Why do men have sex with other women

Since: Jan 13

United States

#84 Feb 25, 2013
Not boasting about anything. It is more advocating for people to look at a better way to deal with what can often be a very hurtful part of a married couples relationship.

Now if you want bragging, both she and I can do that. However we'll save it for our tumblr blog.
Linda

Douglasville, GA

#85 Mar 11, 2013
spitfire2 wrote:
I love my wife with all my heart and wouldn't ever do anything to hurt her or damage our relationship. That's just me and I can't speak for other men.
Amen! I'm blessed to have a men just like you. we have been together for 29 years and i love him like if it was yesterday.
crissy

Carrollton, GA

#86 Mar 11, 2013
Bill in Dville wrote:
This subject is probably better discussed with a professional therapist or clergy person, IMHO.
That being said, I seem to recall having a class in college (a long time ago in a galaxy far, far away) in which we learned that men are "wired" differently from millions of years (sorry to those that believe the world is 5,000 years old) of wanting to procreate to continue to increase the number in the tribe or some similar reason.
My view: "I have filet at home, why would I mess with hamburger away from home?"
BTW: Note I didn't ask if the OP was hot...
those preachers get off on listening to who is having sex with who so they can ease in on it also
crissy

Carrollton, GA

#87 Mar 11, 2013
Linda wrote:
<quoted text>Amen! I'm blessed to have a men just like you. we have been together for 29 years and i love him like if it was yesterday.
heis probaby banging some body else while your not around unless you have him locked in a cage.
the real truth

Marion, IL

#88 Mar 11, 2013
the have no conscience
David

Carrollton, GA

#89 Mar 11, 2013
my grandmother is 89,she keeps 2 men going with sex almost every night.If one isnt in the mood,she goes to the others house.
Karissa

Kearny, NJ

#91 Jan 25, 2014
If a man is going to.cheat it may not be because he is not sexually satisfied at home. It may have nothing to do with the person in the relationship. He may have been raised in an environment where his male role models or friends had multiple partners and beliefsq about sex, women and behavior. It is possible and common for certain men to love their partner and at the same time have.sexual relations outside. They.can tell you it's because they have a strong sex drive or it's just.sex without feelings. If that is the way the man is going to live then he should be HONEST about it and tell his partner and those he is having sex with. Honesty is respectful. His partner can accept and love him the way he is with enough self love and self esteem to not let it.ruin her mind or have the self confidence to voluntarily leave the relationship. Women should ask the man before settling down what.their views are and whether they.will be.faithful. the.man should have enough integrity to tell the truth. Personally.I. prefer to love the whole person faults and all.and.if I.stop doing so,.I.leave. l do not think someone has to be faithful to be deeply in love and.I also think it is possible to.love different people in different ways. Honesty, openess,.integrity.
Jason

Carrollton, GA

#92 Jan 25, 2014
Sad Wife wrote:
This is my 3rd marriage - his 2nd. I have never cheated on him. However, I did have an affair in my first marriage that he knows about.(the marriage had been over for a while, we were both just hanging in for the kids.)
We are in our 40s. I really love him but I don't know if I can tolerate his straying. But I look around and I see all of these other couples that are supposedly "happy" and then at the dinner party their husbands are hitting on me. I didn't focus on it too much until I found out my husband was hitting on someone else.
I guess what I'm wondering is whether I should keep looking for the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow or accept that this is as good as it gets.
BTW, we used to have sex all the time. I mean probably 5 or 6 times per week. Obviously, that's changed since I found out what I found out.
the code word here is ---USED TO----- now its about once a month and when ever SHE wants it.Until then, he can just lay there HORNY and think about the good ole days or he can find some other woman to take care of his urges when HE wants..
Raymond

Douglasville, GA

#93 Jan 26, 2014
Cut their balls off !!
honcho

Douglasville, GA

#94 Jan 26, 2014
Raymond, are you nuts?
Mom knows

Douglasville, GA

#95 Feb 8, 2014
Sex addiction is real, just like alcoholism, gambling, nicotine, shopping... These men are insecure and need the rush. You can't just tolerate it unless you're ok with herpes, aids and supporting the child of whatever easy skank puts out for him. Sometimes they are crazy blotches and his affairs put your safety at risk. I imagine he has other issues also: lies, financial problems, blames things on you. There are secure men capable of monogamy in the world.
Wondering

Douglasville, GA

#96 Feb 9, 2014
Why do women have sex with other women?
Raymond

Douglasville, GA

#97 Feb 9, 2014
honcho wrote:
Raymond, are you nuts?
Yes I still have mine.
Jimmy

Carrollton, GA

#98 Feb 9, 2014
Mom knows wrote:
Sex addiction is real, just like alcoholism, gambling, nicotine, shopping... These men are insecure and need the rush. You can't just tolerate it unless you're ok with herpes, aids and supporting the child of whatever easy skank puts out for him. Sometimes they are crazy blotches and his affairs put your safety at risk. I imagine he has other issues also: lies, financial problems, blames things on you. There are secure men capable of monogamy in the world.
are you busy today?LETS HOOK UP

Since: Oct 11

Location hidden

#99 Feb 14, 2014
IMO, it's not always his starters with the flowers,candy,soft music, candle light,out to dinner & on & on. Some times (she) needs to offer her gifts also just like the women at the office do.
Dad knows

Douglasville, GA

#100 Feb 14, 2014
Mom knows wrote:
Sex addiction is real, just like alcoholism, gambling, nicotine, shopping... These men are insecure and need the rush. You can't just tolerate it unless you're ok with herpes, aids and supporting the child of whatever easy skank puts out for him. Sometimes they are crazy blotches and his affairs put your safety at risk. I imagine he has other issues also: lies, financial problems, blames things on you. There are secure men capable of monogamy in the world.
Wow, have a nice day, Mom. it sounds like you have experienced all of these things first hand and maybe you are guilty of depriving your hubby of sex when he needs it.

I'll go tell my skank to stop it with handing out the herpes. She's a financial problem and I think most women are. Secure men don't need women in the first place.
common sense

Atlanta, GA

#101 Feb 14, 2014
Dad knows wrote:
<quoted text>Wow, have a nice day, Mom. it sounds like you have experienced all of these things first hand and maybe you are guilty of depriving your hubby of sex when he needs it.

I'll go tell my skank to stop it with handing out the herpes. She's a financial problem and I think most women are. Secure men don't need women in the first place.
You don't need to have "experienced all of these things" to understand the risk a cheating spouse can bring to you. It just takes a bit of critical thinking.
Dad knows

Douglasville, GA

#102 Feb 15, 2014
I think men are often abused by women who use sex as a weapon. At some point males wake up and realize that they are victims of this kind of abuse, and if they have common sense, they either "cheat" which to me is not cheating at all, or they leave.
One of the biggest reasons that 50 percent of marriages fail is because the female, in her efforts to maintain power and control, uses her body as a source of reward or punishment. Eventually the guy catches on.

I've been married for 42 years and I can tell you I have seen this first hand. I'm still married because I choose to be. I'm still married because I love my wife with all my heart. But I also let her know early on that being sexually faithful to her just "ain't gonna happen" especially since she was using sex as a force. Sex is a gift. Some women see it as a big power trip and that is just wrong and a total turn off.

If you are a woman and you are using sex as a tool, stop it. It will backfire on you eventually and you will find yourself single and divorced, if not officially, you will at least find yourself living with a guy who is no longer very intimate with you and it will be your own fault. Take good care of your lover and he will take good care of you.

Since: Feb 14

Location hidden

#103 Feb 15, 2014
Dad knows wrote:
I think men are often abused by women who use sex as a weapon. At some point males wake up and realize that they are victims of this kind of abuse, and if they have common sense, they either "cheat" which to me is not cheating at all, or they leave.
One of the biggest reasons that 50 percent of marriages fail is because the female, in her efforts to maintain power and control, uses her body as a source of reward or punishment. Eventually the guy catches on.

I've been married for 42 years and I can tell you I have seen this first hand. I'm still married because I choose to be. I'm still married because I love my wife with all my heart. But I also let her know early on that being sexually faithful to her just "ain't gonna happen" especially since she was using sex as a force. Sex is a gift. Some women see it as a big power trip and that is just wrong and a total turn off.

If you are a woman and you are using sex as a tool, stop it. It will backfire on you eventually and you will find yourself single and divorced, if not officially, you will at least find yourself living with a guy who is no longer very intimate with you and it will be your own fault. Take good care of your lover and he will take good care of you.
You know, I think you are probably right that some women operate that way. But I'm not sure that I agree that it's "wrong." I think there are some men who don't see the value in treating their wife right and taking care if her emotional needs. Then they expect to get laid whenever they want...in that scenario, I don't think it's wrong.
Question

Douglasville, GA

#104 Feb 15, 2014
Why do women have sex with other women?
My girfriend is having sex with women who are having sex with women and men.She says its common these days.
Is heterosexuality a thing of the past.with women these days?
There is no way I'm going gay!

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