Parental alienation, Father's rights in our court system, Child safety

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Concerned

South Bend, IN

#1 May 8, 2013
What is wrong with our justice system when children are continually placed back into peril at the hands of an abusive parent. What makes a mother a better parent than the father? In many child custody cases the same scenario plays out every time. A mother wants to remove the child or children from ever having contact with the father. Is there something wrong with the father? Well no, other than the mother wants him to disappear. The fight is not about the safety of the children but about the mothers hatred toward the father. Mom is allowed over and over again in our court systems to falsely accuse the father of every heinous act imaginable. It costs the fathers thousands of dollars to fight false accusations. It costs the taxpayers our hard earned money for law enforcement to investigate false accusations. The parental alienation created by the mother toward the father causes irreversible harm to the children. Is the child's welfare not important? Is parental alienation not child abuse? Why is our court system allowing this to happen? Why are these mothers not found in contempt of court when they are over and over again. Why are they not punished? If the fathers filed false reports they would be fined and convicted. So why is a mother allowed to get away with it? If these mothers were found in contempt of court, just maybe it would send a message to the rest of the false accusers and system abusers. These court actions are the bread and butter of many attorneys. They love the litigation and their families can afford the best of everything at the expense of the children in the middle of the litigation. Who blocks legislation for fathers rights in this country? The attorneys making a living off of our children. Our system calls this justice while these children still suffer. Child Protective Services tries to help but yet the court still returns these kids to the abusive mothers. What happens if the father is young and does not have thousands of dollars for attorney fees? He has no recourse other than to walk away. Then he is labeled, usually by the mother, as a deadbeat dad even though he still may pay child support. There is no justice for these children or the alienated parent. Parental alienation is Child Abuse! If a mother is alienating a child from their father, there are also other mental abuses toward the child going on at the hands of the mother. What happens to these children? They grow up to be dysfunctional and self destructive as taught be their abusive parent. Then society asks why.
No Justice for these children
Good Dad

United States

#2 May 9, 2013
I agree 100% Something has to be done. My ex wife didnt get too dirty but it was an uphill battle as a man to get anything done in the court system. I go in the prosecuting attorneys office to ask for anything and Im automatically treated like a dead beat. There couldnt possibly be good dads in kosciusko county so we get treated like we are trying to get out of something even when we follow the letter of the law. Im tired of being treated this way!I pay my child support and I see my children regularly.
Lawyers for Dads

Blue Island, IL

#3 May 10, 2013
I agree with Concerned and Good Dad 1000%! Parental alienation is a terrible scourge in American society that transforms innocent children into adults who despise BOTH parents, who don't trust anyone,can't form healthy intimate relationships, and can't even hold down jobs. At the Law Offices of Jeffery M. Leving, Ltd., we fight this scourge, and gender bias against men, every day. Do not give up hope, because you are not alone. Our lawyers have been fighting for father's and children's rights in courtrooms all across the country for 30 years. We will keep fighting until ALL fathers are treated equally by the system and ALL children are spared the trauma of parental alienation.
Concerned

South Bend, IN

#4 Jul 18, 2013
And again the courts fail to protect the child. It is sickening. You would think the author of this blog is a father. This author is a female victim of the same abuse as a child. I do consider it child abuse, because it is. Alienation from a parent is the worse form of child abuse. No one protected me any more than our courts are protecting our children of this generation. My message to the mothers that force these children to lie is your kids that you have so manipulated will HATE you in the end. Once they can think for themselves and figure out what you are and what you have done, they will absolutely hate you. The alienated parent suffers but the child suffers the most.
The court may do nothing to protect these kids but take my word for it mom's, you will be judged in the end when you feel the hatred toward you from your children you worked so hard to manipulate and keep all to yourself. And trust me, it will happen.
good dad

United States

#5 Aug 5, 2013
You are right concerned.I couldnt have said it better!

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