Women, that is why you need to look for a RICH man when looking for a boyfriend! He needs to live in an upper class gated community. No questions asked! Regular neighborhoods especially these days are overflowing with street gangs, drive-by shootings, home invasion robberies, and thieves these days carry heavy tools and blunt objects capable of smashing a solid core deadbolt locked door to scrapwood! Door, jamb, frame and all! Heck, they can even put a hole right through a typical garage wall, or even bring down an entire typical garage or an entire wood-frame house with those things! And they are also coming armed with Colt 45s, AK-47s, yes you read correctly, AK-47s! and even hand grenades and homemade land mines, and criminals these days wear ski masks, snowmobile helmets, gloves, dressed up to conceal their identities and will use lethal force without warning and without hesitation! There is no such thing as safety in an un-gated community anymore! And no police department has any capability of even making a dent in crime in any un-gated community. Whoever thinks "why call the police, they'll never catch him" is absolutely correct! Especially as many criminals, when confronted by especially a single officer or even a couple officers, turn into lethal cop killers! They just simply blast those cops to swiss cheese and flee, many times taking the bodies with them until they dump them in a river, or even burn them in a forest preserve. And prison only makes criminals worse! Just 3 years in prison will easily transform a petty thief into a career serial killer! Prison literally turns human beings into untaimable feral beasts!