Help Me, I dont want to be a lesbian

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Feb 4, 2009
 
I can't find anyone to help me. I believe homosexuality is a genetic mutation that has survived. It goes against evolution/survival completely. And although i don't believe it to be ethnically wrong i dont want it to be me. I dont understand, why me? I dont want to be a lesbian anymore. Is there anyone who can help me? Please
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Feb 4, 2009
 
What makes you think you are a lesbian ? You describe someone who is exploring their own sexuality with no guiding compass. This is a common misconception often induced by those influences and interactions from your past, howsoever they were achieved. Lesbians just as males have a libido that require and desire a female sexual partner. Homosexual males are inherently female and desire a male sexual partner. A conundrum ?, it would seem you question the veracity of your own self. I would hope that someone out there who has been in your position can certainly help you. I can only support your request.
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Feb 25, 2009
 
No response to a possible discussion, Why am I not surprised. Sadly your dilemma reflects something fundamentally problematic with youth. The government, administrative and employment surrounding the support of over 18's is very remiss. All the funding was diverted to those who are legally incapable of having a voice or opinion. Now that you have an opinion as in being legally emancipated, you have no money to be made in your request. I do hope you have found some form of help locally.
auroranorth

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#5
Feb 25, 2009
 
Maybe your supposed to be a thespian
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Mar 13, 2009
 
I think that the population, being that it is over 6 billion in the world, will be okay. Why don't you concentrate on what makes you happy and find someone that can fulfill your needs. Don't worry about gender. Make your life what you want. It is your life and yours only so create the happiness you deserve.

And just so you know. There is no amount of money that can help you despite what that weird guy said above. And no matter what, a psychiatrist can't make you anything but who you are. You are you. You will always be you. Psychiatrists can help you to become the best of your ability and help you realize your true you. You don't need help to "fix" you. There is nothing wrong with you. Your thinking may need new direction. Who convinced you that homosexuality is a "defect" or "mutation?" Dimples are also considered a defect of sorts, but they are beautiful. Just because it isn't the norm, doesn't make it bad.
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Mar 13, 2009
 
Carmelbell wrote:
I think that the population, being that it is over 6 billion in the world, will be okay. Why don't you concentrate on what makes you happy and find someone that can fulfill your needs. Don't worry about gender. Make your life what you want. It is your life and yours only so create the happiness you deserve.
And just so you know. There is no amount of money that can help you despite what that weird guy said above. And no matter what, a psychiatrist can't make you anything but who you are. You are you. You will always be you. Psychiatrists can help you to become the best of your ability and help you realize your true you. You don't need help to "fix" you. There is nothing wrong with you. Your thinking may need new direction. Who convinced you that homosexuality is a "defect" or "mutation?" Dimples are also considered a defect of sorts, but they are beautiful. Just because it isn't the norm, doesn't make it bad.
Many adults of an alternative sexual persuasion do not see the harm done by influencing nor taking advantage of forming minds in youth and children. When children, the effete and exploratory minds are sent on a path of selfish coercion, the damage is often lifelong. I would hope that our Big Ed system is still capable of nurturing to a maturity level that allows choice.

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Mar 15, 2009
 

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I don't think that you can inherit being a lesbian or gay. I think that is your own personal decision but I don't know what your religion is you said something about evolution. But I do know one thing tho' that being gay/lesbian is against God's word. It is a abomination to him. I don't know if you know the story about Sodom and Gamorra or not but men were sleeping with men and women with women. And God told a man and his family to leave the city and do not look back and when they did his wife looked back and he turned her into a pillar of salt. And he destroyed the city. If you have a Bible or know where you can borrow one that would probably help you out alot. I have a website that I have made to talk to people with problems like this or any kind. Check it out http://wannagethigh.webs.com
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Mar 16, 2009
 
MrsSwift wrote:
I don't think that you can inherit being a lesbian or gay. I think that is your own personal decision but I don't know what your religion is you said something about evolution. But I do know one thing tho' that being gay/lesbian is against God's word. It is a abomination to him. I don't know if you know the story about Sodom and Gamorra or not but men were sleeping with men and women with women. And God told a man and his family to leave the city and do not look back and when they did his wife looked back and he turned her into a pillar of salt. And he destroyed the city. If you have a Bible or know where you can borrow one that would probably help you out alot. I have a website that I have made to talk to people with problems like this or any kind. Check it out http://wannagethigh.webs.com
Indeed, that was what was written in the bible. Word of God? People tend to say the bible is the whole, honest word of God. Personally, I think parts of the bible could be a direct result of the "telephone" game where stories get so misconstrued that no one even realizes what the original message was. I am Christian, and I do believe that the new testament preaches love. I don't believe that God would ever be angry with one soul loving another soul. It doesn't make sense whatsoever and in all reality, not one soul in heaven or hell has a gender. They are souls. Now, sleeping with lots of people is considered a form of glutony which is a sin. You find someone that you love and are willing to cherish them for the rest of your life, no person can convince me that God considers that an abomination. No matter what the bible says. Love is love.

Not to mention, I haven't seen God take out San Francisco or Madison, WI yet. So...I think your safe. Your goal in life is to live it well and learn from the gift of life so that when you meet Jesus, your spiruality will be that more nurtured and educated. Think about it....what is our purpose here anyway?
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Mar 16, 2009
 
AndrewEss wrote:
<quoted text>Many adults of an alternative sexual persuasion do not see the harm done by influencing nor taking advantage of forming minds in youth and children. When children, the effete and exploratory minds are sent on a path of selfish coercion, the damage is often lifelong. I would hope that our Big Ed system is still capable of nurturing to a maturity level that allows choice.
I agree with that. Sexuality is very difficult for young minds to fully understand and I think that all should be able to choose. I am, however, big on allowing choice of all options and not making anyone feel like they are "wrong" or an abomination for choosing one way. Each one of us has our own relationship with our maker if sought out. No one has the right to say that loving another person is wrong or that "their" maker says it is wrong. I don't care what the big book says. God did not write it. Man did. Man has flaws. You see where this is going. It is impossible for the Bible to be the infallible word of God when it was written by imperfect men.

Listen to the Lord in your heart and seek happiness and knowledge and your life will be just fine no matter what gender sleeps next to you at night.

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Mar 16, 2009
 

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Our purpose here is to spread God's word and to try to save as many as you can. And I hate to say it but if you are gay/lesbian you will not be meeting Jesus. So don't plant a seed in someone's mind that might read this that you can do whatever in life and still meet Jesus. Because that aint happening. You have to live your life for him just like he died for you. And you are suppose to always go by the Bible. And do you really think that God is going to go around and destroy every city that has gays? He could...true.. but he dont have to show you what he can do, he leaves that up to us to choose to live for him. God Bless
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MrsSwift wrote:
Our purpose here is to spread God's word and to try to save as many as you can. And I hate to say it but if you are gay/lesbian you will not be meeting Jesus. So don't plant a seed in someone's mind that might read this that you can do whatever in life and still meet Jesus. Because that aint happening. You have to live your life for him just like he died for you. And you are suppose to always go by the Bible. And do you really think that God is going to go around and destroy every city that has gays? He could...true.. but he dont have to show you what he can do, he leaves that up to us to choose to live for him. God Bless
No, I am not gay or a lesbian. But I don't agree with that whatsoever. Yes, we are supposed to teach people God's word which is to love. And you have to accept Jesus in your heart in order to be accepted by him. Nothing is stated directly about being gay and meeting Jesus. And why don't you let everyone worry about their own souls? They will deal with their maker, not you, for whatever sins they make. You shouldn't tell people otherwise when you really truly have no clue yourself just like the rest of us. No one knows for sure. Faith means to believe. You choose to believe that the bible is perfect and that you should follow everything it says. That works for you. I am simply saying that I don't believe that God would not accept you when you love another soul because in heaven their are no genders. It just doesn't make sense. Jesus and I will discuss that when the time comes so you don't have to worry about me. Following his advice has never steered me in the wrong direction and I don't plan on judging others or condemning them as it is not within my authority to do so. Jesus has taught me to love others for who they are and to spread THAT message. I guess we interpret things differently. God doesn't have to destroy a city to prove anything, no. However, if God was that disapproving of such, and did so in the past, according to the bible, then what is stopping God now? Or perhaps, it is that it was incorrect, and never happened. It seems to make more sense to me ,that God sent his son to help human kind realize what God was really about. That all of the awful things that people said God did in the past in order to fulfill their own needs and strengthen their own power weren't true and that is why Jesus was sent so that we could receive the message. Jesus died for our sins, indeed, but remember that his whole message was to understand and love one another. That the judgement that was previously being passed by people is the judgement that sent him to the cross. That we needed to think beyond all of that and realize what a gift life truly is and to appreciate all that has been provided for us. How does loving another human being go against that? It doesn't in any respect. So how does it make sense that God would condemn those that choose that lifestyle? It doesn't make sense to me. It does, however, make more sense to me that some a**hole didn't like it in the past and made up a story that God didn't like it so that he could "prove" his way of thinking which in this day would be called prejudice. Man has been known to do that throughout history and still is, so how is that any different?
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Apr 25, 2009
 
Lesbian_Of_Love wrote:
I can't find anyone to help me. I believe homosexuality is a genetic mutation that has survived. It goes against evolution/survival completely. And although i don't believe it to be ethnically wrong i dont want it to be me. I dont understand, why me? I dont want to be a lesbian anymore. Is there anyone who can help me? Please
There is only one thing that will turn off your lesbianism. That is to abliterate your medial hypothalimic structures that relate to arousal (INAH3). The government wont allow this due to ethical issues however it was done in the past in places like Germany. There is evidence that legions in this area cause heterosexual monkeys to become homosexual. However, this leaves some to be tortured by their inablity to live normal live.

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Apr 25, 2009
 
If we didn't worry about everyone's souls.. than what would be our job as a christian??? We're suppose to get out there and try to save as many as we can and try to tell them about his word.
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Feb 3, 2010
 
People saying that being gay/lesbian is againts the 'word of god' are talking bollocks. they are deluded. i dont mean to disrepespect a persons beliefs... i admire your faith in something. but you are saying that a person should deny themselves they happiness they deserve if they are attracted to the same sex, that if they decide to be true to their feelings they are being 'sinful'. this is ridiculous and i cant understand how if God cares and loves people so much, and if he likes nothing more than to see people happy and loving one another, how would he condemn someone for being gay? When you get so wrapped up in rules of religion you cant see the wood through the trees and its shouldnt be all rules... it defeats the object of being a loving 'christian'. you should just accept people for who they are. It is ok to be who you aer and you will be miserable if yo live yoyur life trying to be something your not. no-one wants to be gay...i can imagine its a hard thing to accept, but really, i am a caring person and i belive that you deserve to be happy, whether it be with a man or a woman.
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Mar 30, 2010
 
I believe it's a choice you are not born that way and it wrong point blank god made male and female to be together no man and man woman and woman.Anybody picks they own sexual.Yous should ask god for forgiveness and pray and try date males made you might find out this realy wasn't for you.
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#17
Apr 4, 2010
 
I am not a lesbian. I have been with several men in my life. Some of them made me not want to be with a man. I think you have not found the right man. I am 44 years old. From your picture you don't look over 25 years old. Keep looking for the right man. I've been married for 20 years. He's the best lover I've ever had. He fills my needs before his. It's great! Before I met him I never had an orgasm with a man. Yes, I said it. I NEVER had an orgasm with any other man. Keep looking, I hope you find the right one.
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Apr 15, 2010
 
Lesbian_Of_Love wrote:
I can't find anyone to help me. I believe homosexuality is a genetic mutation that has survived. It goes against evolution/survival completely. And although i don't believe it to be ethnically wrong i dont want it to be me. I dont understand, why me? I don't want to be a lesbian anymore. Is there anyone who can help me? Please
hey i understand how you feel..its tough being lesbian in a society that doesn't support being gay and particularly being lesbian. I have issues with it myself because i really don't subscribe to lesbian culture. I feel like an outcast.In reality I feel more comfortable in heterosexual culture yet I don't desire to have a relationship with a man. I remember asking God to take it away..but it really doesn' t change. I think the lesson is to see yourself as a quality person and not to get lost in a label. The truth of the matter is that were all individuals and that sometimes as a tendency to get lost in the culture of being gay. And that for me is often times the most frustrating part. Remember you are a unigue and precious creation. Hopefully focusing more on that might ease the frustration
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Apr 27, 2010
 
Lesbian_Of_Love wrote:
I can't find anyone to help me. I believe homosexuality is a genetic mutation that has survived. It goes against evolution/survival completely. And although i don't believe it to be ethnically wrong i dont want it to be me. I dont understand, why me? I dont want to be a lesbian anymore. Is there anyone who can help me? Please
Hey lady,

I've been where you are. I surrounded myself with good Christian non-judgemental friends. I removed myself from that environment. I talked with my Pastor and that really helped. I also prayed that God would take that desire from me. I wasnt easy. But eventually I was delivered from it. Let me stress, it didnt happen overnight and it wasnt always easy. But uou can do it. Email me at notmywill09@yahoo.com Be Blessed. I hope to hear from you.
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Apr 30, 2010
 
I don't think you're problem is other women.

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