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Nikki

Glasgow, KY

#1 Mar 28, 2013
My husband works third shift so we don't get to see each other at night and I work during the day. While he was in the shower, I picked up his phone to check the weather. When I unlocked it, a porn site was there and I could see which categories he had been watching. We have a great relationship but sex is not a priority. Should I say something to him about what I saw or just leave it alone?
Well

Leitchfield, KY

#2 Mar 28, 2013
You could say something like if it makes you uncomfortable, don't get mad or start getting loud while you talk about it stay as calm as possible.. But would you rather have him watching porn or messing with another girl? Just talk it out, porn is nothing compared to actual cheating.
mee

Elizabethtown, KY

#3 Mar 28, 2013
Nikki wrote:
My husband works third shift so we don't get to see each other at night and I work during the day. While he was in the shower, I picked up his phone to check the weather. When I unlocked it, a porn site was there and I could see which categories he had been watching. We have a great relationship but sex is not a priority. Should I say something to him about what I saw or just leave it alone?
i thinks its wrong to watch p[orn, but let me ask you, do you visit a male gyno? how does he feel about that?
danky dan

Buffalo, TX

#4 Mar 28, 2013
I agree, if you have a male doctor or gynecologist then you are cheating when you show them your naked body.
Danville

Elizabethtown, KY

#5 Mar 28, 2013
No. You said sex is not a priority. So he is coping
Cisco

Elizabethtown, KY

#6 Mar 28, 2013
Sex should be a priority in your marriage. If it isn't, then you guys have some issues and I don't blame him for looking at porn. It ain't the most important thing in the world, but life's too damn short to be cut off. Work schedules are one one thing, but you need to make some time for that.
spank me

Buffalo, TX

#7 Mar 28, 2013
what categories was he watching? Was it about big butts or big boobs flopping and bouncing around?
Nikki

Glasgow, KY

#8 Mar 28, 2013
danky dan wrote:
I agree, if you have a male doctor or gynecologist then you are cheating when you show them your naked body.
My doctor is a midage German woman. I wouldn't even consider going to a male gyno.
myop

Vine Grove, KY

#9 Mar 29, 2013
my husband works thirds and i work during the day too.... he watches porn and i don't care. i am too tired to put out during the week...... so he watches a little porn to get him through...oh well. the only thing i ask is he apply his new found knowledge on the weekends. ;)

i would say something to him. not good to leave an elephant in the room like that. but first you need to decide weather it bothers you. if it does then tell him you don't want him too and see what he says. if it does not then say "hey i know you do this but it don't bother me so you don't have to hide or be ashamed. for the love of god don't go talk about it to all your friends before you talk to him.... this should be private between you guys.
haaaaa

Vine Grove, KY

#10 Mar 29, 2013
wut you look like could have be reason mybe you ned to gib him sum wow
mmmm

Vine Grove, KY

#11 Mar 29, 2013
haaaaa wrote:
wut you look like could have be reason mybe you ned to gib him sum wow
looks like you a smart one porn must be your only recourse
best of the best

Elizabethtown, KY

#12 Mar 29, 2013
My fiance works third and I during the days and we have 3kids and we still manage to have sex almost everyday. He results to this as he is lacking. And very few men who aren't open to their spouse about watching it are eternally faithful. Eventually he will get tires of taking care of business himself all the time.
Reality

Brandenburg, KY

#14 Mar 29, 2013
You should mention it. Ask him why he wants to watch it. Maybe ideas? Spice things up a bit. Dont scream or badger him. Dont treat it like its another woman its not.
pepper

United States

#15 Mar 29, 2013
I know u nikki lol
haha

Antioch, TN

#16 Mar 29, 2013
I wouldn't worry about it but if it dose make you uneasy then why not watch it with him? And my husband is tired after work as well and when I was working so was I so we barley had time to have sex. Why not do something new to catch his attention? My husband loves when I go down on him while he is sleeping he says that waking up to head or sex is AMAZING!!!!! Idk if all guys feel that way but maybe something new will help you feel better about the situation?
haha

Antioch, TN

#17 Mar 29, 2013
danky dan wrote:
I agree, if you have a male doctor or gynecologist then you are cheating when you show them your naked body.
Ummmm your dumb as hell for one its not cheating not every woman can have a female doctor! My husband knew I had a male doctor an he was fine with it a bit in easy but he knew it was for my health and was happy that the male doctor was easy on me when female doctors are rough. And if your a male you have no fucking clue what women have to go through with a pelvic exam! So you might want to do your homework before saying anything. And us women don't get fully naked we put gowns on and would you want a woman that gets herself checked to stay clean and healthy or a nasty bitch that don't? Their is a difference between health and actual cheating.
hanky danky doo da

Buffalo, TX

#18 Mar 29, 2013
Listen dumb women need to be back in the kitchen, somehow they got loose and tried to form a opinion. hahaha
haha

Antioch, TN

#19 Mar 29, 2013
hanky danky doo da wrote:
Listen dumb women need to be back in the kitchen, somehow they got loose and tried to form a opinion. hahaha
Wow I bet you get a lot of action huh? Lmfao
yes

Elizabethtown, KY

#20 Mar 30, 2013
Nikki wrote:
My husband works third shift so we don't get to see each other at night and I work during the day. While he was in the shower, I picked up his phone to check the weather. When I unlocked it, a porn site was there and I could see which categories he had been watching. We have a great relationship but sex is not a priority. Should I say something to him about what I saw or just leave it alone?
I went home early from work this winter and caught my husband masterbating it was disgusting and I packed up his clothes and kicked his ass out we have 2 kids together try to explain that to a 11 and 13 yr old.
Male

Elizabethtown, KY

#21 Mar 30, 2013
You should perform oral sex more often.

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