how can someone who supposedly loves ...

how can someone who supposedly loves you turn around and beat you?

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lost

Ballwin, MO

#1 Jan 21, 2013
Crushed.
reality

Ballwin, MO

#2 Jan 21, 2013
Well all I have to say is if you stay with a abusive man, then you deserve to b beat. Your choosing to b beat cause you know its happening and u remain there. Your fault. And he doesn't love you. He is in love with mentaly controlling you threw mind games and when that's threated he uses physical control to keep his control in place.
reality

Ballwin, MO

#3 Jan 21, 2013
Let me guess he's mexican
Lost

Ballwin, MO

#4 Jan 21, 2013
He's white!);
reality

Ballwin, MO

#5 Jan 21, 2013
Lol I'm sure.
lost

Ballwin, MO

#6 Jan 21, 2013
reality wrote:
Well all I have to say is if you stay with a abusive man, then you deserve to b beat. Your choosing to b beat cause you know its happening and u remain there. Your fault. And he doesn't love you. He is in love with mentaly controlling you threw mind games and when that's threated he uses physical control to keep his control in place.
I believe that. You are right. I've never let men hit me, I've never been hit before this. This is the third time, getting squarely punched in the face like a man. It hurts. It hurts my heart more. Its time to walk away. Your right. If I stay, hell continue. I'm afraid eventually, hell kill me. Time to move on.
reality

Ballwin, MO

#7 Jan 21, 2013
Um you do know, that should have been your choice the first time. So you will b single lol just playing
Wow

Carrizo Springs, TX

#9 Jan 21, 2013
You sound young look here it NOT RIGHT FOR HIM TO BE PUTING HIS HANDS ON YOU even more if you got kids what is he showing for them to be man beaters or get beat on is ok? H-ELL NO what you need to do is call the cops an file a REPORT! oR BETTER YET WALK WAY LET HIM be the loswho lost out on you and move on to something better in life.A man like that are nothing but pathic gods who should be rolling over to di e! Good luck to you i hope you do something about this.
WTF

United States

#10 Jan 21, 2013
He don't love you.... Sorry!!
put me in coach

Dallas, TX

#11 Jan 21, 2013
There is better out there, just got to take that different road, the one there on is just going in circles, get out of your comfort zone....that's the hardest step
Rose

Ballwin, MO

#12 Jan 21, 2013
It's all about control. I just got out of a marriage like that. As long as I was submissive everything was great. The minute I questioned anything, I got verbal abuse and when that didn't work it became physical. No person deserves to be abused. It is hard to walk away and not know how you will provide for yourself and children if you have him. If you are strong enough to deal with his abuse, you are strong enough to walk away. Life can be tough but you can make it on your own. Sometimes you have to downgrade your lifestyle but it's worth it in the long run. You will soon realize you were more alone with them than without.
mex

Houston, TX

#13 Jan 21, 2013
I'm not a doc but, I would think they need help and he's takig it out on you. Something with his past or something. If you can't help him. He needs to deal with it his own way.
lost

Ballwin, MO

#14 Jan 21, 2013
Rose wrote:
It's all about control. I just got out of a marriage like that. As long as I was submissive everything was great. The minute I questioned anything, I got verbal abuse and when that didn't work it became physical. No person deserves to be abused. It is hard to walk away and not know how you will provide for yourself and children if you have him. If you are strong enough to deal with his abuse, you are strong enough to walk away. Life can be tough but you can make it on your own. Sometimes you have to downgrade your lifestyle but it's worth it in the long run. You will soon realize you were more alone with them than without.
Thank you so much.
reality

Ballwin, MO

#15 Jan 21, 2013
Are you white
Friend

Ballwin, MO

#17 Jan 21, 2013
It's true what rose said its not easy but take that step and ull see just don't look back...
Coward

Eagle Pass, TX

#18 Jan 22, 2013
You deserve a good man to treat you right, not a coward that puts his hands on you. Leave him right away and make sure you call the police on him so he can get what he deserves. Men think they look so cool abusing women verbally, mentally, and physically, but all they are doing is looking like fools. I feel so sorry for those men. I hope god can forgive them.
miss spice

Uvalde, TX

#19 Jan 23, 2013
my ex hit me and i was too dumb to leave until one day i left out of town good luck i will pray for you

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