Bremen man pleads guilty to rape of M...

Bremen man pleads guilty to rape of MR/DD client

There are 9 comments on the The Daily Standard story from Feb 21, 2007, titled Bremen man pleads guilty to rape of MR/DD client. In it, The Daily Standard reports that:

A New Bremen man pleaded guilty Tuesday to raping and sexually molesting a mentally-impaired woman he was employed to supervise. via The Daily Standard

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MKTP

Aiken, SC

#1 May 6, 2007
This man is nothing but trash, and so is any woman who would stay with him after he admits to something like this. Ive heard that he took the plea deal because "he knew he was going to be found guilty either way". An innocent person would have no worries since without hard evidence there is no proof. He's trash, a despicable person, and his children, in my opinion, should be in foster care to protect them against not only him but the environment that would support such a person.
advocate

Fishers, IN

#2 May 10, 2007
Who are you to say that the children of someone you've never met are better off with complete and total strangers? Who are you to say that the woman who stays with this man is not a completely wonderful capable mother ? Who are you to say these things of people you've never met, and if you have met them, you're a coward for not saying them to their face.
anonymous but loving

Columbus, IN

#3 May 10, 2007
I say why is it anyone's business? This world is so hung up on talebearing and gossip. Why don't you just all grow up mind your own business and let people deal with the garbage life deals to them on their own. Who wanted your nasty opinion anyway?
laughing at stupidity

Celina, OH

#4 May 10, 2007
MKTP wrote:
This man is nothing but trash, and so is any woman who would stay with him after he admits to something like this. Ive heard that he took the plea deal because "he knew he was going to be found guilty either way". An innocent person would have no worries since without hard evidence there is no proof. He's trash, a despicable person, and his children, in my opinion, should be in foster care to protect them against not only him but the environment that would support such a person.
So I find this very funny. That someone who doesn't know the people involved could be so condescending about this. That doesn't know what went on in court besides what is printed in the papers. But people believe what they are told. And of course only the truth and nothing but the whole truth is told in the papers and on the news. But we can't all be as smart as the person who wrote this first bit of insightful words.

As to his wife staying beside him? Till death do us part I think are the words... through better and through worse.... something like that? And love pulls through anything. If it is truely love. Even if this guy did do those things, he is still her husband.

And lastly to his children. They are his children. Not someone else's children. His. And he was not beating them or sexually molesting them. He was not mistreating them in any way from what I understand. And I understand a good deal. Their father is being locked away for a good portion of their childhood. And what do you want? To take them away from their mother too. Have you ever looked into foster homes? Did you know that there are foster parents who would bring those children up much worse? Did you know that a mother's love is a lot better than someone who is simply taking care of them? A bond in forged when you give birth to a child. And both parties involved feel it. Did you know that? You probably didn't. I would have guessed a person of your supreme intelligence would have... I guess we can all be wrong sometimes...
Just passing through

Columbus, OH

#5 May 11, 2007
Interesting how the first poster seems to think that the actions of one person reflect on the people who love him.

I wonder how many people that poster has rejected from his life, without a second chance, without asking them the reasons and giving them a chance to explain? I wonder just how lonely that poster is, and how afraid they are of being betrayed?

Love is something that cannot be explained, and those who have it are not "trash", they are blessed.
keep walking

Aiken, SC

#6 May 18, 2007
Well according to other articles, he tested positive for a "trace" of marijuana when he first applied for the job and also blamed his crime on his rocky relationship with his wife.
What a winner.
What a shame

United States

#7 Dec 25, 2008
Wow. You guys cannot be serious. What second chance should he be given? He raped a defenseless person and not just once. He is an animal. He needs to be kept away from anything defenseless and that includes his children. He is trash that I 100% agree with. Hopefully he will have a lot of time to think about the horrible thing he did and come out a changed person. I feel so sorry for the victim and her family. I cannot even begin to imagine how they will cope with a special needs family member who constantly needs care but they cannot even trust the caregiver. Sad.
Local Girl

Wapakoneta, OH

#8 Aug 10, 2010
Really? You all would allow children to be parented by someone who raped a defenseless person? What if it was your child? I'm kind of baffled...the words the original poster used were strong and I'll give you that, but I'm not sure he was off track. I can't imagine my children, or my neices and nephews, or the children I love being alone in a home with a rapist. Giving them a bath, tucking them into bed, all the intimate things that a parent does for a child. How long do you really think he'll spend in jail? No one serves as long as they're supposed to...common sense. So sad, for the family, for the victim, for the victims family. Sad.
please

Powell, OH

#9 Aug 18, 2010
laughing at stupidity wrote:
<quoted text>
So I find this very funny. That someone who doesn't know the people involved could be so condescending about this. That doesn't know what went on in court besides what is printed in the papers. But people believe what they are told. And of course only the truth and nothing but the whole truth is told in the papers and on the news. But we can't all be as smart as the person who wrote this first bit of insightful words.
As to his wife staying beside him? Till death do us part I think are the words... through better and through worse.... something like that? And love pulls through anything. If it is truely love. Even if this guy did do those things, he is still her husband.
And lastly to his children. They are his children. Not someone else's children. His. And he was not beating them or sexually molesting them. He was not mistreating them in any way from what I understand. And I understand a good deal. Their father is being locked away for a good portion of their childhood. And what do you want? To take them away from their mother too. Have you ever looked into foster homes? Did you know that there are foster parents who would bring those children up much worse? Did you know that a mother's love is a lot better than someone who is simply taking care of them? A bond in forged when you give birth to a child. And both parties involved feel it. Did you know that? You probably didn't. I would have guessed a person of your supreme intelligence would have... I guess we can all be wrong sometimes...
im not saying that these children should be taken away from there mother,what i have to say has nothing to do with this forum topic. but i have to comment on your response that a mother giving birth has a stronger bond than anyone else. this is utter crap! i have two adopted sisters who have been raised by my family as our own since they were 1 and 4 years old. their mother was a drug addict who let them be abused and worse. your going to tell me that just because that woman bears the title of "mother" that she has a stronger bond with those girls than my family?? and a second example, my step son has been living full time with me for more than half of his life. his mother is also a drug addict that lets God know what happen while he has visitation with her. yes she will always have the title "mother" but i have been more of a mom to him than that woman will ever be. i love him as my own and would do anything for him. so before you say things that offend people who are really in situations like this, take some of your own advice and dont! unless you have lived these situations and can talk from personal experience.

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