married women needing sex outside the marriage

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Feb 10, 2011
 
You love your husband but it just isnt there?
Do you think that having a sexual affair on a reg, basics would help keep your narriage together,
Men I want you imput to if the shoe was on the other foot so to speak.
no such luck

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My best advice for anyone is to get used to what you have.If someone done it for you once and your needs have now changed,that's life!You work with your spouse to create an environment that is satisfying for both,even if it hurts feelings or causes some embarrassment.It says in your marital vows to love and honor.I speak from experience,my screwing around cost me my children,my home,my wife and believe it or not?It is just a little more painful to face up to everything you have done when you find out just how many people actually know the who,what,when and where of your past time.This is coming from a man who has came back from a homeless,broke,10 year horrible experience.
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Feb 10, 2011
 
I have been on the giving end and the receiving end and I have to say that when I was singlw I had a few married women that I saw, I enjoyed them alot! They did not want to leave their husbands they on;y wanted help in the area they needed help in and that helped them stay married.
Some of these relationships lasted for years. Would do it again.
dont do it

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Feb 11, 2011
 

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All i can say is WOW!!!!! I cant believe someone would put such a topic on here. If you are not sexually attracted to your husband and you are thinking of an affair you need to get out of the marriage right NOW. If you are not happy where you are then you are cheating yourself and your spouse out of happiness. Having sex outside the marriage is the ultimate CHEAT to me and it doesnt matter if it means something or not. This is Martin Co and I promise you will get caught there are no secretes here in the place. So if you do it you better make sure its what you want and make sure it is worth losing everything over. Just my opinion.
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Feb 11, 2011
 

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be there done it liked it.
Brookie

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There isno excuse for sex outside the marriage. If you are not satified then you and your husband need to talk about it after all he should be your best friend. When you love someone you would never do anything to hurt them and everyone else that is involved in the situation. I have been with the same man for 39 years and neither one of us has ever wanted to cheat because we are deeply in love, you see we still hold hands, send text to each other, kiss all the time and we are deleriously happy. Try to think how you would feel if someone suddenly destroyed all your dreams it would hurt.
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Feb 11, 2011
 
Brookie wrote:
There isno excuse for sex outside the marriage. If you are not satified then you and your husband need to talk about it after all he should be your best friend. When you love someone you would never do anything to hurt them and everyone else that is involved in the situation. I have been with the same man for 39 years and neither one of us has ever wanted to cheat because we are deeply in love, you see we still hold hands, send text to each other, kiss all the time and we are deleriously happy. Try to think how you would feel if someone suddenly destroyed all your dreams it would hurt.
Thats all gone, not the same boat I'm happy for youy though
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Feb 19, 2011
 
wondering wrote:
You love your husband but it just isnt there?
Do you think that having a sexual affair on a reg, basics would help keep your narriage together,
Men I want you imput to if the shoe was on the other foot so to speak.
does hubby know how u feel? i'd be willing to help out, serously!
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well just to let you no if u r cheating on your man u dont luv him and u should tell him because if he finds out and he will if not already i pitty u
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Feb 23, 2011
 
no such luck wrote:
My best advice for anyone is to get used to what you have.If someone done it for you once and your needs have now changed,that's life!You work with your spouse to create an environment that is satisfying for both,even if it hurts feelings or causes some embarrassment.It says in your marital vows to love and honor.I speak from experience,my screwing around cost me my children,my home,my wife and believe it or not?It is just a little more painful to face up to everything you have done when you find out just how many people actually know the who,what,when and where of your past time.This is coming from a man who has came back from a homeless,broke,10 year horrible experience.
so sad i wish you luck!
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I am married and am having an affair. I find it keeps me sane and my lover treats me like a goddess. I have never been so sexually satisfied and I know my secret friend loves the things this "Married women" does just for him.
As long as it is discreet and careful no one is hurt and my sex life is through the roof.

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Jul 11, 2012
 
marta sanchez wrote:
I am married and am having an affair. I find it keeps me sane and my lover treats me like a goddess. I have never been so sexually satisfied and I know my secret friend loves the things this "Married women" does just for him.
As long as it is discreet and careful no one is hurt and my sex life is through the roof.
Is there room for one more
Gary

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wondering wrote:
You love your husband but it just isnt there?
Do you think that having a sexual affair on a reg, basics would help keep your narriage together,
Men I want you imput to if the shoe was on the other foot so to speak.
Yes it does work sometimes, I have been there. The one thing to remember is that the reason you are doing it and making sure the other person understands that.

The next thing is the person you choose....can they keep their mouth closed about it.
I have seen married women in the past and it was a great time for us both, but you can never tell noone, and i mean never. One woman said she loved her husband and would never think of getting a divorce and didnt want one. That was the type of woman I was looking for too. i didn't want the commentment nor the baggage (for lack of a better word) we kept our relationship quite and enjoyed eachothers company for years and evryone was happy.

Their marriage is fine till this day. So if you other people have such a problem with this or have never been there then don't post on this. This is someone that is thinking about it but for the right reasons.

You can be a greaqt spouse but come on lets face it when one wants sex and isn't getting it...well it ruins everything else. If they find a way to have that and continue their other life.There is no harm done, what you don't know can't hurt you.

I say do it and enjoy it, make sure the other person is COMPLETELY trusting in the deal.
Just don't get serious with them, know what you are there for.
Friends with benifits ...yeah you can call it that.

Be good and stay safe. You wanted opinions well there is mine.
And I know what it is like to be in a relationship without the sex part...it sucks and will keep sucking till you fix it.

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Jul 16, 2012
 
looking for the lady that goes by "goodcountry" I think shes around 31yrs old
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If a woman is married or a man is married and they feel the need to go outside the marriage to find what they are missing then they sure as hell arent in love.. I would never even think about cheating on my man no matter how bad things got because I love him.....If your not happy then divorce him and go have your fun
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hillbillie girl wrote:
If a woman is married or a man is married and they feel the need to go outside the marriage to find what they are missing then they sure as hell arent in love.. I would never even think about cheating on my man no matter how bad things got because I love him.....If your not happy then divorce him and go have your fun
Love and sex are two different things, you can love someone and not ever had sex with them and you can have sex with someone that you dont love.
Sometimes you are lucky to find both and it remains but remember it takes two to make it work, one can mess it up. Then what ? got the picture ?

I do have sex outside my marriage and my marriage is great now. I dont want to leave my husband, I have put in to many years.
I do not want to be in a sexless marriage so I found someone that takes care of that for me.
I'm happy !!!

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Jul 17, 2012
 
Karen wrote:
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Love and sex are two different things, you can love someone and not ever had sex with them and you can have sex with someone that you dont love.
Sometimes you are lucky to find both and it remains but remember it takes two to make it work, one can mess it up. Then what ? got the picture ?
I do have sex outside my marriage and my marriage is great now. I dont want to leave my husband, I have put in to many years.
I do not want to be in a sexless marriage so I found someone that takes care of that for me.
I'm happy !!!
Well Karen I'm in the same boat. I love my wife more than anything, but the sex life has stopped. I have been trying to find the right lady friend for over a yr now, but no luck. I think I'm to picking, but pretty, medium size or small, and clean is a must and drug free. If you know of anyone that might be interested please let me know.
Phil

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Jul 19, 2012
 
wondering wrote:
You love your husband but it just isnt there?
Do you think that having a sexual affair on a reg, basics would help keep your narriage together,
Men I want you imput to if the shoe was on the other foot so to speak.
This is why I encourage my wife to have flings. She has my blessing. Because she is the breadwinner and welove our life but she just needs other men to keep her satisfied. It doesn't bother me and sometimes I even join in. Nothing like two couples sharing each other. VERY EXCITING!! wORKS FOR US!!
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you people are sick. affairs ruin lifes and damage children. if you are in a bad marriage get out. what is a few minutes in bed. would you want your child to know? and you are being used. control your lust or have the decency to get a divorce. it will hurt your partner less than finding out your affair. everyone having an affair needs to get away from that person dont have any contact with them run from them. go find a single person there are plenty out there. and remember if a person cheats on their spouse they will cheat on you.
Gary

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Jul 20, 2012
 
look wrote:
you people are sick. affairs ruin lifes and damage children. if you are in a bad marriage get out. what is a few minutes in bed. would you want your child to know? and you are being used. control your lust or have the decency to get a divorce. it will hurt your partner less than finding out your affair. everyone having an affair needs to get away from that person dont have any contact with them run from them. go find a single person there are plenty out there. and remember if a person cheats on their spouse they will cheat on you.
First of all nothing will scar your children worse than a DIVORCE !!!
Secound is that the people that do these things doesn't have a bad marriage...read up ! They only lack this one thing in their relationship. If it works for the woman that started this thread or anyone else it is their business and it is ok to be their business, they are not sick...just diffent than you.

I have been or had relationships with married women who would surprise you who they are. I have also had swing flings with a few ex-girlfriends in the past, it was a fun time and WE BOTH enjoyed it.
We didn't have to worry about the other cheating cause we both were there. But when you are married and in need of the sex part and aren't getting it at home, then find a place where you can get it and go back home to your spouse and be happy for the rest of the day.
There is no commentment to be with the person you had sex with and their is no reason to split up with your spouse.
Win win !

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