teenage pregnancies
menotu

Vine Grove, KY

#84 Dec 18, 2010
look it up wrote:
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a bastard is a bastard. unmarried parents. that's the damned definition. you don't have to like it, but you can't change it cause you don't like it. if you don't want a bastard, marry. divorce later. sorry. just following the rules of the civilized.
We u may be right, but that doesnt mean we have to call ppl that! my sister is a mother of two boys and regardless of the fact that they are not married, that doesnt mean that you have to downgrade the children.. its not their fault that there parents didnt get married, so dont take it out on the kid, and if that is the fact, then think of how many "bastards" there are in the world. ppl place to much blame on children anymore and its not right to call them onn wat there parents did. sit down and look up how the ratio of how many ppl have children out of wedlock vs the ones that did. If they had sex outta wedlock, then thats there issue, and if ppl are worried about the sin factor of not being married and having a kid, the sin factor is ignored, so its the parents choice and we should call ppl names for stupid ignorant reasons. ppl just call children bastards becus it is a easy and ignorant slur. the easy way to pick on them.
Wrap your tool

Quitman, AR

#85 Dec 18, 2010
i know wrote:
<quoted text>How old were you when you lost your virginity? I would be willing to be it didn't happen on your wedding night.
Your right I didn't lose my virginity on my wedding night. I wasn't trying to save myself. As a guy most men don't want to stay a virgin. I can't speak for women. I know that guys are extremly horny at a young age. Plus most of them look at sleeping with women as trophys. As sad as that sounds. I never did look at it that way. Although I had a few partners before I got married, but I never got anyone pregnant while in school. Their is only one judge in this life, and it is not you!
Wrap your tool

Quitman, AR

#86 Dec 18, 2010
look it up wrote:
<quoted text>
a bastard is a bastard. unmarried parents. that's the damned definition. you don't have to like it, but you can't change it cause you don't like it. if you don't want a bastard, marry. divorce later. sorry. just following the rules of the civilized.
I have a question, why would you marry to divorce later. You shouldn't have kids out of weddlock, but to marry just because you have kids even if your not in love is a joke. Marry someone because you love them. Not because you had their child. People today make marriage out to be something that you just do and undo. Marriage is a sacred bond, and one that should be taken as such. If you are not then you shouldn't get married. That's why we have 90% of people divorced.
please

Radcliff, KY

#87 Dec 19, 2010
Wrap your tool wrote:
<quoted text>Your right I didn't lose my virginity on my wedding night. I wasn't trying to save myself. As a guy most men don't want to stay a virgin. I can't speak for women. I know that guys are extremly horny at a young age. Plus most of them look at sleeping with women as trophys. As sad as that sounds. I never did look at it that way. Although I had a few partners before I got married, but I never got anyone pregnant while in school. Their is only one judge in this life, and it is not you!
I wasn't judging you, if you would like to read my other posts you can see that I'm not the one judging on here.
look it up

Horse Cave, KY

#88 Dec 19, 2010
Wrap your tool wrote:
<quoted text>I have a question, why would you marry to divorce later. You shouldn't have kids out of weddlock, but to marry just because you have kids even if your not in love is a joke. Marry someone because you love them. Not because you had their child. People today make marriage out to be something that you just do and undo. Marriage is a sacred bond, and one that should be taken as such. If you are not then you shouldn't get married. That's why we have 90% of people divorced.
having a bastard is a joke to you? you marry so the child is not born a bastard. if parents divorce, it's still not a bastard. some idiots just don't get it and therefore, we are inundated with bastards. sad. having a bastard to you is a joke?
Jesse

Elizabethtown, KY

#89 Dec 19, 2010
ashamed wrote:
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No, I don't have a miserable life! I actually have a great life! I had a great childhood, had everything I wanted, and did everything I could possibly want to do. I made good grades in school, went to college and made good grades. I make a great living! I married the love of my life, and we have a beautiful little girl. We have a nice house and drive nice cars. There is nothing in this world that I want and don't get. I have not missed out on anything! Like I said before, I'm perfect! If, by mistake, you're talking about forgetting something at the store or missing a turn, then yeah, I've made mistakes. However, if you're talking about serious mistakes, like having sex as a teenager, then no, I have not made mistakes! Call me a liar if you want, but I will say it again...I do not make mistakes! I am smart enough to think about things before I do them. So, what are you going to say now, LOSER!
lol.
this post made me giggle !
idk who u r or what but, u sound like u have had EVERYTHING handed 2 u.
u sound like a spoiled brat !
as far as u never making mistakes, EVERYBODY MAKES MISTAKES !
r u from here ?
cuz, if not .. thats y ur bashing all of us teenage girls.
iv noticed about all these posts about pregnant teenagers, the guys werent brought up & if they were they werent getting called nasty whores or sluts.
y is that ?
its just as much the guys fault as it is the girls.
u said u had a lil girl .. right ?
what if ur lil girl came home 1 day & said she was pregnant .. would u call her nasty & disown her ?
dont say it cant happen either, cuz it can.
i dont believe parenting has nething 2 do with a teenager getting pg.
if were old enough 2 have sex, then were old enough 2 go out & do it nomatter how r parents raised us.
isnt a preachers daughter the biggest whore ?
u need 2 put urself in other peoples shoes.
wanting

Scottsville, KY

#90 Dec 20, 2010
Wrap your tool wrote:
I don't believe that teens should be having sex. People are just hating on others on this topix. Most guys are going to pressure your daughters into sex. As a father I don't want my daughter to have sex when she is old enough. You must talk with them at a young age. But I would rather her be on birth control than have a child as a teen. Also young men wrap it up. You never know where anyone has been. Plus there isn't one teen male who wants to be a dad. So do the right thing and be responsible. Also this show on Mtv 16 and pregnant. That is just showing kids that they can maybe get on tv for having a kid. It does show some hardships of those teens, but it is just another advacate for teen sex. Get rid of it!
What you want for your kids and what you get are 2 different things, you can raise them up the best you can but they are still goin to do what they want and they WILL MAKE MISTAKES!!! no one is perfect remember that!!
really

United States

#91 Dec 27, 2010
Not everyone makes the best choices in their lives..nobody..not even ashamed so don't stand so high on a pedestal. You might just fall off when reality hits. Being pregnant isn't always a planned thing. I can't think of a single person that planned all of their children at the exact times they were conceived. The reason is that we aren't god. We don't get to plan our lives out and it go 100% that way. It's sad that young adults give up their childhood to raise babies of their own. Most can't even do it on their own. I got pregnant at 18 and I wasn't married. Its the best "mistake" that ever happened to me. I'm older now and have more kids now and I'm the happiest I've ever been. My kids are growing up into profound individuals because I'm a good mom. I work hard to put food on our table everyday and I couldn't possibly be happier. It's not all about age. It's not about the young parents of the kids at all..its about the babies. I may have been young when I got pregnant but I said I wouldn't have sex until I knew I was stable enough to take care of a kid on my own. Kids can't always be to blame for their actions. My parents raised me well. I had more than most kids and my parents were strict. It kept me home when other people my age were out there having sex. Ashamed should be used as example of what will happen if u pressure your kids too much to "be perfect like you" kids aren't stupid. They don't want pressure, they will retaliate. They know you truly aren't perfect and as god intended neither will they be perfect. In life you can't pick and choose the good and bad. When dealing with the bad then embrace it. These kids need to love their babies and provide for them. If they can't then maybe reality will hit and they will learn to make better choices. Babies don't ask for u to be their parent but you choose to spread the legs. Learn consequences before its too late.
Ugh I hate people

Elizabethtown, KY

#92 Dec 28, 2010
rockstar wrote:
I agree. Teenagers have no business having sex. That is something that should be thought about, if not done after marriage. teenagers aren't smart enough to be going around having sex. Most of them depend on their parents to take care of the kids. Kids who get pregnant obviously have no parents.
So your telling me that I am a whore because I had a child at 16?
Well let me tell you something you peice of
sh*t..... I was raped at the age of 15 by a boy that was a couple of years older than me. I choose to have my son. He is now 11 and I am so very proud of him.
Who are you to judge anybody?

Since: Nov 10

Elizabethtown, KY

#93 Dec 28, 2010
Hey shit happens, people experiment and as all knows sex feels good to most, so it happens often, getting knocked up happens at all ages, no need to beat down on people who get prego a 16 when people at 40 get prego and nothings said. just sayin
Vinatgerose

Elizabethtown, KY

#94 Dec 28, 2010
Drew07 wrote:
Hey shit happens, people experiment and as all knows sex feels good to most, so it happens often, getting knocked up happens at all ages, no need to beat down on people who get prego a 16 when people at 40 get prego and nothings said. just sayin
Amen to that!!
These are different times and a different generation of kids
Manda05

Elizabethtown, KY

#95 Dec 28, 2010
Get a life people

“i voice my opinion just like u”

Since: Jun 10

Location hidden

#96 Dec 29, 2010
ashamed wrote:
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And, yes...it does mean THEY'RE less than me! I make good choices. They don't! I feel sorry for any baby that has to be born to teenage parents! Talk about embarrassing!
i'm a 19 year old mother of 1 and i love her to death. i give my everything for my baby. and my grandmother was just like you. until her daughter had her first child out of wedlock. it's not embarrassing to be a teenage parent, and i'm not nasty at all. my home is clean, my daughter is clean and healthy, and i make time to take care of myself. now let me ask u something little mrs. mother of the f'n year. after you got home from work <provided u had a job> how much energy did u have to play with your child? or did u just sit on ur ass and let ur husband take care of everything? and i'll have you to know that having my daughter at this age was the best thing i ever did, b/c i have the energy and patience to sit in the floor and play games with my daughter and teach her things. people like you piss me off.
Cant stop laughing

Elizabethtown, KY

#97 Jan 3, 2011
Whoever this "ashamed/gamer" person is... you know, the "perfect one" who NEVER makes mistakes has given me a great laugh to start my day off. Pure comedy! I love how everything that has neen posted by this so obviously imperfect person has so many flaws in what is being said... FACT OR just simply THOUGHTS. If she truly does have a daughter, she is wasting away quite some time on here where she could be spending some time with her daughter. Proly not the most perfect thing to do if you ask me! I think she is just a bored little teenager herself that is not getting enough hugs at home and wants so much to have a storybook life she has to play pretend... Maybe that is why she is so ashamed and called herself that... fitting name actually. Gamer... ha ha lol fitting as well... immature people do tend to play games alot. Sad really... no pathetic! Oh well. MAYBE in time she will grow up and realize that teen pregancy is not the worse thing in the world that could happen to someone... the worse thing that could happen to someone is not being LOVED enough and truly this person has not! So much anger... feel pitty for the girl... LOL or not, she is funny! HA HA
doing just fine

United States

#98 Jan 3, 2011
ashamed wrote:
<quoted text>
First of all, skank, I never said I was a holey roller. If you read the other comments, you'd know this is nothing about God. It's my opinion that teenage girls who get pregnant are nasty. Obviously, you're a whore! How old were you when you got knocked up? 15, 16?? And, again I say, if you don't care what I have to say, don't read my topic. I didn't ask you to do anything about it! i just dont know how people, like you can be so darn ignorant!! So, "word of the wise" don't give your two cents if you don't know what the world you're talking about!
first of all, I don't where you get off with this I am better than any of you attitude, and with so much of your boasting about it, I can almost bet your not. You put your pants on the same way as every one else does and thats one fu**in leg at a time. I don't support teen sex but in this day and time, they do it all the time and you can't stop it. Teens are not ready to be parents hell most adults are not ready for parenthood until they are 30, but it is what it is. What makes them stupid is they think they are adult enough to have sex but not protect themsleves. that is what i don't understand. I am 42 yrs old now, but when I was 16 I was raped and had a child as a result of that. I don't believe in abortion and adoption was not an option for me. I have to say there were some rough times, and my parents helped me a great deal. she has grown up to be a fine upstanding citizen who now has 2 boys of her own. Miss I'm better than everyone else", you might want to watch the words you choose to say, you may have to eat crow one day.
Silly

Elizabethtown, KY

#99 Jan 3, 2011
Wrap it up and get on birth controle. Teens are either going to have sex or not no matter how good of a parent you are. And actin like you daughters sister ain't going to get you anywhere. You need to be a mother first then a friend. And most everyone agrees: no teens should not have kids but it does happen. Does not make them nasty, or a whore. SO GET OVER IT!
dangerousstrange r4real

Elizabethtown, KY

#100 Jan 6, 2011
hhaa
haha bitch

Johnson City, NY

#101 Feb 22, 2013
first off i am a teen mother n it changed my life ur daughter prob wont wait lmao shes prob already lost her v card if shes over the age of 14 lmao n i love my son so there for i do everything for my son got prego wen i was sixteen n had my son wen i was seventeen im a much better person now bcs if i didnt have him i would prob b beatin the shyt outa people so there for sometimes its a good thing if it happens it happens there aint nothing to change it there for u have no room running ur mouth about teen moms bcs i am one n u dont know n i sure dont wana know u bcs u sound like a big ass hipocrite bcs if ur daughter got prego i bet ur as*would b right there by her side so happy n buyin thing n loving it so shut the hell up bcs aint nobody wana hear u talk shyt about people ya some teen moms are crappy ya i get that i see it a lot its complicated thoe some pl r able to b a parent n some pl arnt thats y theres somebody there helping them out but seriously it dont mean u have to run ur mouth about every teen mom bcs my son comes first no matter wat my money goes on him not me n hes the only person i hange out wit besides my baby dad some just pls stop
dad

Elizabethtown, KY

#103 Feb 22, 2013
the bad part is all the while, these people are discouraging young people from sex, they will turn around and take the teenaged girl to a male gynecologist, and let him put his fingers you know where, how hypocritical and stupid, and then wonder why there is no modesty anymore
student athlete parent

Grapeland, TX

#104 Mar 5, 2013
im a college bound student athlete with an amazing one year old son. yes it may be a misserable mistake but you have to live with it. I have the best parents i could ask for. I've always been an honor roll student and very competitive. You can't judge people unless you know their story. yes some people screw over a life that doesn't deserve it but there are some of us who give our kids the best of everything and are mature about it.

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