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societies thoughts

Chicago, IL

#1 Apr 12, 2013
My wife and I are having a disagreement. She believes its ok to have male friends even after marriage. I agree with that. I don't believe, however, that it is appropriate to text or call these friends late at night, 9-? Pm. I also believe it is innappropriate to "meet up" with these friends for bf/lunch/dinner or drinks, without me present, unless it is a male that we both know and trust. Some, I have never even met. I trust her, I don't exactly trust the other guy. Im not sexist, I believe this goes for my side as well and would not do this out of respect for her and our marriage. What are your serious opinions?
playing with fire

Geneseo, IL

#2 May 5, 2013
If its couples you both know and you go to dinner and have a beer. cook out great.. I think your asking for trouble if your talking about the wife or husband having friends out side the marriage and the go off on there own.. Thats wrong.Playing with fire and on dangerous grounds.
societies thoughts

Chicago, IL

#3 May 8, 2013
playing with fire wrote:
If its couples you both know and you go to dinner and have a beer. cook out great.. I think your asking for trouble if your talking about the wife or husband having friends out side the marriage and the go off on there own.. Thats wrong.Playing with fire and on dangerous grounds.
Thank you. At least on here has the sense, and the balls, to speak the truth!

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