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smh

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#21
Aug 4, 2012
 
Well now..I never called you that name now did I? Just tried to be nice and say I was sorry to you..but I did have a few questions about it all. And I'm sorry also that I will never post my name on this site. I'm not stupid honey, look what's being done to you. I thought maybe you could have a mature conversation but I guess not. Please, continnue on with your vulgar behavior. You have no idea, but I could have been a great help to you if you could have just been respectful and honest with me. Let's just say I have a lot of conections and power in situations that could concern you but...you blew that chance of help with your vulgar mouth and small mind. Good luck in getting your child back and in raising the one your pregnant with. You'll need it!
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#22
Aug 4, 2012
 
This is terrible ... You all are attacking here one by one. She did lose her daughter and that's the worst thing that could happen to a mother.. She made bad choices then.. Now she is making up for that. And in the end if she is doing the right thing.. For her and her babies... They will love her no matter what.. No matter if she did mess up once. Who are you guys to judge anyone, the man up stairs the only judge. Bashing her makes u just as bad, and that's what this world is coming to. Help
Heather is she needs help, don't bring her down. Have some compassion.. Be woman enough to help her. She may not know you are, but god does. And like I said that's all that matters. Heather get your baby back and be the best mon out there.. Prove all these people wrong. They don't know what's inside your heart. God bless(:
HEATHER HOBSON

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#23
Aug 6, 2012
 
I will explain to you how, I had a friend (or thought was a friend) that was staying with my for a little while & i trusted her (or i thought i could)! Well,that night lilly &I went 2 bed, before i went to bed her boyfriend was there and i asked him to leave around 12Well later that night i got woke up by my bed room door coming open and i thought it was her coming in& when i raised up, there was two police officer standing there, they asked me to go to the living room,when i turned the corner to enter the living room, there sat brandi, her boyfriend and about 6 other guys, at that point i was confused and mad Well,...i asked the cops what was going on, and he said that they were doing there normal nightly walk around, and one of the people had my living room window open & they were taking turns smoking marjuania out the window and the cops had noticed it, when they came in, they asked what was going on, and who's apartment it was, and that's the reason they came and got me up was because brandi told them it was my apartment! Even though every person that was there said i had no idea, and even the cops said there self that they got me out of bed and i had no idea what was going on, the apartment was in my name and i was reliable for it, so i also got took to jail and my child was taken away from me. Was that fair to me? NO! but i guess i learn the hardest way you ever could learn that you can not be friends with anyone and you can NEVER trust anybody.....I did not loose my child because im a bad mom, or i was doing drugs, or anything such as that. Because I am not a bad mom, im far from it, i took care of my daughter from day one by myself.Yes, i lost my child, but if i was a bad mom do you think for one second that i would be fighting to get her back, that i would be attending the things they have me to do? NO, i wouldnt. But guess what? i am. I struggle to get to them classe and such, because i dont have a vechile of my own, but i make sure i get there one way or another because thats how much i love my daughter. Well, that's good your going to college to become a social worker, they need more people like you out there, to help this place, maybe to take away the kids that actually need to be. It just makes me mad, that im a good mother, and DO NOT DO DRUGS, but there is these mothers out here, that drink and do drugs around there kids 24/7, and fail to be able to take care of them as well as they should but still yet they have there children. But as for the drug testing, i have took three in total, I took one the day after my arrest and it come back clean and then ive been drug tested twice at ASAP drug testing, once for my own case and i passed that and once for my x boyfriends case, because i was living with him at that time, and he had just got custody of his kids from there mother, so there social worker asked me to take a drug test and i did!I dont do drugs, and i never have, and i never will. That's not my thing.Yes, i did take up for myself when i was called a rat,and i also took up for my self as being called a whore, and a bad mom. Cause all three of those im far from. The only thing that has been true that has been said about me, is loosing my child, thats it! the rest have all been just bull crap statments made about me, i guess from people that feel bad about there self and try and drag people down with them, but there not going to do that to me. Im better than them. I just wish these people would get there facts straight before trying to state things.I just feel sorry for them because they have nothing better to do than get on here and say false things behind a computer screen to make them feel better about there selfs.no matter what they say from this point on im not responding b/c i know who i am,and so does my friends & family, and the most important person and thats god.Im done here. So from this point on say whatever you would like.
HEATHER HOBSON

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Aug 6, 2012
 
Onlygodknows wrote:
This is terrible ... You all are attacking here one by one. She did lose her daughter and that's the worst thing that could happen to a mother.. She made bad choices then.. Now she is making up for that. And in the end if she is doing the right thing.. For her and her babies... They will love her no matter what.. No matter if she did mess up once. Who are you guys to judge anyone, the man up stairs the only judge. Bashing her makes u just as bad, and that's what this world is coming to. Help
Heather is she needs help, don't bring her down. Have some compassion.. Be woman enough to help her. She may not know you are, but god does. And like I said that's all that matters. Heather get your baby back and be the best mon out there.. Prove all these people wrong. They don't know what's inside your heart. God bless(:
Thank you soo much! seriously, i appreciate this more than ever. What they don't understand is i'm being women enough to stand up & say YES I LOST MY CHILD, i made my mistake, but i have learned the hardest way possible & im doing everything i can to get my daughter back. No one understands how it feels to have your child took away from you, im punished every day of my life cause i dont have my baby here with me. Im not a bad mom, and i wish people would stop saying i was just bc i lost her, i know it looks bad, but it wasnt like it was my fault or because im on drugs or some sort. If i was a bad mom like you all talk then i wouldnt be spending my time to get her back, but all my time goes to her. & your right ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE ME! I have did and completed everything i was suppose to , for all these ppl that love to be in my business, well here it is, i go back to court october the 16th and thats the day i get her back,.....so i will prove you each and everyone wrong. I will have my daughter back, and thats a promise. I'm a great mother , i just made a mistake, ive learnt from it in the hardest way & punish every day for it. Ill pray for each and every one of you cause you do need it, i might have said bad thing on here but i shouldn't have i just let you guys get me worked up and mad and lowered myself and i apologize for that. But im done here. Say w/e you would like,..and whoever you are THANK YOU & god bless you.
smh

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#25
Aug 6, 2012
 
I mean this 100% when I say it..I'm proud of you! Now that you have explained what happened I know your not lying because if a situation like that were to happen the child would be removed and the mother made to take drug test, ect. You are one of the many that made a simple mistake and the systems punishment was greater than the crime. Its not common, but it does occur. And its sad that it does because not only you are being punished but also your child is. Oits a very sad situation, but I'm glad you can admit to your mistake..of trusting an untrustworthy person..but I hope your "friend" admits to what she did to you and your daughter.

And if this is the reason they are calling you a bad mother I hope that they know who they are trusting. One day the shoe could be on the other foot and their friend, uncle, brother or sister could put them in this same situation. Don't worry what people say, focas on getting your baby back. Good luck and keep your head up!
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Aug 6, 2012
 
smh wrote:
I mean this 100% when I say it..I'm proud of you! Now that you have explained what happened I know your not lying because if a situation like that were to happen the child would be removed and the mother made to take drug test, ect. You are one of the many that made a simple mistake and the systems punishment was greater than the crime. Its not common, but it does occur. And its sad that it does because not only you are being punished but also your child is. Oits a very sad situation, but I'm glad you can admit to your mistake..of trusting an untrustworthy person..but I hope your "friend" admits to what she did to you and your daughter.
And if this is the reason they are calling you a bad mother I hope that they know who they are trusting. One day the shoe could be on the other foot and their friend, uncle, brother or sister could put them in this same situation. Don't worry what people say, focas on getting your baby back. Good luck and keep your head up!
LMAO You dont beleave this shit do you.They dont take a kid if your a good mother.
HEATHER HOBSON

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Aug 6, 2012
 

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smh wrote:
I mean this 100% when I say it..I'm proud of you! Now that you have explained what happened I know your not lying because if a situation like that were to happen the child would be removed and the mother made to take drug test, ect. You are one of the many that made a simple mistake and the systems punishment was greater than the crime. Its not common, but it does occur. And its sad that it does because not only you are being punished but also your child is. Oits a very sad situation, but I'm glad you can admit to your mistake..of trusting an untrustworthy person..but I hope your "friend" admits to what she did to you and your daughter.
And if this is the reason they are calling you a bad mother I hope that they know who they are trusting. One day the shoe could be on the other foot and their friend, uncle, brother or sister could put them in this same situation. Don't worry what people say, focas on getting your baby back. Good luck and keep your head up!
THANK YOU SOOO MUCH!
I had to learn the hardest way possible that you can not be friends with just anyone, or trust anyone know days. That "friend" will not talk to me or even knowledge me, i've tryed to get into contact with her to ask her a few questions but she knows what she has done, and that now none of them are punishing that my daughter & me are. The ones that got arrested that night, stayed one night & was out the next morning, they punished just for that short time, but me i was in there for 3 days waiting on social workers and now i dot have my child, so not only did i punish 3 days in jail, i punish each and everyday because i do not have my daughter with me! What people don't understand is, that because the apartment was in my name, i was liable for it. I have all the papers from court, police statments, and teh drug testing papers and any one is more than welcome to see them, idc! I have nothing to hide. I am a good mom, and i punish everyday for the mistake of someone else while they enjoy there lifes day 2 day. But karma will bite them in the butt hard, it will play its role on them. I appreciate you alot. But i'm fighting for my child back, im did everything & my soical worker said that if i keep not missing anything that OCT16 ill have her back! She is my world, and all my time goes to her. I wish ppl would also take a step back and realize if i was a bad mom i wouldn't be doing everything i can to get her back. But i dont have time for them type of negative people anymore, i will let say all they want, only god can judge me. I have no reason to respond to there false statements anymore & lower myself to there level. But im more than happy to reply to people like you, thank you so much.
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Aug 7, 2012
 

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I have been watching this forum these past few days, and I have reached my breaking point. Yes, heather lost her child due to the bad people in her life. But you also have to look, she should have never let every tom, dick, and harry into that babys life. Heather has never held down a stable job and her 20 some years old. That is ridiculous. Living off of the government, and having everything handed to her is the only reason she kept Lilly as long as she did. She never had a stable home either. That poor baby was strung from one place to another her first year and half of her life. Having Lilly placed with the family she is with now, is the best thing that has ever happened in her life. WE ALL KNOW THAT! She gets everything she ever wants and needs. She is so happy, and always has that smile on her face. I have a question for all of you…can Heather give Lilly all of these things on her own? Can she make Lilly happier than she is now? Would she have a stable home to live in ( not counting on heather grandmother for everything?) I DON’T THINK SO!!! I don’t want to start anything more on here, but the main question behind everything here is..”what is best for Lilly?” NOT “what is going to make heather look good in the end” I’m pretty sure the child would be much happier if she stays where she is at. STABILITY is a major role in a child’s life. So Heather, why won’t you just let the family that has custody of her right now raise her, and raise her right and happy, and you try raising your next baby on your own. Do you not want her to be happy? Do you? You can say that you can make her happy all you want, but nothing like the family she is with can. AND YOU KNOW THAT! Why haven’t you tried getting a job during this past year while everything has been going on? It just doesn’t make sense! I am done ranting here. Hopefully Heather can make the right decision that is right for her child. Best of luck. Take care.
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Aug 7, 2012
 

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Good God, why do you think people across America think Hillbilly's are STUPID? You idiots make it happen!!!
HEATHER HOBSON

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#30
Sep 1, 2012
 
get a life,....mind your own business.
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Sep 2, 2012
 

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I think she is super nice and seems to care a lot about her kid(s). Every person makes mistakes...especially young mothers. Why not help her up instead of pushing her down? Just a thought....
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#32
Sep 30, 2012
 
HAHA! see, that's what I thought. Even you know what is best the child. You just don't want to admit it.

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Sep 30, 2012
 
I love how her occupation on Facebook is "BEING A MOTHER"

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Sep 30, 2012
 
"BEING A MOMMY" I meant
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#35
Oct 1, 2012
 
pauls occupation is being a drug dealer. or letting drug dealers live at his house like merle adkins
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Thought you were getting your child back? HAHA Thank god that didn't happen. She seems happier than ever.
heather hobson

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#37
Jul 8, 2013
 
Please just stop,.....thanks to the ones that took up for me, I greatly appreciate it
To the rest make your assumptions and set behind your computer and run your mouth because we all know you want say a word to my face like this nor tell me who you really are. So I will not waste my time on little immature scared over grown kids like yourself.....worry about your life, not mine!
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#38
Jul 26, 2013
 
My question is are both these kids WELFARE babies. Who is paying for you to have kids and providing what your kids need. If so, PLEASE get fixed so we don't have to support any more of your kids....
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#39
Nov 7, 2013
 
where is your drug dealing buddy Kendra laying at these days
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#40
Nov 7, 2013
 
Is this young lady the daughter of Vickie and Paul ?

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