"Husband Watches Porn"

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I just found porn on my husband's cell phone. I don't know what to do about it. In my eyes, it's cheating.

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usmcsniper1

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Jul 5, 2010
 

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Woman are you for real? Right he is cheating on you with his cell phone!!

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U are right he is a cheater! I think guys that have to resort to porno (exspecially when they have a wife/girlfriend) are perverted. If I were U I would be thinking about getting away from him. Start making plans to get rid of him so you can land on U`r own 2 feet without alot of finacial stress on yourself. Then tell him to $#@@# Off!
You might want to also trip him out by sending a pic of yourself (with clothes, dont lowere yourself to his standards) with the pic, ask him if this pic isnt good enough for him.
BBVero

Hialeah, FL

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Jul 11, 2010
 
Wow...Before taking krafteame's advice, is he a good husband, good father, a good person? If he isn't, then maybe start thinking about leaving BUT for those reasons not for only having porn on his cell. Also, has he ever REALLY cheated on you with a person not a cell phone? If he is a good person, then talk to him and tell him that the porn makes you uncomfortable.
Regardless of his answer, be prepared to come back with a reason for violating his privacy by searching his cell phone contents.
VBfemale

Vero Beach, FL

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Jul 29, 2010
 
im sure youve already taken some kind of action in this situation but i think if you dont just fly off the handle and have a discussion about how this makes you feel the outcome will be more beneficial. he wont have the same feelings as you in this situation. nature vs. nurture. asking him to not want to look at naked stuff is against his genetic code. thats just the way men are... like asking a woman not get what we want. i say as long as he comes clean and keeps you in the loop thats all you can ask. or go find a guy that has erectile dysfunction.
Camden Tn

Camden, TN

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Aug 12, 2010
 
It is possible that someone sent it to him and he didn't delete it.I've had crap sent to me that I didn't want.
krafteame

Huntersville, NC

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From the comments about this subject I feel it reflects how society has lowered its moral standards as far is what is exceptable. Like VBFemale pointed out, it is built in to men to want to look at naked women. This may be true but just because you have an urge does not mean you can throw what is exceptable to the wind and do things because you have a urge. If the husband wants to look at a naked women Im sure his wife would let him see her naked.
When the husband took his vowes with his wife Im pretty sure there wasnt "unless he has a urge to do ...." clause in the vowes he exchanged with his wife.
OhhhBrother

Hialeah, FL

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Aug 13, 2010
 
krafteame wrote:
From the comments about this subject I feel it reflects how society has lowered its moral standards as far is what is exceptable. Like VBFemale pointed out, it is built in to men to want to look at naked women. This may be true but just because you have an urge does not mean you can throw what is exceptable to the wind and do things because you have a urge. If the husband wants to look at a naked women Im sure his wife would let him see her naked.
When the husband took his vowes with his wife Im pretty sure there wasnt "unless he has a urge to do ...." clause in the vowes he exchanged with his wife.
In my opinion, not making a big deal of a man looking at a naked picture of a woman doesn’t constitutes a lowering of society’s moral standards. If this were true, then I guess looking at an actual naked woman would be considered total anarchy.

Anyway, how about the wedding vow’s “…for better or worse…” clause.

A naked picture of a woman on a cell phone…What a horror story…Lets look at the big picture, shall we???
Get Real

Fraser, MI

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Aug 14, 2010
 
Apparently the wife isn't providing what he needs to satisfy him sexually. It doesn't matter where he gets his appetite as long as he eats at home. Forgetaboutit!
OhhhBrother

Hialeah, FL

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Aug 14, 2010
 
Get Real wrote:
Apparently the wife isn't providing what he needs to satisfy him sexually. It doesn't matter where he gets his appetite as long as he eats at home. Forgetaboutit!
Get Real, I'm adding your line to my life lesson's book. It's perfect !!!!
cant stand nasty

Washington, DC

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May 3, 2012
 
Does anyone know richard wiseman likes to ride around on motorcycle and pik up random women if u have rodw with him I would watch out hes not someone u want to fool around with. Pls beware
Robbie

Whitesville, WV

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May 14, 2012
 
omg what r we gonna do , the old man watched pern!!!

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May 15, 2012
 
Robbie wrote:
omg what r we gonna do , the old man watched pern!!!
Yes. Just be thankful it wasn't porn.

Brilliant!

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