drugs or divorce
wat the hell

Jeffersonville, IN

#1 Jan 17, 2013
I'm being kept at home cause I'm was on drugs only leaving with family if I do get to leave
My daughter needed me to bring her something to school that she needed so I take my other daughters car to do that since husband disabled my car ok so I go later on I tell him wat I did he gets mad and wants a drug test I feel that he is never going to get that I'm trying to change and I told the truth now he wants a divorce or piss but every time I leave my house without him he wants a drug test and I'm tired of his power trips if I give in he knows he can control me and if I don't he makes my life hell even if I give in he makes my so called life hell so it's like damed if I do and the same if I don't
How do I get out of this mess any ideas

Since: Aug 12

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#2 Jan 17, 2013
wat the hell wrote:
I'm being kept at home cause I'm was on drugs only leaving with family if I do get to leave
My daughter needed me to bring her something to school that she needed so I take my other daughters car to do that since husband disabled my car ok so I go later on I tell him wat I did he gets mad and wants a drug test I feel that he is never going to get that I'm trying to change and I told the truth now he wants a divorce or piss but every time I leave my house without him he wants a drug test and I'm tired of his power trips if I give in he knows he can control me and if I don't he makes my life hell even if I give in he makes my so called life hell so it's like damed if I do and the same if I don't
How do I get out of this mess any ideas
Well I've been on his side of this situation, and while he may be going about it the wrong way, you broke his trust by doing drugs, which is hard to get back. Honestly, if you still love him, just do what he asks for now because you really have no room to be angry. If things don't get better after a while, then maybe consider divorce, but you shouldn't make rash decisions right now when you don't really have room to.
curious

Tucker, GA

#3 Jan 17, 2013
Is he a good man do you love him is he worth it?
wat the hell

Jeffersonville, IN

#4 Jan 17, 2013
I love him he is a good man but for someone who hasn't done wrong we both have twenty yrs of fighting and arguing it just feels like no matter wat we can't get passed this

Since: Aug 12

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#5 Jan 17, 2013
wat the hell wrote:
I love him he is a good man but for someone who hasn't done wrong we both have twenty yrs of fighting and arguing it just feels like no matter wat we can't get passed this
If that's the way you feel then maybe divorce is the right decision, but I just hate to see a marriage involving children to split up. If I were you, I would give it my all before I called it quits, but it's not just up to you. He has to put effort into it as well. Love is hard and a two way street, and if he's not willing to put in the effort, that's when I would call it quits.
oh my my

Jeffersonville, IN

#6 Jan 17, 2013
I took the test and passed it he's now worried bout next time like I said ain't no pleasing him so now wat wat to do

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