Amber Clark

United States

#1 Mar 1, 2013
I am writing this hoping that it will be read and understood, really understood, and not just criticized by the false, ill-educated people that have posted things in the past. Mainly “Zach”“you idiot”“YOLO” and “FYI” and the other names these individuals are hiding behind. I was taught as a young child, if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all however, I know as adults that isn’t always feasible or even possible. But, I was also taught honesty is the best policy and if you are not 100% sure what you are saying is the truth and not just a fabricated statement made by someone with nothing better to do, then you should keep your mouth closed. I am doing something that my fiancé advised against but, if there is anyone who feels you know me better than I know myself or feel that some of these awful rantings on topix.com are true I am inviting you to please forward your emails to an account I set up for this sole purpose. Now, this is me putting forward effort to answer the public’s questions since after my accident in 2008 I was put in the lime light, thanks. I want my name cleared once and for all. For my children, for my fiancé, for me, for US!
Email Address: askamberquestions@hotmail.com
you idiot

Lenoir, NC

#2 Mar 1, 2013
You wanna clear your name stop screwing everything you see and stop being a dope head.I can understand why you wanna hide who you really are,I would to if I were a dope head hoe thatll give it to anybody thatll give her some pills.Your pure trash and you know it.Hard to believe your boyfriend cant see this but why would he care,hes just like you.
hmmm

Carnesville, GA

#3 Mar 2, 2013
Well first its never an "accident", someone is always at fault. Second if you weren't driving on a suspended license you woudlnt get into "accidents", and of course there is the dwi issue with that. Lastly quit driving on a suspended license. I don't know anything about the dope allegations, which is all they are so can't comment on that.
youidiot

Lenoir, NC

#4 Mar 3, 2013
There more than allegations. You dont go to the methadone clinic for taking to many tylenol.She always hi on something.
Belinda

Fallston, NC

#5 Mar 3, 2013
This Amber chick sounds like a real POS -
Amber Clark

United States

#7 Mar 8, 2013
WellBelinda it says a lot for your intelligence level to believe this stupidity! "You Idiot"- You aren't very smart are you? When you got on topix you agree with the "terms and conditions" and 1 is you agree to their EIN number signature which can be read by law enforcement so I took out cyber stalking/bullying charges... Hope it was worth it, and to the rest of you, listen for the knock at your door too.
abcz

Lenoir, NC

#8 Mar 8, 2013
there are four derogitory posts before the one by "Belinda"...why address her first before the others? Just asking.
Amber Clark

United States

#9 Mar 8, 2013
I apologize she and "hmmm",I felt that was getting my point across, besides at least she could put a "name" unlike the rest but "You Idiot" left his "name" persay.
you idiot

Lenoir, NC

#10 Mar 8, 2013
OOOOOOOO!!!! I agreed to their Employer Identifcation Number???? Whatcha gonna do with that? Call the IRS on me.Getcha another pill and have drink.
abcz

Lenoir, NC

#11 Mar 8, 2013
I don't know if what they are saying about you is true or not. Many people in this community gave money to assist with medical bills and other needs.

A lot of people feel that if they help someone, the person they helped should act a certain way-
meaning that people may help each other out, but there is always some kinds of strings attatched.
In this case, people want a certain type of behavior.

I gave to help you out, but that was my choice to do. I did it because I cared about your welfare, not because I expected something in return.

Now whether or not the things being said about you are true or not, I don't know.

What I do know is that you meant enough to this community that they tried to help out.

Just an unbiased observation.
computer tech

Granite Falls, NC

#12 Mar 9, 2013
The problem is that everyone wanted to turn this story into a praise Jesus miracle, and subsequently expected whether be consciously or unconsciously that Amber would go on to be Florence Nightingale or something. I have observed her trying really hard to be a good person. I only just met her but I have to say I am impressed with her. She is a very loving, and caring person. She is good to her kids, as well as other people’s kids. She is obviously in love with and devoted to her fiancée, who is a very good man.
really

Belmont, NC

#13 Mar 9, 2013
abcz wrote:
I don't know if what they are saying about you is true or not. Many people in this community gave money to assist with medical bills and other needs.

A lot of people feel that if they help someone, the person they helped should act a certain way-
meaning that people may help each other out, but there is always some kinds of strings attatched.
In this case, people want a certain type of behavior.

I gave to help you out, but that was my choice to do. I did it because I cared about your welfare, not because I expected something in return.

Now whether or not the things being said about you are true or not, I don't know.

What I do know is that you meant enough to this community that they tried to help out.

Just an unbiased observation.
Good observation Abcz ... Amber, don't get caught in trap arguing on pointless issues thus lowering yourself to their level. We all have ups and downs in life but yours tend to draw excessive negative opinions. I or anyone with rational thinking skills do not believe this trash talking on Topix. My advice, disassociate yourself from those type people and be very selective in choosing future friends because trust and compassion is a rate commodity in this area. Live your life, enjoy it and don't let the negative people around you pull you down emotionally or morally. Remember, karmas a b'tch and all the negative energy they harbor towards you will make it's way back to them eventually,
computer tech

Granite Falls, NC

#14 Mar 9, 2013
really wrote:
<quoted text>
Good observation Abcz ... Amber, don't get caught in trap arguing on pointless issues thus lowering yourself to their level. We all have ups and downs in life but yours tend to draw excessive negative opinions. I or anyone with rational thinking skills do not believe this trash talking on Topix. My advice, disassociate yourself from those type people and be very selective in choosing future friends because trust and compassion is a rate commodity in this area. Live your life, enjoy it and don't let the negative people around you pull you down emotionally or morally. Remember, karmas a b'tch and all the negative energy they harbor towards you will make it's way back to them eventually,
You're exactly right. There is no way anyone could have stated it any better.
Amber Clark

United States

#15 Mar 9, 2013
"Computer Tech", "abcz", and "really"... I am sitting here looking at my computer screen with tears literally running down my face. I read the comments to my fiancée and he said,“I told you that there were those people who saw what I and a lot of others see… a totally awesome, loving young lady!” Thank you guys for stepping up and letting me know that I simply cannot harbor any resentment, animosity, or bitterness towards those of which only have negative and unconstructive things to say about me as well as others. Thank you again, you never know how little words of encouragement can mean so much. As for yourself,“you idiot”, if posting phony, derogatory statements about me and thinking having a callous feel for me make you feel better, sorry your life sucks and downing me makes you feel more superior. But, I always have loved to help people so if that’s something I can do for you, then I will toughen up. And I hate I had to waste my time with charges but I want this nonsense to stop and the best way is for me to leave it alone and let law enforcement do what they do, if you don’t believe me then fine you’ll see in due time when they serve you. Thanks guys and hopefully everyone will see someday, Amber isn’t half bad!
really

Belmont, NC

#16 Mar 9, 2013
Amber Clark wrote:
"Computer Tech", "abcz", and "really"... I am sitting here looking at my computer screen with tears literally running down my face. I read the comments to my fiancée and he said,“I told you that there were those people who saw what I and a lot of others see… a totally awesome, loving young lady!” Thank you guys for stepping up and letting me know that I simply cannot harbor any resentment, animosity, or bitterness towards those of which only have negative and unconstructive things to say about me as well as others. Thank you again, you never know how little words of encouragement can mean so much. As for yourself,“you idiot”, if posting phony, derogatory statements about me and thinking having a callous feel for me make you feel better, sorry your life sucks and downing me makes you feel more superior. But, I always have loved to help people so if that’s something I can do for you, then I will toughen up. And I hate I had to waste my time with charges but I want this nonsense to stop and the best way is for me to leave it alone and let law enforcement do what they do, if you don’t believe me then fine you’ll see in due time when they serve you. Thanks guys and hopefully everyone will see someday, Amber isn’t half bad!
Keep your spirits up and take the high road. When you look back six months from now those being so judging of you will still be in the same miserable place in their life, all while you have moved on. They will have been only a minor irritation meaning nothing in the grand scheme of your life. Good luck
hmm

Lenoir, NC

#17 Mar 9, 2013
I don't understand why someone would post on topic the run to police when someone says something bad. What does it matter what others think of u there is only one judge what everyone else thinks is just opinion and u know what they say about that its like jazz holes everybody has one
that is pure BS

Granite Falls, NC

#18 Mar 10, 2013
hmm wrote:
I don't understand why someone would post on topic the run to police when someone says something bad. What does it matter what others think of u there is only one judge what everyone else thinks is just opinion and u know what they say about that its like jazz holes everybody has one
Go ahead and post your real name here, and people can put your life under a microscope,and talk trash about YOU! How would you like that?
Amber Clark

United States

#19 Mar 10, 2013
"that is pure bs"-- You made a very valuable point, because I know One who is perfect, never sinned, and always made the right choices and never looked back and said, "I wish I would have done this differently".

"really"-- thank you very much for much needed truth to comments about me.

"Hmmm"-- there is a major difference in someone's opinion and someone "defacing" someone with very FALSE alligations, I am a mother first and foremost and I do not want untrue, rumors altering the way I am looked at as a mother.

"computer tech"-- thank you for the kid words, especially the part about my fiancee because he is a wonderful man and his selfworth should not be questioned. He mentioned to me the other day that when we first started dating that people had sad some things to him and when I ask him what he said, "That you're a good mother, etc. And as for the bad, that doesn't matter, let's just say you made them into a big LIE!"

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