I feel like I will never make a romantic connection with anyone because I'm so closed off & shy. I can't help it and I don't know how to fix it. I just wonder what is so wrong with me. Everyone says your a great person, you deserve better, you will find someone. Even my ex tells me you will find someone you're a great person but it seems like the guys I have dated have found their wife after breaking up with me. It really messes with my head. Is there a way that I don't have a romantic bone in my body & no one will ever want to date me? What can I do to change it? Sorry for the crying normally I'm positive & strong but it seems this has the best of me! I'm so ready to find someone who I can make happy & can make me happy but I'm so afraid I will never find that.