried to understand this, but even the experts I have talked to don't know why. They say some moms just don't have that mom instinct and you have it or you don't.
NameThatJudge

United States

#170 Apr 2, 2008
Poppy John wrote:
Butler,
We have been praying for years that this man would go to jail. She could put him there but chooses not too. He has committed numerous offensives. Violated the PFA 4 times now yet he gets a slap on the wrisk.
She has been to counciling many times. She has lost her children and we have lost her and our grandchildren. I'm just waiting now for a call he has killed her. We have offered to move her and the kids out of state, so they would be safe. He has no money or a job. There is nothing he contributes to a relationship. I keep praying she will do the right thing before her parental rights are taken.
I'm mad because she is an adult she can choose to stay or leave,but she was responsible for the children she chose to bring in this world. How can you look in the eyes of a child and not want to protect them. I have tried to understand this, but even the experts I have talked to don't know why. They say some moms just don't have that mom instinct and you have it or you don't.
Washington County will probably move to place the children with the abuser. They do it time after time after time. There is no place to go.
butler

Butler, PA

#171 Apr 3, 2008
i agree did she see him hit the kids? My problem is i never my hit touch my kids. That is he convinced me he didnt do anything.I do admit i was naive and dumb when it came to things.If i had seen him i would be in jail for killing him or attempted murder.
butler

Butler, PA

#172 Apr 3, 2008
also poppy have you trued getting the kids
Cafaily

AOL

#173 Apr 6, 2008
There is a CLass Action Lawsuit Being Put together by the ACLU but they have to have people call them right now. they need more people to call them .Contact them now so at last maybe CYS will be seen for what it is a Money making Machine.they care nothing about the Children or the Families the tear apart. also they say all the Children they take has Mental illness so they find Doctors that will go along with them in order to keep the children on meds so they will obey anything Caseworkers or bad Foster parents say . Help these Children and their parents get involved and join the Class action Call the ACLU Tell them you want to sue Washington County CYS.
Cafaily

AOL

#174 Apr 6, 2008
butler wrote:
does anyone out there know where or who i should go to for help against cys and the judges.The judges are on cys side.So who do I go to then.How can cys tell you from the very beginning that you will not beable to get your child back.It is like they plan it.So is there a place out there that I can get help.
Butler. Contact Sherry At [email protected] She has all her Children Back And She Did it Herself No Attorney .She Can Help You . she can even Show you how to sue Washington County CYS yourself.
Cafaily

AOL

#175 Apr 6, 2008
People wake up instead of letting these so called people keep your Children Get the Word out about the Class Action Lawsuit tell everyone you know we have the children to think of CYS has had my son for over seven years now and i will never give up or go away i will spend every pennie i have to keep sueing them until my son is home don't think you are alone there are many people here in Washington County that don't know about this group make flyers give them out when CYS takes your Child Or Children you can't believe it. or you trust them and do every thing they tell you to do and still don't give your Children Back . we have to speak for these children CYS and the courts are only making legal orphans out of our Children .Peace to all that is in the same pain i'am God is on our side CYS is Not GOD
Poppy John

AOL

#176 Apr 7, 2008
We tried getting the kids. We were not even given the respect of even a phone call that they were placed in foster care or as to why we could not have them.. We had no rights to visitation and then we found out they were placed with in their adopted homes, yet parental rights have not been taken yet. We've been told they can contact us at 18. Well the little one is not even a year old. Maybe we can have a reunion in the old age home. Of course why bother then we will be total strangers to them.

Cafaily, I hope some day your son knows how hard you fought for him. Children Need to know that they are wanted. Of course no one has even asked these children where they want to be.

I feel so bad for the future these children are facing. Our country is in a state of unGodly shape.
NameThatJudge

United States

#177 Apr 9, 2008
Cafaily wrote:
People wake up instead of letting these so called people keep your Children Get the Word out about the Class Action Lawsuit tell everyone you know we have the children to think of CYS has had my son for over seven years now and i will never give up or go away i will spend every pennie i have to keep sueing them until my son is home don't think you are alone there are many people here in Washington County that don't know about this group make flyers give them out when CYS takes your Child Or Children you can't believe it. or you trust them and do every thing they tell you to do and still don't give your Children Back . we have to speak for these children CYS and the courts are only making legal orphans out of our Children .Peace to all that is in the same pain i'am God is on our side CYS is Not GOD
Kindly post the information for joining the class action lawsuit. We have tried to get the ACLU to help us for two years. They told us that they would help, even told us that they were assigning an attorney to our case, then they do nothing. We were told two years ago that they were filing a class action lawsuit. That never happened. You call their office and get voice mail. They do not call you back. Faxes go unanswered. I see that the Director of CYF is leaving, finally. Who will they put in charge now?
brandi

Curwensville, PA

#178 Apr 9, 2008
Ive had my children removed from my home due to a dui thats it he is a brittle diabetic and is in care with his dads side of the family he has went threw abuse there and they are not managing his diabetes ive since then on my on completed everything that was asked and he is still in the system the fics staff believes he should be home with me and has told the caseworker the same ..i need some kind of number to call or something is life is in jepordy and I have called cys numberious times and no response back my sons health is deterating from this please some one help me before its to late for my son im in blair county if anyone has every got there children back please tell me how !!!he was not taking from me for neglet abuse being around the wrong ppl in the home only cuz i got a dui help me please a mother in need..[email protected]
jamie wolowski

Erie, PA

#179 Apr 10, 2008
i actually kno the lil girl that dis is about :( i lived wit her in foster care. her name is alicia. and i honestly dont believe it was her doing it, which is sad 2 say. i kno her parents, and they beat their kids severley and it is such a shame!:(
saraminks wrote:
TO Jessica from Pittsburg
What was a 2 year old who was doing the cruising thing doing close enough to a lite candle. Are you blaming her for not pulling her hand back fast enough. She would have not held her hand over a candle natural instinct would have had her pull it away.If she held it there then she should be check out for a medical condition. I,m sure there is alot more to this story. CYS does not take your child because you made a stupid mistake of having a lite candle where 2 yr old could get burnt.
jamie wolowski

Erie, PA

#180 Apr 10, 2008
i know the lil gurl that was about, the candle thing. its a shame to say but i believe her parents had a part in it cuz i kno them n they r horrible
NameThatJudge

United States

#181 Apr 11, 2008
Reliant wrote:
<quoted text>
Judge Mascara would be a good name to start with...
Did you read in the Observer Reporter that Judge Mascara had two significant threats against him during March 2008 and he now wears one of those beepers to page the deputy if something happens? Is anyone on this list associated with this stuff?
Cafaily

AOL

#182 Apr 12, 2008
Poppy John wrote:
We tried getting the kids. We were not even given the respect of even a phone call that they were placed in foster care or as to why we could not have them.. We had no rights to visitation and then we found out they were placed with in their adopted homes, yet parental rights have not been taken yet. We've been told they can contact us at 18. Well the little one is not even a year old. Maybe we can have a reunion in the old age home. Of course why bother then we will be total strangers to them.
Cafaily, I hope some day your son knows how hard you fought for him. Children Need to know that they are wanted. Of course no one has even asked these children where they want to be.
I feel so bad for the future these children are facing. Our country is in a state of unGodly shape.
Thank you Poppy John i Pray for all our children to be home soon. God Bless
Cafaily

AOL

#183 Apr 12, 2008
butler wrote:
does anyone out there know where or who i should go to for help against cys and the judges.The judges are on cys side.So who do I go to then.How can cys tell you from the very beginning that you will not beable to get your child back.It is like they plan it.So is there a place out there that I can get help.
Contact Sherry from Families United [email protected] the only thing we can do is sue and write letters Sherry has all six Children home and she has done almost all of it by her self
Cafaily

AOL

#184 Apr 12, 2008
NameThatJudge wrote:
<quoted text>
Kindly post the information for joining the class action lawsuit. We have tried to get the ACLU to help us for two years. They told us that they would help, even told us that they were assigning an attorney to our case, then they do nothing. We were told two years ago that they were filing a class action lawsuit. That never happened. You call their office and get voice mail. They do not call you back. Faxes go unanswered. I see that the Director of CYF is leaving, finally. Who will they put in charge now?
Contact Sherry from Families United at [email protected] she knows what is going on with the lawsuit.

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