bigeyed

United States

#1 Feb 1, 2013
I've known this chic for a few months now, we've had are UPS and downs mostly UPS, its just when were on our downs its really down, just wanting a opinion on how to handle the bad times if the good times seem so right , should I get away or just tough it out
time will tell

United States

#2 Feb 1, 2013
As long as there's no cheating just stick with it.You young people have to much drama in Your lives,have fun,avoid stress.
me o my

Wynne, AR

#3 Feb 1, 2013
bigeyed wrote:
I've known this chic for a few months now, we've had are UPS and downs mostly UPS, its just when were on our downs its really down, just wanting a opinion on how to handle the bad times if the good times seem so right , should I get away or just tough it out
RUN FORREST RUN!
Guest

Jonesboro, AR

#4 Feb 1, 2013
Tough it out. Things will get better. But if you don't take that chance, you'll never know what could've been. Don't be the man who was too afraid to fly so he never left land! ;-)
bigeyed

United States

#5 Feb 1, 2013
its hard to hold on when she's always sayin she hates me and always startn a fight just because she doesn't understand certain situations, IM NEVER LETTN GO NO MATTER WAT "RBBR"

Since: Jan 13

Location hidden

#6 Feb 1, 2013
If the sex is good stay......if it is bad get out now!!!
We Is Smart

West Memphis, AR

#7 Feb 1, 2013
bigeyed wrote:
its hard to hold on when she's always sayin she hates me and always startn a fight just because she doesn't understand certain situations, IM NEVER LETTN GO NO MATTER WAT "RBBR"
What are you, a psychologist of some sort or perhaps a social worker? What you describe is the kind of "normal" you want in your life? My life experience ... looking good and fun in bed do NOT make up for an irritating, annoying and caustic personality clash. You want to have good thoughts and feelings about any relationship, and that's what you want to think, know and believe ... I really like being with this person! If you can't say that to yourself and mean it, nothing else in any relationship will compensate.

Believe it or find out the hard way.
Guest

Mayflower, AR

#8 Feb 1, 2013
Y'all may as well be speaking in Spanish because none of what's posted above makes a lick of sense to me.
in the end

Lake City, AR

#9 Feb 2, 2013
We Is Smart wrote:
<quoted text>
What are you, a psychologist of some sort or perhaps a social worker? What you describe is the kind of "normal" you want in your life? My life experience ... looking good and fun in bed do NOT make up for an irritating, annoying and caustic personality clash. You want to have good thoughts and feelings about any relationship, and that's what you want to think, know and believe ... I really like being with this person! If you can't say that to yourself and mean it, nothing else in any relationship will compensate.
Believe it or find out the hard way.
Totally agree! "normal" can be a very scary word when it comes to what you want so badly and what you will have to accept. When you have a sick feeling in your stomach most of the time but on the other hand wanting to touch them and stay it will only destroy you slowly! Any sex is good if you love them but if there is issues you can't accept you will find out the hard way. So you do have to ask yourself... can I be with them and it be normal? I only wish it could!!
guest

Jonesboro, AR

#10 Feb 2, 2013
Hit it and quit it

Since: Jan 13

Location hidden

#11 Feb 2, 2013
guest wrote:
Hit it and quit it
Truth
Mandy

Marion, AR

#12 Feb 3, 2013
Who farted?

“Turn back now.”

Since: Dec 11

Location hidden

#13 Feb 4, 2013
Micheal Itorus wrote:
<quoted text>
Truth
Ha! Love the name!
chinese

United States

#14 Feb 4, 2013
I started this shit and I was not all there, so want cha keep yalls opinion to ya selfs I can handle the craziness cause she freakn ROCKS ;-)
LOL

Jonesboro, AR

#15 Feb 5, 2013
in the end wrote:
<quoted text> Totally agree! "normal" can be a very scary word when it comes to what you want so badly and what you will have to accept. When you have a sick feeling in your stomach most of the time but on the other hand wanting to touch them and stay it will only destroy you slowly! Any sex is good if you love them but if there is issues you can't accept you will find out the hard way. So you do have to ask yourself... can I be with them and it be normal? I only wish it could!!
Don't worry about any issues. He didn't even really care if you were his friend or not. The sex was just a pity fack since you kept askin for it.
Meeeee

Marion, AR

#18 Nov 11, 2013
chinese wrote:
I started this shit and I was not all there, so want cha keep yalls opinion to ya selfs I can handle the craziness cause she freakn ROCKS ;-)
You're way out there now and I still freakin ROCK!!!

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