My son masturbating

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secret

United States

#1 Apr 4, 2011
As a mom how do youu talk to your son @ this after you catch him?
huh

Crystal City, TX

#2 Apr 4, 2011
secret wrote:
As a mom how do youu talk to your son @ this after you catch him?
U don't! What do u want to talk to him about? How to do it right? If anything just have a conversation about safe sex bc evidently he is or will b sexually physically active with a partner. It's obvious he is leaning towards it. Good luck!
iCEY

San Antonio, TX

#3 Apr 4, 2011
YOU DON'T!!!!
thts is the fathers part and job.
im sure he already feels uncomfortable & embaressed bcuz his mother jst cought him masterbating, and yu wnt to make it worse by tlking to him abt it?!?!??
NO!!!!
jst let the father take care of it.
no offense bt im sure he knws more of what is going on in the young boys head than yu would as a woman/mother....
opinion

San Antonio, TX

#4 Apr 4, 2011
You talk to him, if YOUR comfortable doing it. You already know he's gonna be uncomfortable, at least get informed so there isn't two people in the room that are confused. I don't think masturbation is the issue, since (in my opinion) it's a natural thing. BUT this is a great jumping point to have the dreaded sex talk. If he's masturbating he's at least thinking about sex, if not doing it already. & I wouldn't go 'religious' on him, just inform him of the facts of the situation.
sensitive

United States

#5 Apr 4, 2011
This is a sensitive area, but I am gonna say, don't say anything to him. He is soooooo embarrased already...lol...this sounds like the father from American Pie...lol...anyway...maybe in a week or two....you could ask him if he has any questions about sex...if he says no...then....that means his friends have prolly already told him about it....I see alot of people are saying for the dad to do it....they are only assuming the dad is in the picture.....I know sometimes the dad isn't in it....then it's all up to the mom to play both rolls. good luck....(p.s.- I got caught by my mother also when I was in high school...(i'm a male)....she never mentioned it and that was just fine with me...haha
THE _Man

San Antonio, TX

#6 Apr 4, 2011
Man, thats gonna bother him for years; the fact you caught him. Here's a fact for mom's; boys/men are born with an excess of testosterone which drives him to chase the elusive split-tailed deer 24/7/365. Men wake with wood and more often than not go to sleep with it; its our curse. To men, the Johnson standing at attention, is like a serious itch that sometimes has to be scratched. Its uncomfortable and a sign of elevated testosterone. There are two solutions to the aforementioned, screw someone or shampoo the buffalo. Shampooing the buffalo, while not the most pleasant thought to a mother should be a more desirable alternative to becoming a grandmother would it not? A date with fistina is better than him coming home introducing you to his pregnant girlfriend no? Lastly, it's NORMAL, don't worry about it. Just keep him away from the family fruit bowl, pie's, fresh loaves of bread and inspect all food items prior to eating for the next few years :)
mike

United States

#7 Apr 4, 2011
If he's young, you should let him know he's doing nothing wrong and every kid does it. Also let him know that he shouldn't be embarrassed to ask any questions.
wow

Elgin, TX

#8 Apr 4, 2011
Guess you'll knock next time you walk into his room or the bathroom, huh?
throwthatd

Elgin, TX

#9 Apr 4, 2011
Hello,it is common for this to happen but embarrasing to see it up front...it sounds that maybe your a single mom? So perhaps u can have your brother/an uncle if there is one talk to him as a father figure.that may help ease your discomfort an that there's family tlc n support.then that will posibly in return open the door between u 2 to b more open n "an open door policy"-no pun intended.but best of true luck n try not to punish,that may just make him rebel towards other things...hope this may help u or someone else as a single mom or dad.
secret

United States

#10 Apr 4, 2011
Thank you for the feedback all may help yes I am single and throws approach may just work Thanks again people it isn't easy (sigh)
is he

United States

#11 Apr 4, 2011
was he hung like a horse? lol
not cool

United States

#12 Apr 4, 2011
is he wrote:
was he hung like a horse? lol
i see u have a twisted sense of humor.....but you have issues as well......
Shouldve

San Antonio, TX

#13 Apr 7, 2011
U Shouldve offered to do it for him:)
Blah

Houston, TX

#14 Apr 8, 2011
This is to the mother for being dumb and clueless!! You should've kept this info to yourself or talked to your son's father or even to your son. You are so retarded to come onto topix and share this personal info with a bunch of strangers. I bet you got turned on and wanted to share this with everyone lmao!!! Must be a white dumb broad.
thats harsh

United States

#15 Apr 9, 2011
Blah wrote:
This is to the mother for being dumb and clueless!! You should've kept this info to yourself or talked to your son's father or even to your son. You are so retarded to come onto topix and share this personal info with a bunch of strangers. I bet you got turned on and wanted to share this with everyone lmao!!! Must be a white dumb broad.
I dont see anything wrong with telling topix about whats on someones mind. some people (like me) have no one else to talk to so topix provides an "outlet" for some people instead of them just holding it all in. Just think about that.
TO THE MOTHER

Eagle Pass, TX

#16 Apr 9, 2011
Blah wrote:
This is to the mother for being dumb and clueless!! You should've kept this info to yourself or talked to your son's father or even to your son. You are so retarded to come onto topix and share this personal info with a bunch of strangers. I bet you got turned on and wanted to share this with everyone lmao!!! Must be a white dumb broad.
I think many mothers would want to ask and feel very uncomftable!! I have 3 boys and would want to ask aswell. coming here on topix may not be the best place as we can see by this stup1d comment, but it discretely lets you vent and find some answers. It seems like your not the only mother out their, I to would want to know if I catch my son doing that. I think its normal.
I wonder

Houston, TX

#17 Apr 9, 2011
How do you think her son feels that his own mother is airing their dirty laundry on here? What a dumb nut!!! She just wants attention.
denmoooo

Denver, CO

#18 Apr 9, 2011
Once a boy finds out about the 'joy stick' there isn't any discussion that can replace the 'fun factor' Buy him a Penthouse and tell him to have fun.
mia

San Antonio, TX

#19 Apr 10, 2011
denmoooo wrote:
Once a boy finds out about the 'joy stick' there isn't any discussion that can replace the 'fun factor' Buy him a Penthouse and tell him to have fun.
actually there is something that can replace the toy factor, it's called a woman. but even men around here dont know that. come to san antonio boy and you'll leave a man.
haa

Houston, TX

#21 Apr 11, 2011
funniest topix iv read on this website

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