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Lost

Paulding, OH

#1 Nov 28, 2012
With you gone, it is like the majority of me has died. I still think about you all the time. It really is bittersweet but not in the Hollywood cliche cute kind of way. It really does hurt. Ii is hard to imagine what my life will ever be like again without you. Nothing from this day forward will ever compare to what you are. you will forever consume my thoughts until the last breath I draw. A breath that will be regretful and sorrowed on the way in but yet relieved with an end to this struggle in my head, heart, and soul on the way out. Bittersweet in it's true essence. The last blessing of a thought about you and at the same time the last burden. What a mad world where I should desire death to escape the thought of you but would do anything to have it back. Is this madness? Perhaps. Or possibly it is a love that even broken will never go away. Nothing compares to you. I wait here till my next life knowing that I would be a fool to search for something I will never find. There will never be another you.
Found

Delphos, OH

#2 Nov 28, 2012
Is there nothing else in life that could possibly make you happy? To be so dark and forlorn over the loss of one love? Is there no one else to love you? You should instead embrace the miracle that is life and consciousness.

The saying, "Time heals all wounds" is, in fact, true. You must allow yourself to utilize that time, though. Allow yourself time not to reflect on what has brought you into depression, but instead envision what will deliver you from it. You will be happy again. You will smile again. Though you may not see the end of the tunnel, it is there. Believe.

To quit now ensures you will never leave the darkness, but to embrace life will see you through back into the light. Seek others who will help you if you need it.

All you need is one thread, one tiny fleeting glimmer of hope, and that will be enough to pull yourself through whatever darkness temporarily surrounds you.

You are obviously intelligent and passionate, use your God given strengths to lead you through. You will be stronger. You will know you are worth more to the world and yourself. You are not defined by who loves you but by how you love yourself.

Allow yourself the time to heal. You will.
love

United States

#3 Nov 28, 2012
http://www.risa.co.uk/sla/song.php...
link to Mcarthur's Park,
song for you from the by gone sixties, hope it helps, just remember there will be another song for you, someone WILL sing it, God bless,
tree hugger

Saint Marys, OH

#4 Nov 28, 2012
OMG.....What a shmuck! hire a prostitute!
curious in richmond

Columbus, OH

#6 Nov 28, 2012
Is there any in Van wert
top of the world

Wilmington, OH

#7 Nov 28, 2012
Its not lonely up here welfare rats!!!! HAHAHAHA
wow

United States

#8 Nov 28, 2012
There is more fish I'm the sea
uandme

Findlay, OH

#9 Nov 28, 2012
Who is lost? Man or women
Lost

United States

#10 Nov 28, 2012
Male
onezeroseven

Bowling Green, KY

#11 Nov 28, 2012
Lost wrote:
With you gone, it is like the majority of me has died. I still think about you all the time. It really is bittersweet but not in the Hollywood cliche cute kind of way. It really does hurt. Ii is hard to imagine what my life will ever be like again without you. Nothing from this day forward will ever compare to what you are. you will forever consume my thoughts until the last breath I draw. A breath that will be regretful and sorrowed on the way in but yet relieved with an end to this struggle in my head, heart, and soul on the way out. Bittersweet in it's true essence. The last blessing of a thought about you and at the same time the last burden. What a mad world where I should desire death to escape the thought of you but would do anything to have it back. Is this madness? Perhaps. Or possibly it is a love that even broken will never go away. Nothing compares to you. I wait here till my next life knowing that I would be a fool to search for something I will never find. There will never be another you.
Wow u explain how I feel about someone. Sorry for your pain.
Forgotten

United States

#12 Nov 28, 2012
Hang in there lost. You will find someone again I'm sure just look somewhere other then Van Wert. Maybe try another state. Ur special someone is out there.
uandme

Findlay, OH

#13 Nov 29, 2012
Lost can be anyone. Did your loved one die. If not why are you posting in topix. What happened between you two if you are not together. If you love this women then you got two options. Move on or don't give her up with out a fight
Lost

Paulding, OH

#14 Nov 29, 2012
uandme wrote:
Lost can be anyone. Did your loved one die. If not why are you posting in topix. What happened between you two if you are not together. If you love this women then you got two options. Move on or don't give her up with out a fight
You only get one soul mate. It was real. I know I will never find that ever again. Do you know what it is like to have your soul bond to another. It changed the way I view my entire life and will forever affect my every moment.
uandme

United States

#15 Nov 29, 2012
Yes I do think of that person every single day. So what happened to yours
Lost

Paulding, OH

#16 Nov 29, 2012
uandme wrote:
Yes I do think of that person every single day. So what happened to yours
I am afraid I may never see her again. All I can do is Wait for the rest of my life not knowing what the future holds or what may come. All I can do is wait.
here is the deal

United States

#17 Nov 29, 2012
a person either loves you or they don't, you can't "put up a fight" and make someone love you, it's called stalking. I would be interested in your age, you seem young.
Grow Up

West Salem, OH

#18 Nov 29, 2012
Lost wrote:
<quoted text>
You only get one soul mate. It was real. I know I will never find that ever again. Do you know what it is like to have your soul bond to another. It changed the way I view my entire life and will forever affect my every moment.
You're insane. Do you know how many people are in this world? To believe there is only one person who can make you feel that way is crazy. You sound like some hormonal teenage girl. Maybe that why you're alone.
Lost

Paulding, OH

#19 Nov 29, 2012
here is the deal wrote:
a person either loves you or they don't, you can't "put up a fight" and make someone love you, it's called stalking. I would be interested in your age, you seem young.
Yes that is true and that is part of an understanding I have that makes this hurt so much more apparent. Your head says that you should not ever have anything to do with someone and like you said, I can't control anything but myself. So with reason I should be able to move on right? I can't. I am mature and fully grown. She has been a memory for years. I have tried and tried to move on but nothing takes away the loss. It has been years and I think about her everyday. I know in my heart I will think about her everyday for the rest of my life. It is a sad realization really. Took me a long time to realize that.
Forgotten

United States

#20 Nov 29, 2012
So then the only question is who is she? Is she still around where u see her? Is she married with kids that's why u can't try again?
why

United States

#21 Nov 29, 2012
why would you decide to post this on topix? go to the library take out the book: "How to Survive a Lost Love" if you say nothing helps, then nothing will there are millions of people who have lost loves, children, parents, etc. it's part of being human you on the other hand need some basic help in understanding and getting past grief, this is what you are dealing with, grief do some internet research, get the book and read it, go see a grief counselor or a therapist, if you aren't willing to try, then, stop spreading your negativity around to everyone else good luck

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